Frequently Asked Questions
Short answers to what people ask most. For step-by-step help with the chat itself, see chat help.
Questions
Is it free, and do I have to register?
Free, and no. Every room works as a guest, including voice and video. Registering is optional: it reserves your nickname and carries your badges and settings between visits.
How old do I have to be?
Eighteen. The site carries adult content throughout, and accounts found to belong to minors are removed on sight and reported.
Can I use it on a phone?
Yes, in the mobile browser on Android and iOS, camera included. There is no app to install. On iPhone open the site in Safari itself, as in-app browsers usually block camera access.
Which language should I chat in?
English in the main rooms (sex chat, adult chat, video chat and the LGBTQ rooms), because those bring together people from everywhere and English is what everyone present has in common. The language and country rooms are exactly where your own language belongs, and nobody will ask you to switch there.
What kind of pictures can I send?
Adult images are allowed in public and private windows between adults. Anything illegal is not, and neither is violent or abusive imagery. Everything you send should be safe for the other over-18s in the room to open.
Can I record or screenshot someone on cam?
No, and this one is serious. Recording or screenshotting a public or private cam without the other person's agreement is a privacy violation and in many countries a crime. If footage broadcast here turns up elsewhere online we pursue its removal and act on the account responsible.
What gets me banned or frozen?
Flooding the room with repeated messages triggers an automatic freeze: you cannot post for five minutes, then it lifts by itself. Advertising, posting links or selling cam shows gets you banned by a moderator. Harassment, sharing personal details and anything involving minors are permanent, and the last of those is reported to the authorities.
Should I share my personal details?
No. Your phone number, address, workplace and social accounts have no place in a room full of strangers, in public or in private. Once they are out you cannot take them back, and it is the most common first step in every scam that runs on this kind of site. See our safety tips.
Can men use the lesbian room?
No. It is for women, and men who join to spectate are removed immediately and without a warning. The adult and gay rooms are open to everyone.
Who gets a VIP badge?
Verified female members, free of charge. Verification is simple: a moderator or admin will ask you to wave on cam, which is enough to confirm there is a real person behind the account.
Can men get VIP?
No. VIP is for verified women. That is the entire point of it, and opening it up would remove the reason it exists. Men earn PRO instead, which is awarded on time and standing in the community rather than gender.
Are VIP members paid to be here?
No. They are regular chatters exactly like you, not staff and not on a payroll. The badge marks someone who has been verified, nothing more.
Are conversations recorded?
Moderators can review public room logs in order to handle reports. Video is peer-to-peer and is not stored by us, but nothing prevents the person you are talking to from capturing their own screen, so treat anything on cam as capturable.
How do I keep my real name private?
Use a nickname unconnected to your other accounts, and change it whenever you like with the rename option in the chat. Do not reuse a handle from social media: it is the easiest way for somebody to find the rest of your life.
Does the site use cookies?
Yes. A session cookie keeps you signed in, a theme cookie remembers light or dark, and your browser caches images, scripts and stylesheets so the site loads faster next time. Details are in the cookie policy.
How do I become a moderator?
Moderators are invited from among regulars who have been around long enough to be trusted with the room log and the ban button. There is no application form.
How do I delete my account?
Email [email protected] from the registered address. Guest sessions leave no account behind to delete.
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