-When Imagination Meets Reality-

[JUPITER]

Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Write me ur view...

​

1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

​

 

[UnknownGuy]

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Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Wrire me ur view...

​

1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

​

wrire...?

 

[JUPITER]

wrire...?

Fixed boss... now u can reply

 

[UnknownGuy]

1. I’d focus on the connection we already share. Sometimes attraction grows with time and deeper understanding.

2. Yes, emotional bonds can be even stronger. When two people truly connect, looks matter less.

3. Yes, but I focus on how they make me feel inside.

4. By being open, honest, and not overthinking. Just enjoy getting to know them.

 

[Garygoodboy]

View attachment 322388


Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Write me ur view...

​

1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

​

1, in my own opinion it’s not always what the person looks like but more the personality

2, yes I think the bond can still carry on even without the physical attraction, kindness caring and love can easily overcome this

3, not at all, I’ve always admired personalities before looks

4, by talking to them, assess the possible expectations and then in reality are they both compatable

 

[jasminee]

That's true some times we love a virtual person more than real one and get attracted to each other and feeling lonely when we didn't talk to that person(⁠✿⁠♡⁠‿⁠♡)


1.It's common to lost interest after seeing person bcz we make a different image and then imagination didn't meet reality if I lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though i had a strong emotional connection I will give mine self time to make mine reality and imagination same but if it can't be same so I guess it's better to be apart instead having a heavy heart...those feelings will eventually fade away I might consider giving a try....I would make it explicit to him you might not find what you are looking for and that you are merely giving it a shot not dedicating yourself to him .....


2.The beauty of a person’s physical body has no relationship to the beauty of that person’s soul We lust with our bodies we love with our souls Lust fades with time and age,but love grows deeper and stronger with time because love is not based upon physical characteristics but on the depth and experience of person’s soul if you seek love based only on physical beauty you are missing some great opportunities and possibilities find a perfect soul for your soul to have that person will be the most beautiful person to spend lifetime with...(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠✧⁠*⁠。...


3.Of course it’s possible to be disappointed but there are measures you can take to make it improbable for you not to know if things will go well or not when you meet Firstly don’t just text Make sure to call and hear each other’s voices and video to see each other’s faces Send pictures of each other which are flattering so you see what you live like Talk about your work your family Talk about your worries problems you have had and help each other out on how to solve them Cry in front of each other laugh in front of each other don’t be afraid to show strong feelings which I am doing with Sammy and get connected to him...so yes I am fallen for samshady personality not his looks heheh....(⁠✿⁠ ⁠♡⁠‿⁠♡⁠)

4.First, make sure your head is in the correct place before initiating anything Be prepared to walk away Don't ignore red flags Stop building expectations in your own head Be honest with yourself and them Physical doesn't mean anything without connecting mentally The more connected you are mentally the more connected you will be physically Again… don't be afraid to walk away You control the tempo....Slow down if things are going to fast Don't leave the person on read If you don't appreciate it, don't do it to the other person....


(I guess I answered too much so it's enough now hehehe)....

 

[Anikket]

View attachment 322388


Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Write me ur view...

​

1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

​

2. Yes it is possible

3. Never

4. By controlling our inner rummination on that particular person

 

[Ashwin Singh]

View attachment 322388


Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Write me ur view...

​

1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

​

Yes it's really true that we develop a very strong and deep connection with the people we meet or talk online..sometimes we feel tht we know them from many years and want them to talk regularly and feel a great pleasure in talking to them like peace.


1. Many people are there who looses attraction to someone after seeing them and starts ignoring but I feel tht this shouldn't be done...If I have attraction to someone I wouldn't loose my attraction after seeing her instead I will be more attractive towards her bcoz after having so much conversation with her I will know everything about tht person about how pure heart and soul she is having it about the bonds and connections we shared while chatting...Here the looks after seeing her doesn't changes anything...As we had a great bonding and deep connections through daily chats or talking to her.

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2. Yes, It is possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction bcoz for me physical attraction is not only the thing...the kind of love,caring each other,giving respect to each other can tell about a person how pure she is and her soul is...So basically physical attraction doesn't matter any how.



3. Yes I have fallen for someone's personality online but I never felt different after seeing her bcoz I already told that for me looks doesn't matter...I can feel her and sense her and say how pure heart and soul she is having it and also we develop a great bonding and connections among ourselves.


4. We should not think much about the person before knowing them properly and should not make any opinions abt them...Just talk them simple, make them comfortable and be nice and polite and show respect towards them.

 

[JUPITER]

2. Yes it is possible

3. Never

4. By controlling our inner rummination on that particular person

U forgot about number 1

 

[Anshhi]

View attachment 322388


Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Write me ur view...

​

1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

​

1. Losing attraction after meeting can be disheartening. Be honest with yourself and the other person. If the connection is valuable, explore ways to nurture it beyond physical attraction. If not, it's okay to acknowledge the shift in feelings and potentially reevaluate the relationship.

2. Yes, bonds can persist without physical attraction. Emotional intimacy, shared values, and mutual support can sustain relationships. However, both parties should be on the same page and willing to adapt.

3. (From a hypothetical perspective) Many people have experienced this online-offline disconnect. It's natural for perceptions to change when reality meets imagination.

4. To prevent unrealistic expectations:
- Avoid over-imagining or idealizing someone based on limited online interactions.
- Focus on shared interests, values, and personality traits.
- Gradually build familiarity through various communication channels.
- Be open-minded and flexible when meeting in person.
- Communicate openly about expectations and feelings.

Ultimately, relationships involve growth, understanding, and compromise. It's essential to prioritize emotional connection, mutual respect, and honest communication.
*A_AICS

 

[JUPITER]

1. I’d focus on the connection we already share. Sometimes attraction grows with time and deeper understanding.

2. Yes, emotional bonds can be even stronger. When two people truly connect, looks matter less.

3. Yes, but I focus on how they make me feel inside.

4. By being open, honest, and not overthinking. Just enjoy getting to know them.

Online relationships take time to build trust people often worry "what if they don’t like me" nobody likes rejection..but small talk can help It’s normal if someone doesn’t feel a connection..we all like different things still it’s better to be honest than to tell a sweet lie

 

[Anikket]

U forgot about number 1

Yes because I was never stuck in that type of situation..


But u want to know my thoughts on that topic..

1.If she managed to impress me even without showing her pics and if I got attached strongly

THEN MAI US LADKI KO DEKHKR KUCH DINO BAAD BATA DUNGA KI AB SE KABHI MUJHE APNI PIC MAT BHEJNA

ISKE BAAD MAI US LADKI KO IMAGINE KRUNGA APNE MIND ME JISNE MUJHE IMPRESS KIYA THA AUR USI PERSONALITY/FACE KO APNE MIND ME MANIPULATE KR DUNGA ..


"BUT HAAN MAI USE KABHI BHI NHI CHHOD PAAUNGA JAB TAK KI WO MUJHME KAMIYA NIKALKR MERE SE BORE/DISATTACHED HO JAYE"

 

[JUPITER]

That's true some times we love a virtual person more than real one and get attracted to each other and feeling lonely when we didn't talk to that person(⁠✿⁠♡⁠‿⁠♡)


1.It's common to lost interest after seeing person bcz we make a different image and then imagination didn't meet reality if I lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though i had a strong emotional connection I will give mine self time to make mine reality and imagination same but if it can't be same so I guess it's better to be apart instead having a heavy heart...those feelings will eventually fade away I might consider giving a try....I would make it explicit to him you might not find what you are looking for and that you are merely giving it a shot not dedicating yourself to him .....


2.The beauty of a person’s physical body has no relationship to the beauty of that person’s soul We lust with our bodies we love with our souls Lust fades with time and age,but love grows deeper and stronger with time because love is not based upon physical characteristics but on the depth and experience of person’s soul if you seek love based only on physical beauty you are missing some great opportunities and possibilities find a perfect soul for your soul to have that person will be the most beautiful person to spend lifetime with...(⁠◍⁠•⁠ᴗ⁠•⁠◍⁠)⁠✧⁠*⁠。...


3.Of course it’s possible to be disappointed but there are measures you can take to make it improbable for you not to know if things will go well or not when you meet Firstly don’t just text Make sure to call and hear each other’s voices and video to see each other’s faces Send pictures of each other which are flattering so you see what you live like Talk about your work your family Talk about your worries problems you have had and help each other out on how to solve them Cry in front of each other laugh in front of each other don’t be afraid to show strong feelings which I am doing with Sammy and get connected to him...so yes I am fallen for samshady personality not his looks heheh....(⁠✿⁠ ⁠♡⁠‿⁠♡⁠)

4.First, make sure your head is in the correct place before initiating anything Be prepared to walk away Don't ignore red flags Stop building expectations in your own head Be honest with yourself and them Physical doesn't mean anything without connecting mentally The more connected you are mentally the more connected you will be physically Again… don't be afraid to walk away You control the tempo....Slow down if things are going to fast Don't leave the person on read If you don't appreciate it, don't do it to the other person....


(I guess I answered too much so it's enough now hehehe)....

Wow jannuu you shared so many deep and honest thoughts.. you're right online connections can feel stronger than real ones but reality sometimes dsnt match our imagination still.. honesty..emotional bonding and open communication matter more than just looks love grows from the soul not just appearance..and yes taking things slow staying real and being ready to walk away if needed that’s the best way to protect your heart I admire how you're handling things with Sammy It shows strength and maturity ️️

Sometimes fights happen too.. but its natural ..fight it's just showing that the person it's really important for us... that we care .. it means the words and actions affect us... its diffrent kind of " fight " because we don't arque with people who don't matter to us ... they might hurt us for little time and we forgot .

 

[JUPITER]

Yes it's really true that we develop a very strong and deep connection with the people we meet or talk online..sometimes we feel tht we know them from many years and want them to talk regularly and feel a great pleasure in talking to them like peace.


1. Many people are there who looses attraction to someone after seeing them and starts ignoring but I feel tht this shouldn't be done...If I have attraction to someone I wouldn't loose my attraction after seeing her instead I will be more attractive towards her bcoz after having so much conversation with her I will know everything about tht person about how pure heart and soul she is having it about the bonds and connections we shared while chatting...Here the looks after seeing her doesn't changes anything...As we had a great bonding and deep connections through daily chats or talking to her.

I
2. Yes, It is possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction bcoz for me physical attraction is not only the thing...the kind of love,caring each other,giving respect to each other can tell about a person how pure she is and her soul is...So basically physical attraction doesn't matter any how.



3. Yes I have fallen for someone's personality online but I never felt different after seeing her bcoz I already told that for me looks doesn't matter...I can feel her and sense her and say how pure heart and soul she is having it and also we develop a great bonding and connections among ourselves.


4. We should not think much about the person before knowing them properly and should not make any opinions abt them...Just talk them simple, make them comfortable and be nice and polite and show respect towards them.

Its truly special to fall for someones personality that means you’re not just looking at their face. but seeing their heart.. their soul and the way they treat others when you connect with someone on a deeper level through honest talks shared feelings and emotional support..you start to feel their presence in your life in a meaningful way

Even if you see them later and they look different from what you imagined it doesn’t matter because by then you already know who they are inside their kindness.their care.. the way they understand you ..that's what stays with you

Looks may fade with time.. but a beautiful soul stays forever and when you truly feel someone from the inside thats the kind of bond that lasts

• ♡ •​

 

[Ashwin Singh]

Its truly special to fall for someones personality that means you’re not just looking at their face. but seeing their heart.. their soul and the way they treat others when you connect with someone on a deeper level through honest talks shared feelings and emotional support..you start to feel their presence in your life in a meaningful way

Even if you see them later and they look different from what you imagined it doesn’t matter because by then you already know who they are inside their kindness.their care.. the way they understand you ..that's what stays with you

Looks may fade with time.. but a beautiful soul stays forever and when you truly feel someone from the inside thats the kind of bond that lasts

• ♡ •​

Exactly my point

 

[Anikket]

realitiy

IMAGINATION

ETERNAL

 

[criss cross]

View attachment 322388


Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Write me ur view...

​

1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

​

1. I'd be honest, not fake feelings.


2. Yes, if both value the emotional bond.


3. Yes, and it taught me to stay real.


4. Don’t idealize—meet early, stay
present.

 

[JUPITER]

1. I'd be honest, not fake feelings.


2. Yes, if both value the emotional bond.


3. Yes, and it taught me to stay real.


4. Don’t idealize—meet early, stay
present.

Yes we should at start tell what we expect from other person ... what we like and what we dislike ... so other person won't be shock after .. I belive that we should be open at start regrading our likes and expectations.... so after we won't get disappointment

 

[criss cross]

Yes we should at start tell what we expect from other person ... what we like and what we dislike ... so other person won't be shock after .. I belive that we should be open at start regrading our likes and expectations.... so after we won't get disappointment

Absolutely, being open from the start about our likes, dislikes, and expectations builds clarity and helps avoid misunderstandings later. Honesty early on saves a lot of pain down the road.

 

[jasminee]

Wow jannuu you shared so many deep and honest thoughts.. you're right online connections can feel stronger than real ones but reality sometimes dsnt match our imagination still.. honesty..emotional bonding and open communication matter more than just looks love grows from the soul not just appearance..and yes taking things slow staying real and being ready to walk away if needed that’s the best way to protect your heart I admire how you're handling things with Sammy It shows strength and maturity ️️

Sometimes fights happen too.. but its natural ..fight it's just showing that the person it's really important for us... that we care .. it means the words and actions affect us... its diffrent kind of " fight " because we don't arque with people who don't matter to us ... they might hurt us for little time and we forgot .

Hehe thank you jaanu♡♡ yesss exactly babe.....