-When Imagination Meets Reality-

[samshady]

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Sometimes we build a strong emotional
connection with someone online ...through
daily chats shared thoughts..laugh.. and
maybe even late night conversations
slowly you start imagining what this person
might look like or how they'd act in real life
You create a version of them in your mind
that feels so real...

But then... .you finally see each other..maybe
it's a shared picture a video call or even
meeting in person .... and something inside
you quietly shifts.. It's not that they did
something wrong ..It's not that they aren't kind
or smart or everything they promised to be..
But the face doesn't match the voice in your
head..the image doesn't fit the story you
built..

And suddenly... all the excitement..the
butterflies...the imagined future... it starts
fading not out of cruelty..but because
attraction...that silent magnetic pull just
isn't there. you're left feeling guilty
confused... You wonder if everything you
shared was a lie or if you were the one who
created the lie in your own mind




Write me ur view...

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1. What would you do if you lost attraction to someone after seeing them even though you had a strong emotional connection?

2. Is it possible to keep the bond going even without physical attraction?

3.Have you ever fallen for someone’s personality online but felt different after seeing them?

4. How can we prevent building unrealistic expectations before meeting someone?

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so here i am today to reply on it hehe my answers are ofc in respect to mine @jasminee i mean she is refrence of context
so fr the first question

1. for me losing attraction with physical traits have never been a option i have never looked anyone or ad a crush or love with physical traits but people do have it so i would say there is a perfect balance of both if you have a strong emotional connection try to let things out in front of that person tell them you have lost attraction things are like this the other person will help you fix it if it doesnt happen then its better to leave them with a good heart
2. for me its a straight yes i loved jasminee without seeing her for so many days and for me it was opposite her physical looks were better than what i thought of i mean she is miss universe to mine eyes from the first day itself but this paglu doesnt get it
i guess without physical attraction a relationship can go but both the people should love each other soulfully not theri physical attraction the love through emotions should be far far greater that looks shouldnt even matter but having that kind of love is also rare
3. yess of course it happens we feel different after seeing them when i first saw @jasminee i was like she is way too beautiful she is looks way too matured and big i am like a kidd in front of her but when i see her without filter she looks like a cute little mine munchkin baby she is i felt different i hold those feeling i found the beauty in her imperfections in her flaws and in mine eyes i made her the most beautiful girl in the world and yes no one can be more beautiful than her to my eyes
for the world idc care to mine eyes she a angel a queen the prettiest the most beautiful girl in the world
so if you feel different after seeing someone try to love their personality their efforts their emotions you might start loving their physical attributes also
4. its not easy to prevent it but i guess should always be like okay okay there are bad things but there are good things too right have the good things does all the good things satisfy you ? then change their bad things into good things

i mean expectations are get broken both of you need to fix it with each other


idk how are my answers are they of any help or not jupi behna i guess its very one sided answers but i mean for me to comment on physical attributes is hard because my love language has never been physical appereance but truly @jasminee looks jaw dropping i mean okay lol lemme end it too much tareef of jasminee