Why I Choose Silence !!!

[AsikAwara]

Why I don't speak when I am angry?


Have you ever noticed how rarely ANGER and Wisdom seem to arrive at the same time?

Think about someone you genuinely respect :-

Your parents, ​

Siblings, ​

Close friends, or ​

Even yourself, ​

truly angry and still speaking with complete clarity.

Most of the time, anger doesn't make us say what we actually feel. It makes us say what we feel in that moment.

And perhaps that's the reason silence becomes important.

"Not every silence is weakness, or u r wrong in that situation."


Sometimes, walking away from an argument is simply choosing not to let a temporary emotion make a permanent statement.


Before letting the words out...

Give it five minutes

Step away
​

Let the mind settle​

Because

...The situation may not change in those five minutes, but you might...
​

And once the anger passes,

• you may still disagree,
• you may still be hurt, and
• you may still need to say something.

But you'll probably say it with a clearer mind.

Maybe maturity isn't about never getting angry. Maybe it's about


**Knowing when not to let your anger speak for you.**


.


PS: The 2nd line is not about people pleasing, by people I meant people whom u care for.

 

[Dark tristan]

Why I don't speak when I am angry?


Have you ever noticed how rarely ANGER and Wisdom seem to arrive at the same time?

Think about someone you genuinely respect :-

Your parents, ​

Siblings, ​

Close friends, or ​

Even yourself, ​

truly angry and still speaking with complete clarity.

Most of the time, anger doesn't make us say what we actually feel. It makes us say what we feel in that moment.

And perhaps that's the reason silence becomes important.

"Not every silence is weakness, or u r wrong in that situation."


Sometimes, walking away from an argument is simply choosing not to let a temporary emotion make a permanent statement.


Before letting the words out...

Give it five minutes

Step away
​

Let the mind settle​

Because

...The situation may not change in those five minutes, but you might...
​

And once the anger passes,

• you may still disagree,
• you may still be hurt, and
• you may still need to say something.

But you'll probably say it with a clearer mind.

Maybe maturity isn't about never getting angry. Maybe it's about


**Knowing when not to let your anger speak for you.**


.
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PS: The 2nd line is not about people pleasing, by people I meant people whom u care for.

Same same

 

[cheetra]

Whenever something is not to our liking, we get uncomfortable or at times upset, which causes a disturbance in our thoughts that turns into anger. Catching a changing thought at its onset is best, but if anger has already risen, as you rightly said, keeping quiet and taking a stroll is better than ruining a close relationship.

 

[Honey bunch]

Why I don't speak when I am angry?


Have you ever noticed how rarely ANGER and Wisdom seem to arrive at the same time?

Think about someone you genuinely respect :-

Your parents, ​

Siblings, ​

Close friends, or ​

Even yourself, ​

truly angry and still speaking with complete clarity.

Most of the time, anger doesn't make us say what we actually feel. It makes us say what we feel in that moment.

And perhaps that's the reason silence becomes important.

"Not every silence is weakness, or u r wrong in that situation."


Sometimes, walking away from an argument is simply choosing not to let a temporary emotion make a permanent statement.


Before letting the words out...

Give it five minutes

Step away
​

Let the mind settle​

Because

...The situation may not change in those five minutes, but you might...
​

And once the anger passes,

• you may still disagree,
• you may still be hurt, and
• you may still need to say something.

But you'll probably say it with a clearer mind.

Maybe maturity isn't about never getting angry. Maybe it's about


**Knowing when not to let your anger speak for you.**


.
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PS: The 2nd line is not about people pleasing, by people I meant people whom u care for.

Yeah, I understand that. Sometimes when we are hurt or angry, it’s better to stay quiet for a while and give ourselves time to calm down. It can save us from saying things we don’t really mean.​

 

[OGRE]

Why I don't speak when I am angry?


Have you ever noticed how rarely ANGER and Wisdom seem to arrive at the same time?

Think about someone you genuinely respect :-

Your parents, ​

Siblings, ​

Close friends, or ​

Even yourself, ​

truly angry and still speaking with complete clarity.

Most of the time, anger doesn't make us say what we actually feel. It makes us say what we feel in that moment.

And perhaps that's the reason silence becomes important.

"Not every silence is weakness, or u r wrong in that situation."


Sometimes, walking away from an argument is simply choosing not to let a temporary emotion make a permanent statement.


Before letting the words out...

Give it five minutes

Step away
​

Let the mind settle​

Because

...The situation may not change in those five minutes, but you might...
​

And once the anger passes,

• you may still disagree,
• you may still be hurt, and
• you may still need to say something.

But you'll probably say it with a clearer mind.

Maybe maturity isn't about never getting angry. Maybe it's about


**Knowing when not to let your anger speak for you.**


.
View attachment 433181

PS: The 2nd line is not about people pleasing, by people I meant people whom u care for.

Silence in anger isn’t weakness; sometimes it’s the strongest form of self-control. Well said.