When “Righteous” Turns Rotten and the Monkey Joins In

[TheOG]

Let me say this once, and for all—I have nothing to do with some of the posts playing out on that thread. But I’ve watched long enough to speak the truth.

The most disgusting part i want to highlight in the message i just replied to? The person behind it all has admitted to their actions again—with zero guilt, zero reflection, and absolutely no remorse. And somehow, this vile behavior is still being brushed aside. How many more times will people look the other way?

If this is the kind of mentality that thrives in Telugu chat—where abuse is normalized and women are constantly targeted—then frankly, that space is rotting from within. I feel genuine heartbreak for the women who’ve already been hurt by this man’s actions. And deep concern for the next unsuspecting person who’ll fall victim while others stay silent.

It’s not just shameful—it’s inhuman. And if anyone still chooses to support or protect him, you’re just as responsible.

This isn’t just another messy thread. This is a wake-up call to everyone

I'm asking one and only question since a long time and u know me very well.. I just raise my voice when staff isn't taking any action against abusers ( including me sometimes ) .. I got kicked muted even banned multiple times but what u said above ( a girl ) ? i didn't harrassed any female personally .. I just asked to take appropriate actions when you people are online .. and I also asked the same to our admins ( hades , master blaster, kanna , nilani , witcher, sssingh, pinkcandy) but I don't see any action ... But I have noticed one thing " WHEN IT COMES TO STAFF ( MOD OR ROOM MOD ) ALL THE STAFF MEMBERS ARE UNITED and when the same issue happened to few telugu room users ( females ) I don't know what action u guys took .. Atleast haven't created a post or anything regarding those complaints . . why this partiality ?

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

let me ask you this have you or are you ever privy to what is discussed by me ,@Administrator @Hades and staff in our private groups outside of zozo or are you just assuming what you see IS the truth.
now everyone knows i deal with SEX CHAT ,i do not have admin powers on IC side but my name and yes when i say name i mean my REAL id is connected to zozo (on cybercrimes reports my REAL id name ,addr
ess ,phone number ) aswell as my position as CO owner along side Hades who real name is on the servers . as for what you assume you know we take in account what users say but only in account and not in trust , we get stories from both sides ,we keep watch ,be look up past history and sometimes if it just what we assume is nothing but childish behavoir then we just leave it because IGNORANCE is the best weapon ,when you give attention seekers attention they thrive ,you ignore them and show they can't effect you then they give up.
it also gives you insight into who people are because unless they are bots pretty sure the words they type come from a human being ,so if those abusers can say that online you can sure as hell know they will or do abuse ,body shame and have a total disrespect for people and women in real

as we say ASSHOLES come in all colors and races and when it comes to abuse i've dealt with it physically ,mentally and emotionally to a point i considered only worthy of being starved ,beaten and broken until one day the monster kicked my unborn child from out of me and i was in a coma for 3 weeks, and even to this day that monster still walks free and has our daughters weekends . it took me years to not panic when i forgot to put the salt on my table at dinner , to eat a meal and not wait for left overs ,that i was allowed to not do housework when i didn't want to and that it was ok to CRY
i have certificates where i became a assistant volunteer in a shelter for rape and domestic violance victims and i help women older then me rebuid there lives to who suffered at the hands of friends ,family and those who used " i love you and i'm sorry"

Ukgirl became a MOD , a mod on zozo so her priority is to enforce rules ,protect the site and the users before being "friends" ,being staff we have to be partial ,sometimes strict and make choices even if users dont agree but what we do and decide how WE handle stuff isnt of users concern ,they are not staff ,they are not the owner ,they dont pay for them to chat in a free chat ,staff dont get paid to staff they do because they enjoy zozo .
yesterday i was asked the question again about "how much does the site make ,how much do we get paid " WE DONT
our own personal money goes in yet seems even we are unappreciated for that ,allowing complete strangers to use OUR UI ,our chat for free which apparently they assume gives them the right to break our rules ,ignore the rules and abuse the options we give even to a point being RACIST all because some staff arent indian or are even from india
people have always complained about staff ,abused ;spammed ever since zozo opened but now with cyberlaws and the fact we do way more behind the seen and have a lot more we can add to help toward blocking abusers or the fact we actually fucking care out our site and the protection of users who come to zozo for fun and chat ,we are still wrong
so why dont users just do what they came for and chat ,have fun ,obey site rules and Leave the staff to do what we do
btw in case you are unaware the report system wasn't our choice it is what google and all bowsers oblige to site owners to implant into there apps ,site etc or they cant be in the search engine and site dont get approved so when users make reports that we go through and clear we have it incase we need to report and send it in to law enforcement . if i really wanted to be a bitch the proof we have of the abuse our females and users are suffering or have suffered i could send into cybercrimes because people assume "its the internet i'm untouchable" but sadly no you ain't and in todays era online abuse is taken more seriously then in real abuse

so the idiots after @ukgirl should really think before doing what they are doing ,same for the idiot who has been abusing Jupitar for the last 8 months (that dude has even committed federal crimes online)

so continue to assume all you want because that's all you have assumptions when really you dont know exactly the sleepless nights zozo has called

on a personal note i dont really give a fuck what you think of me or if you think you know me ,i ain't here to be best buddies ,i came here to chat ,met the man of my life and at the same time took over a chat
i started as vip before like all staff ,i was just lucky enough to be a damn good admin from helping running a french chat site with a female friend before she closed it so i was doing this way before zozo

Circumstances and situations don’t always go hand in hand — what’s visible isn’t always what’s true, and what’s happening isn’t always what’s intended.

 

[TheOG]

In summary, the one doing the body shaming is the one reaping all the rewards here.@TheOG

How do you call it body shaming ? even I don't know how she looks

 

[Aphrodite]

Let me say this once, and for all—I have nothing to do with some of the posts playing out on that thread. But I’ve watched long enough to speak the truth.

The most disgusting part i want to highlight in the message i just replied to? The person behind it all has admitted to their actions again—with zero guilt, zero reflection, and absolutely no remorse. And somehow, this vile behavior is still being brushed aside. How many more times will people look the other way?

If this is the kind of mentality that thrives in Telugu chat—where abuse is normalized and women are constantly targeted—then frankly, that space is rotting from within. I feel genuine heartbreak for the women who’ve already been hurt by this man’s actions. And deep concern for the next unsuspecting person who’ll fall victim while others stay silent.

It’s not just shameful—it’s inhuman. And if anyone still chooses to support or protect him, you’re just as responsible.

This isn’t just another messy thread. This is a wake-up call to everyone

sadly it is how some even today are raised or assume that because they are men they command ,that woman are inferior ,that we are the weaker sex and that women are only good for serving them
some men dont like when women stand up for themselves ,say no or hurt there ego infront of other men and friends , some men feel EMASCULATED by strong independent women

 

[TheOG]

Circumstances and situations don’t always go hand in hand — what’s visible isn’t always what’s true, and what’s happening isn’t always what’s intended.

Firstly u stop provoking everyone in telugu room It all started just because of you ..Many of the complaints are about you ..only about you .. If you have doubt you can ask the staff ... And i know u want me to get banned from here too .. lol idc bruh

 

[Aphrodite]

How do you call it body shaming ? even I don't know how she looks

you dont have to know what someone looks like to body shame them

 

[Aphrodite]

Body-shaming = the action or practice of mocking or stigmatizing someone by making critical comments about the shape, size, or appearance of their body

 

[TheOG]

@Hades I don't know what happened earlier in the telugu room ( on the day of my ban ) As usual many times @ukgirl asked me about gossips so in that way I replied to her meme ( eating popcorn ) and i replied yeah other than eating popcorn what u can do ( sarcastic way ) and she kicked me for that ( reason is poking , but I didn't poke her ) and still now I'm asking the reason for that kick and ban ..

 

[TheOG]

Body-shaming = the action or practice of mocking or stigmatizing someone by making critical comments about the shape, size, or appearance of their body

I don't even know how she looks ..

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

Okay, let’s say I do get banned—what exactly do I gain from that?
Does it make your actions any less questionable?


I was speaking about a general pattern, raising points that apply to a broader issue—yet somehow, you decided to surface and make it about yourself.


That says a lot more about your conscience than my intention.


This thread isn’t about me. It’s about your voice note—the language you used.
So let’s leave me out of it for a second…
What do you have to say about that?
Can you own up to your words, or will you keep dodging like always?@TheOG

 

[TheOG]

you dont have to know what someone looks like to body shame them

Earlier many times I called her chubby ( bondam) then how this would be body shaming ?

 

[ukgirl]

I'm asking one and only question since a long time and u know me very well.. I just raise my voice when staff isn't taking any action against abusers ( including me sometimes ) .. I got kicked muted even banned multiple times but what u said above ( a girl ) ? i didn't harrassed any female personally .. I just asked to take appropriate actions when you people are online .. and I also asked the same to our admins ( hades , master blaster, kanna , nilani , witcher, sssingh, pinkcandy) but I don't see any action ... But I have noticed one thing " WHEN IT COMES TO STAFF ( MOD OR ROOM MOD ) ALL THE STAFF MEMBERS ARE UNITED and when the same issue happened to few telugu room users ( females ) I don't know what action u guys took .. Atleast haven't created a post or anything regarding those complaints . . why this partiality ?

Sigguleni janthuvulu ki entha cheppina waste. Site vishyam mukhyam aa or ammai paruvu mukhyama.
To every woman reading this — pay close attention.

If someone can’t show even the bare minimum of respect to women, they’re not just immature — they’re parasites. Cowards hiding behind screens, turning every space — online or real — into a breeding ground for filth. These shitheads don't just poison chats, they infect communities. And yes, we must call them out.

I didn’t come here to be dragged through bullshit, disrespected, or sit quietly while misogynistic morons spew garbage like it’s normal. I came here to unwind, have fun, and make others feel seen and safe — not to deal with trash who get a kick out of dragging women down.

Let me be clear: my badge, my status — none of it matters if this is the kind of rot that’s allowed to flourish. What matters is whether this space is safe for women — without them having to constantly brace for abuse, gaslighting, or vile remarks.

And to those who stand by, laugh, or pretend not to notice — you’re worse. You enable it. You embolden it. You are the problem.

We’re not blind.

We see everything — and we’re done staying silent.

 

[Aphrodite]

I don't even know how she looks ..

then why make comments about her because you did me and @Hades saw the ss in group chat conversations

 

[DevilsAdvocate]

@Hades I don't know what happened earlier in the telugu room ( on the day of my ban ) As usual many times @ukgirl asked me about gossips so in that way I replied to her meme ( eating popcorn ) and i replied yeah other than eating popcorn what u can do ( sarcastic way ) and she kicked me for that ( reason is poking , but I didn't poke her ) and still now I'm asking the reason for that kick and ban ..

@Aphrodite he got alibi......poor girl @ukgirl has to defend

 

[TheOG]

Sigguleni janthuvulu ki entha cheppina waste. Site vishyam mukhyam aa or ammai paruvu mukhyama.
To every woman reading this — pay close attention.

If someone can’t show even the bare minimum of respect to women, they’re not just immature — they’re parasites. Cowards hiding behind screens, turning every space — online or real — into a breeding ground for filth. These shitheads don't just poison chats, they infect communities. And yes, we must call them out.

I didn’t come here to be dragged through bullshit, disrespected, or sit quietly while misogynistic morons spew garbage like it’s normal. I came here to unwind, have fun, and make others feel seen and safe — not to deal with trash who get a kick out of dragging women down.

Let me be clear: my badge, my status — none of it matters if this is the kind of rot that’s allowed to flourish. What matters is whether this space is safe for women — without them having to constantly brace for abuse, gaslighting, or vile remarks.

And to those who stand by, laugh, or pretend not to notice — you’re worse. You enable it. You embolden it. You are the problem.

We’re not blind.

We see everything — and we’re done staying silent.

Btw who is she ? i didn't get you.,.. evarni em chesa asalu nenu .... give some clarity

 

[TheOG]

then why make comments about her because you did me and @Hades saw the ss in group chat conversations

I said that in a sarcastic way .. as we daily used to talk on wall so I did like that

 

[TheOG]

@Aphrodite he got alibi......poor girl @ukgirl has to defend

ori ne kutthan dhenga ban dhengthe dhengamanu .. moddalo sodhi nak abadham chepalsina avsaram ledhu ... nen ah roje ocha( Sunday ) nen site ki ravadam taginchesa .. so I don't know what happened in telugu room .. UK girl tho call lo kuda adhey adiga emaindhi evarni endhku kick chesaru ani .. anthe tarwtha she thought like I was dragging the issue but actually I don't know what happened in telugu room coz I was not active for the last few days

 

[Aphrodite]

@ukgirl im gonna lock this thread because sadly these so called MEN are making sure no other female feels safe to talk but this thread will stay up for females to look at and hopefully give them confidence to fight back

 

[AASHVATHKANNA]

I don't know y I'm being dragged to take sides all the mistake I did is asking to end this ? If u ever think i stood on their side then y would i take action on them when they abused ? N when the room mod is struggling y would i interfere n try to solve n call @Aphrodite for assistance n try to share the issue to @Hades ???

If anything happens it's bcz of kanna .... If anyone get kicked it's bcz of kanna if anyone gets offended it's by kanna if any other staff take action maybe it's kanna

Infact i have been humiliated by calling me characterless cheater biased selfish just bcz of listening to others n other reasons too

So u guys think I don't support @ukgirl lemme ask one thing did i said u r wrong or u r causing mess or did i said others are right ??
What exactly are my words back then ?? Isn't it just to end this n not lead to any trouble anymore?? Indeed i defended the room mods in my presence n maybe when I'm off few may took chance but again I tried to sort it out ....but how this lead to non supportance to room mod??

U say I'm not supporting the room mods n users say I'm biased to mods n not supporting them then whom I'm supporting exactly? Myself ohhh the safe play u say then y the mockery on me if I'm playing safe ??

I never doubt myself for picking the current room mods bcz of the mockery i faced bcz of the pick i do feel happy whenever they grab the chances n raise here .....

Currently I'm off from site for personal reasons n don't know what happened yesterday yet I have been dragged here involving that I'm biased n supporting them

Whatever it doesn't effect who I am n my support to the staff ....
Even if u care or not I'll be back right there to watch u n guide u