Stanz
Wellknown Ace
B
I'll give them space and wait for them..
Only one option. What's yours?
- Thread starter Robiin
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You should never force someone to stay with you... The world is full of different types of people like snakes and diamonds. It's so hard to find gems. If someone stops talking to me, from my side I will ask them what's the reason or I will find it by myself. So if this happens to me I WILL MOVE ON AND NEVER LOOK BACK even at their bad times...
A
Accept it and silently walk away
Its really a hard question to answer.. But still the answer depend on that particular person we can wait for some have to leave some have to give space for some. The senario needs specification we can't have same reply for all
Robiin
Favoured Frenzy
Haha .. that's actually a different level of love! Fighting for someone is beautiful when both people are willing to understand each other and make things work. Misunderstandings happen, but effort and communication should come from both sides!For me it's A , if I truly be love with him I won't loose him at anycist becz I can't see my day without him ... May be some misunderstanding leads to partner stop talking with us it's not a permenent gap right it's a time they take to understand or taking some pause .
Haha , I won't even give a second to think of all the shit , For me Love is all about Good nd bad if u love that person , if they doing wrong let them tell nd know what's there perspective if it wrong change there thought on it. . but loosing a person we loved once it's not a great choice
In 24 hours I argue with him 16 hours, everyday we told eachother let's breakup...whatever we are together next day mrng wokeup with fresh mind forgetting all the shit we talk last night
but we won't stop love ,care , be there for eachother. Nd we are real nd our inner child happy around them
So if ur partner stop talking with u , Don't think much , just disturbing them like crazy . For the small misunderstanding or any issues moving on not a solution , sit nd sort it out
Hammaya ... It's finish haha
Robiin
Favoured Frenzy
That's true, giving someone space can be better than making things worse by forcing a conversation. But I think waiting should come with understanding from both sides, not just silently suffering!
Robiin
Favoured Frenzy
B is probably the most balanced choice ! Sometimes people just need time to clear their minds. If the bond is genuine, both should be willing to work things out!
Robiin
Favoured Frenzy
I agree, we should never force anyone to stay. But I feel it's worth trying to understand the reason once before moving on. At the end of the day, self-respect matters, and effort should come from both sides!!
Robiin
Favoured Frenzy
A is a tough choice, but I understand your point . Sometimes walking away peacefully is better than holding on to something that's no longer meant for us!
Robiin
Favoured Frenzy
Exactly, it depends on the person and the situation. I think understanding the reason and giving some space is a good first step. If both people still value the bond, they should be willing to communicate and figure things out
I tried my best to save that bond. No matter how much it hurt, no matter how many fights we had, I never wanted to give up on that person. I kept trying to make them understand my pain, hoping they would understand me and come back closer to me.
But when they still couldn't understand my feelings, I decided to give them space. I waited, hoping they would come back on their own. I stopped myself from sending messages again and again because I didn't want to disturb them or force my presence into their life.
But when days passed and they still didn't return, I slowly learned to accept their silence. No matter how much I missed them or how badly my heart wanted them back, I knew I had to step back.
It doesn't mean I didn't love them. It doesn't mean they weren't important to me. I tried, I waited, and I gave them time. But eventually, I understood that one person's efforts alone cannot save a bond.
Even now, wherever they are, I genuinely wish them happiness. I have no desire to see them suffer. My heart still wishes they would come back, but I will never force someone to stay where they no longer want to be.
I fought as much as I could, waited as long as I could, and gave as much space as I could. If they still don't return, I'll accept it with a heavy heart and remain silent. At least I'll have the peace of knowing that I gave that bond my honest efforts and my love.
Stanz
Wellknown Ace
Exactly
