ok as co owner and someone who now has a headache reading this ,i need to ask a few questions
1 : why did you and the other person find it fun to abuse in the First place ?
2: The Mod gave you Both a WARNING but You said yourself you ignored it ,what right did you have to Disobey his order ?
3: Did the other person continue after being warned ?
because from what i read you brought this on Yourself ,you admit to abusing and IGNORING a Mod's warning
if the other person left or stopped when asked and obeyed the mod then he doesn't need to be muted ,you on the other hand continued so the mod followed though on his warning and in my eyes did his job