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How to sexually arouse a girl

Minervaa

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Firstly let us distinguish between desire and arousal cuz most of the people don't know the difference .Desire is emotional: it's your libido. It is wanting, or not wanting, to have sex. Arousal is the physical symptoms your body produces when you are turned on: heart rate increasing, lubrication between your legs, dilated pupils.

I’ll explain how you can sexually arouse a girl AND give her mind-blowing orgasm....to be precise multiple orgasms is a norm for girls and it is awesome.


#1 - Learn How To Arouse Her Biggest Erogenous Zone: Brain

Guys are simple, they see naked body and they get horny.

Well, for women, it happens slower and they need the foreplay…but not in the sense you think.
We need buildup. We need excitement. We need teasing.

So if you have the sex always before going to the bed. That’s not gonna be the most exciting thing for her (and for you either).

What you can do:
1.In the morning start teasing her, indicating that something is going to happen in the evening.
2.Send her texts, call her during the day.. and work on seducing, teasing her.
2.When she comes home, kiss her with intention, but don’t just jump on her. Don’t wait till the bedroom, have it somewhere else… anywhere else.
Now this will do lots of good things! :)


Now to the next part…

#2 - Master The Arts of Featherlight touch & Building The Tension

First of all, you do need to learn the anatomy of women. No, it’s not enough to “flick the bean”. The whole vulva area down there is a huge erogenous zone.

Ignore them as long as you can, make her wet, make her sensitive.

Then when you do go down on her, she’ll be bursting with joy with the lightest touch.

It’s hard to go wrong then.


Okay… I guess this is grand finale:

#3 — Climax: How To Finger A Girl & Make Her Orgasm

Every modern man should know at least the basics of woman's anatomy.
It's important to know that woman's WHOLE vulva is very sensitive.

It's not just the infamous G-spot and clitoris. Yes, there will be time for that, but not from the start.

Now what we want to do is to massage all around her vulva EXCEPT the clitoris area.

You'll still ignore her glans, shaft of the clitoris, hood area as long as you can.

Think of this as foreplay for the clit.

By massaging all around her vulva, you'll make the area there so much more sensitive. Do that for around 1–2 min.


IMPORTANT: Make sure it’s wet down there. You can use your own saliva or get a simple water based lube.


OK, now it's time to focus on that red triangle the clitoris area and get ur girl to orgasm.

Start gently massaging around her clitoris in the circular motion.

Again, make sure it’s nicely wet there.

Keep experimenting with different movements:

1.a wide circular motion
2.up and down
3.diagonal up and down motion
4.making bigger and smaller circles.

Keep experimenting with pressure. Start softer and then slowly increase the pressure.
Pay attention to her body language and the noises she makes. Once you find something that really arouses her, she will let you know.

Once you feel it.

1.Stop experimenting.
2.Just keep doing what you did.
2.Keep the same rhythm and pressure.


You just might make her orgasm in 1–2 minutes.
The whole 3-stage process should take no more than 15 min.

ALWAYS get her to come first.
1.Arouse her brain first - send her sexy texts, create a positive expectation in her mind, before even touching her.

2.When touching, undressing her - ignore her pussy as long as you can! It will make her crazy aroused and wet!
3.Massage her vulva, all around, experiment. It's very sensitive down there and just having fun, will set her at ease and you'll discover new things she likes.

When you've found what she likes though - KEEP THE SAME RHYTHM AND PRESSURE! Guys need increased pace, women need sustained pace!

Do this and your sex life will transform. She will be the one initiating, it's awesome!
 
If u have something to add plz feel free !!!And do mention ur views !!!
 
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Firstly let us distinguish between desire and arousal cuz most of the people don't know the difference .Desire is emotional: it's your libido. It is wanting, or not wanting, to have sex. Arousal is the physical symptoms your body produces when you are turned on: heart rate increasing, lubrication between your legs, dilated pupils.

I’ll explain how you can sexually arouse a girl AND give her mind-blowing orgasm....to be precise multiple orgasms is a norm for girls and it is awesome.


#1 - Learn How To Arouse Her Biggest Erogenous Zone: Brain

Guys are simple, they see naked body and they get horny.

Well, for women, it happens slower and they need the foreplay…but not in the sense you think.
We need buildup. We need excitement. We need teasing.

So if you have the sex always before going to the bed. That’s not gonna be the most exciting thing for her (and for you either).

What you can do:
1.In the morning start teasing her, indicating that something is going to happen in the evening.
2.Send her texts, call her during the day.. and work on seducing, teasing her.
2.When she comes home, kiss her with intention, but don’t just jump on her. Don’t wait till the bedroom, have it somewhere else… anywhere else.
Now this will do lots of good things! :)


Now to the next part…

#2 - Master The Arts of Featherlight touch & Building The Tension

First of all, you do need to learn the anatomy of women. No, it’s not enough to “flick the bean”. The whole vulva area down there is a huge erogenous zone.

Ignore them as long as you can, make her wet, make her sensitive.

Then when you do go down on her, she’ll be bursting with joy with the lightest touch.

It’s hard to go wrong then.


Okay… I guess this is grand finale:

#3 — Climax: How To Finger A Girl & Make Her Orgasm

Every modern man should know at least the basics of woman's anatomy.
It's important to know that woman's WHOLE vulva is very sensitive.

It's not just the infamous G-spot and clitoris. Yes, there will be time for that, but not from the start.

Now what we want to do is to massage all around her vulva EXCEPT the clitoris area.

You'll still ignore her glans, shaft of the clitoris, hood area as long as you can.

Think of this as foreplay for the clit.

By massaging all around her vulva, you'll make the area there so much more sensitive. Do that for around 1–2 min.


IMPORTANT: Make sure it’s wet down there. You can use your own saliva or get a simple water based lube.


OK, now it's time to focus on that red triangle the clitoris area and get ur girl to orgasm.

Start gently massaging around her clitoris in the circular motion.

Again, make sure it’s nicely wet there.

Keep experimenting with different movements:

1.a wide circular motion
2.up and down
3.diagonal up and down motion
4.making bigger and smaller circles.

Keep experimenting with pressure. Start softer and then slowly increase the pressure.
Pay attention to her body language and the noises she makes. Once you find something that really arouses her, she will let you know.

Once you feel it.

1.Stop experimenting.
2.Just keep doing what you did.
2.Keep the same rhythm and pressure.


You just might make her orgasm in 1–2 minutes.
The whole 3-stage process should take no more than 15 min.

ALWAYS get her to come first.
1.Arouse her brain first - send her sexy texts, create a positive expectation in her mind, before even touching her.

2.When touching, undressing her - ignore her pussy as long as you can! It will make her crazy aroused and wet!
3.Massage her vulva, all around, experiment. It's very sensitive down there and just having fun, will set her at ease and you'll discover new things she likes.

When you've found what she likes though - KEEP THE SAME RHYTHM AND PRESSURE! Guys need increased pace, women need sustained pace!

Do this and your sex life will transform. She will be the one initiating, it's awesome!
Wow :kiss:
 
Making it in your wat was good. Tease her often by giving a break :p. Tease during high makes her go mad and bad ;)
 
Try really hard not to fart! If you do don’t burst out laughing, looking for a high five! Although, if she pays it, well played!
 
Firstly let us distinguish between desire and arousal cuz most of the people don't know the difference .Desire is emotional: it's your libido. It is wanting, or not wanting, to have sex. Arousal is the physical symptoms your body produces when you are turned on: heart rate increasing, lubrication between your legs, dilated pupils.

I’ll explain how you can sexually arouse a girl AND give her mind-blowing orgasm....to be precise multiple orgasms is a norm for girls and it is awesome.


#1 - Learn How To Arouse Her Biggest Erogenous Zone: Brain

Guys are simple, they see naked body and they get horny.

Well, for women, it happens slower and they need the foreplay…but not in the sense you think.
We need buildup. We need excitement. We need teasing.

So if you have the sex always before going to the bed. That’s not gonna be the most exciting thing for her (and for you either).

What you can do:
1.In the morning start teasing her, indicating that something is going to happen in the evening.
2.Send her texts, call her during the day.. and work on seducing, teasing her.
2.When she comes home, kiss her with intention, but don’t just jump on her. Don’t wait till the bedroom, have it somewhere else… anywhere else.
Now this will do lots of good things! :)


Now to the next part…

#2 - Master The Arts of Featherlight touch & Building The Tension

First of all, you do need to learn the anatomy of women. No, it’s not enough to “flick the bean”. The whole vulva area down there is a huge erogenous zone.

Ignore them as long as you can, make her wet, make her sensitive.

Then when you do go down on her, she’ll be bursting with joy with the lightest touch.

It’s hard to go wrong then.


Okay… I guess this is grand finale:

#3 — Climax: How To Finger A Girl & Make Her Orgasm

Every modern man should know at least the basics of woman's anatomy.
It's important to know that woman's WHOLE vulva is very sensitive.

It's not just the infamous G-spot and clitoris. Yes, there will be time for that, but not from the start.

Now what we want to do is to massage all around her vulva EXCEPT the clitoris area.

You'll still ignore her glans, shaft of the clitoris, hood area as long as you can.

Think of this as foreplay for the clit.

By massaging all around her vulva, you'll make the area there so much more sensitive. Do that for around 1–2 min.


IMPORTANT: Make sure it’s wet down there. You can use your own saliva or get a simple water based lube.


OK, now it's time to focus on that red triangle the clitoris area and get ur girl to orgasm.

Start gently massaging around her clitoris in the circular motion.

Again, make sure it’s nicely wet there.

Keep experimenting with different movements:

1.a wide circular motion
2.up and down
3.diagonal up and down motion
4.making bigger and smaller circles.

Keep experimenting with pressure. Start softer and then slowly increase the pressure.
Pay attention to her body language and the noises she makes. Once you find something that really arouses her, she will let you know.

Once you feel it.

1.Stop experimenting.
2.Just keep doing what you did.
2.Keep the same rhythm and pressure.


You just might make her orgasm in 1–2 minutes.
The whole 3-stage process should take no more than 15 min.

ALWAYS get her to come first.
1.Arouse her brain first - send her sexy texts, create a positive expectation in her mind, before even touching her.

2.When touching, undressing her - ignore her pussy as long as you can! It will make her crazy aroused and wet!
3.Massage her vulva, all around, experiment. It's very sensitive down there and just having fun, will set her at ease and you'll discover new things she likes.

When you've found what she likes though - KEEP THE SAME RHYTHM AND PRESSURE! Guys need increased pace, women need sustained pace!

Do this and your sex life will transform. She will be the one initiating, it's awesome!
All the guys have to know the technics to arouse a girl...

She needs ur attention..ur teasing, playing, kissing, laughing together, cuddling, playing with hair, telling her how beautiful she is, n how u go crazy on her...

All this drives her crazy...
 
If u have something to add plz feel free !!!And do mention ur views !!!
Apart from these one should know the arousal areas of the partner. Once u know these u can touch , lick, tickle , bite depending on the situation. Once u know all her arousal parts and start , she will be getting ready for you. Also try to know does she like sucking . One must try to know which one she like left r right. Start gently fondling then suck. Make circles around the aerola of nipples and suck. Gentle bites are always welcome and symbols of love. Most importantly never be in a rush to penetrate. Make her to plead then penetrate. Most important thing is never go to sleep immediately after coitus, coz most of the females expect cuddling, some want them to be held tightly, some expect deep kisses , it all depends on invidual to individual. NEVER FALL ASLEEP IMMEDIATELY AFTER COITUS. FAIND OUT HER LUKES AND ACT ACCORDINGLY. Surely she herself will give signals for next
 
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