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Can you truly love two people romantically at the same time, or are you simply too selfish to let one go...?!

Aarzooo said:
We often say that the heart wants what it wants, but is that really an excuse for wanting two people who fulfill two different parts of us? Perhaps one gives you the peace you've always craved, while the other awakens something in you that you never knew existed. One feels like home; the other feels like a beautiful disaster you never want to escape.

But here's the real question: if you genuinely love them both, why should one have to lose you for the other to have you? And if you refuse to choose, are you being honest about the complexity of your feelings, or are you simply enjoying the privilege of being loved by two people while neither knows the whole truth?

So, is loving two people at once a genuine emotional possibility, or is it just an excuse we create when we want to keep everything without accepting the consequences?

I'd genuinely love to hear different perspectives on this. And please, don't just give me the morally correct answer. Give me the honest one.
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Dietmountaindew said:
Going through the comments, I can conclude that it's possible to love more than one person at the same time. But love isn't the only thing a relationship demands. Commitment, responsibility, honesty, and emotional availability matter just as much.

Loving more than one person might be possible, but fulfilling all those responsibilities becomes difficult, especially when someone is being kept in the dark. At the end of the day, honesty and mutual understanding matter more than anything else.
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Aarzooo said:
We often say that the heart wants what it wants, but is that really an excuse for wanting two people who fulfill two different parts of us? Perhaps one gives you the peace you've always craved, while the other awakens something in you that you never knew existed. One feels like home; the other feels like a beautiful disaster you never want to escape.

But here's the real question: if you genuinely love them both, why should one have to lose you for the other to have you? And if you refuse to choose, are you being honest about the complexity of your feelings, or are you simply enjoying the privilege of being loved by two people while neither knows the whole truth?

So, is loving two people at once a genuine emotional possibility, or is it just an excuse we create when we want to keep everything without accepting the consequences?

I'd genuinely love to hear different perspectives on this. And please, don't just give me the morally correct answer. Give me the honest one.
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Human heart can certainly feel deeply for two people at the same time, as each person touches a different part of who we are. However, keeping both in the dark and holding onto one as a "safety net" isn't love—that is selfishness.

Ultimately, even if the heart is capable of feeling for two, **honesty demands choosing one**, so that neither is left half-loved or deceived.
 
Anshhi said:
Human heart can certainly feel deeply for two people at the same time, as each person touches a different part of who we are. However, keeping both in the dark and holding onto one as a "safety net" isn't love—that is selfishness.

Ultimately, even if the heart is capable of feeling for two, **honesty demands choosing one**, so that neither is left half-loved or deceived.
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And the question is are we able to do that..!
 
MrDreamy said:
If you are involved with one romantically, I believe it’s not mere affection, it’s pure love. Being in relationship, if you get similar feelings about someone (conveyed or not) - that itself is betrayal.
For me, open-minded relationships aren’t relationships at all. Frankly these things are only to write, when it comes on one these people will be most loving caring and possessive.

Relation isn’t only love and/or romance, it’s more about trust.
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@Aarzooo guess my response was too vanilla for you :Cwl:
 
MrDreamy said:
If you are involved with one romantically, I believe it’s not mere affection, it’s pure love. Being in relationship, if you get similar feelings about someone (conveyed or not) - that itself is betrayal.
For me, open-minded relationships aren’t relationships at all. Frankly these things are only to write, when it comes on one these people will be most loving caring and possessive.

Relation isn’t only love and/or romance, it’s more about trust.
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I understand your perspective, and I agree that trust and emotional commitment are at the heart of a relationship.

But I also feel that love cannot always be defined by one person's boundaries or beliefs.

What matters is honesty, mutual understanding and respecting the commitment two people have made to each other.

Different people may define relationships differently, but betrayal begins when you violate an understanding that someone trusted you to honour....
 
Aarzooo said:
I understand your perspective, and I agree that trust and emotional commitment are at the heart of a relationship.

But I also feel that love cannot always be defined by one person's boundaries or beliefs.

What matters is honesty, mutual understanding and respecting the commitment two people have made to each other.

Different people may define relationships differently, but betrayal begins when you violate an understanding that someone trusted you to honour....
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What i don't understand is loving two persons at a time at same level. Telling them both, may be, honesty. But then I won't call that love, it can be attraction towards both.

I don't believe in open relationship (talking about real love) when being together both are free to go and love any other person. Freedom should be for having friends, doing anything but love is sweet bondage between only two of them.

May be I am completely "old school" as far as relationships are concerned.
 
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