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You Deserve Healing

Miss_death

Miss_death

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Sometimes you don't get what you want and I know it hurts but you keep increasing the intensity of your pain by putting yourself down by saying terrible things to yourself the kind of things you had never say to someone you have. Listen to me it's okay if the result did not match your expectations. It's okay if your thought something great would come out of something and it didn't . I know you put a lot of hard work time and energy into it. And I know it's not easy to get over it but the truth is you re staying in the past despite knowing it has slipped away. You re punishing yourself every day for something that has already hurt you enough .please don't break your own heart by reminding yourself of things that went wrong in the past.
 
Miss_death said:
Sometimes you don't get what you want and I know it hurts but you keep increasing the intensity of your pain by putting yourself down by saying terrible things to yourself the kind of things you had never say to someone you have. Listen to me it's okay if the result did not match your expectations. It's okay if your thought something great would come out of something and it didn't . I know you put a lot of hard work time and energy into it. And I know it's not easy to get over it but the truth is you re staying in the past despite knowing it has slipped away. You re punishing yourself every day for something that has already hurt you enough .please don't break your own heart by reminding yourself of things that went wrong in the past.
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We should have the knowledge to let it go
 
Miss_death said:
Sometimes you don't get what you want and I know it hurts but you keep increasing the intensity of your pain by putting yourself down by saying terrible things to yourself the kind of things you had never say to someone you have. Listen to me it's okay if the result did not match your expectations. It's okay if your thought something great would come out of something and it didn't . I know you put a lot of hard work time and energy into it. And I know it's not easy to get over it but the truth is you re staying in the past despite knowing it has slipped away. You re punishing yourself every day for something that has already hurt you enough .please don't break your own heart by reminding yourself of things that went wrong in the past.
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A much-needed reminder. We often become our own harshest critics, forgetting that we deserve the same kindness we give to others. Thank you for thisssss♥️
 
Miss_death said:
Sometimes you don't get what you want and I know it hurts but you keep increasing the intensity of your pain by putting yourself down by saying terrible things to yourself the kind of things you had never say to someone you have. Listen to me it's okay if the result did not match your expectations. It's okay if your thought something great would come out of something and it didn't . I know you put a lot of hard work time and energy into it. And I know it's not easy to get over it but the truth is you re staying in the past despite knowing it has slipped away. You re punishing yourself every day for something that has already hurt you enough .please don't break your own heart by reminding yourself of things that went wrong in the past.
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Once u healed enough that past become good memories that stays with u
 
Miss_death said:
Sometimes you don't get what you want and I know it hurts but you keep increasing the intensity of your pain by putting yourself down by saying terrible things to yourself the kind of things you had never say to someone you have. Listen to me it's okay if the result did not match your expectations. It's okay if your thought something great would come out of something and it didn't . I know you put a lot of hard work time and energy into it. And I know it's not easy to get over it but the truth is you re staying in the past despite knowing it has slipped away. You re punishing yourself every day for something that has already hurt you enough .please don't break your own heart by reminding yourself of things that went wrong in the past.
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One of the hardest things to accept is that not everything we genuinely hope for, work towards or emotionally invest in will turn out the way we imagined. And when things don't work out, it's natural to revisit the past, question our decisions and wonder what we could have done differently.

But there's a difference between reflecting on what happened and continuously holding ourselves responsible for how things turned out.

We shouldn't measure our worth by the outcomes we couldn't control or allow one disappointing chapter to define our entire story. We can acknowledge our mistakes, learn from our experiences and still be kind to the person we were when we made those choices. After all, that version of us was trying, hoping and doing the best they knew at the time.

Perhaps healing begins when we stop treating our past selves as someone who needs to be punished and start seeing them as someone who deserves understanding, too. We cannot rewrite what happened, but we can change how we carry it forward.
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winee said:
A much-needed reminder. We often become our own harshest critics, forgetting that we deserve the same kindness we give to others. Thank you for thisssss♥️
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Exactly. We treat our own hearts like an enemy when they actually need our protection the most. So glad this resonated with you.
 
Honey bunch said:
One of the hardest things to accept is that not everything we genuinely hope for, work towards or emotionally invest in will turn out the way we imagined. And when things don't work out, it's natural to revisit the past, question our decisions and wonder what we could have done differently.

But there's a difference between reflecting on what happened and continuously holding ourselves responsible for how things turned out.

We shouldn't measure our worth by the outcomes we couldn't control or allow one disappointing chapter to define our entire story. We can acknowledge our mistakes, learn from our experiences and still be kind to the person we were when we made those choices. After all, that version of us was trying, hoping and doing the best they knew at the time.

Perhaps healing begins when we stop treating our past selves as someone who needs to be punished and start seeing them as someone who deserves understanding, too. We cannot rewrite what happened, but we can change how we carry it forward.
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This is so incredibly profound and beautifully written. You’re completely right the hardest prison to escape is the one we build out of our own expectations. Healing truly begins when we stop putting our past self on trial for things it couldn't control. Thank you so much for adding this depth to the post.
 
Miss_death said:
This is so incredibly profound and beautifully written. You’re completely right the hardest prison to escape is the one we build out of our own expectations. Healing truly begins when we stop putting our past self on trial for things it couldn't control. Thank you so much for adding this depth to the post.
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Thank you so much. I am glad my thoughts resonated with you.
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Very well said. A much needed reminder, not to dwell in the past mistakes...
I see it as brooming your house clean, still sifting through the dustbin.
Garbage is to be thrown away not to be analysed.
Happy cleaning your conscience too...
 
cheetra said:
Very well said. A much needed reminder, not to dwell in the past mistakes...
I see it as brooming your house clean, still sifting through the dustbin.
Garbage is to be thrown away not to be analysed.
Happy cleaning your conscience too...
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Such a brilliant analogy! You are so right we keep recycling the garbage of the past hoping to find something useful when we should just let the trash collector take it away. Cheers to a cleaner conscience!
 
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