When we are in the initial teenage phase, I believe we boys tend to be quite competitive.
There's no dream that seems impossible for us.
Even if we hit an important six in a local cricket match, we keep thinking about that six all night and imagine a day when we will hit a six on the last ball to make India win the World Cup, or take a crucial catch to secure victory in an important moment.
And as life progresses and reality hits, us guys face family situations, and often we just seek an escape.
Emotional support and societal peer pressure, you know, compliments from girls mean a lot to us, as they make us feel loved and appreciated.
We meet a girl, we have conversations, we fall in love, and then we start imagining every moment with her.
We emotionally surrender ourselves, but even a small thing can make us feel insecure.
We're afraid of losing her every moment. We start caring about how many male friends she has, what time she was online until at night, and gradually, our insecurities grow.
Despite good intentions, we make mistakes, and eventually, we end up breaking up.
Now, let's get to the main point: What do guys do after a breakup?
We guys suddenly go silent, take aimless long walks, wear the same shirt for a whole month, let our beards grow, cry at night, and then wake up in the morning as if nothing happened.
Now, instead of dreaming about hitting a six on the last ball, we wonder how to move on.
We don't think about being a hero and saving a girl anymore.
We think about how to control our emotions in front of our family.
People like me tend to get lost in the depths of life.
Every moment that used to be light-hearted turns into a profound contemplation of life.
We start embracing solitude as if we've fallen in love with it, and then we become afraid of the crowd of people.
People like me get engrossed in devotion to Krishna, and our love takes the form of devotion.
The person we used to love no longer plays a role.
This idea runs deep, and I believe it might not be easily understood by the majority.
Let me simplify: when we love someone with true selfless love, that person becomes a mere conduit or medium.
Our love is directed straight to the Divine.
Our love transforms into a spiritual form, adorned with beauty, and we connect not through materialism or physical features, but through our souls.
We start believing that our love, our soulmate, will find us on their own.
Then, our story is written by the divine, and we collide at an unexpected time and an unexpected place.
Now, our love is no longer dictated by our intentions; destiny decides.
“ Yahi Ishq Di Marzi Hai, Yahi rab di marzi hai"
There's no dream that seems impossible for us.
Even if we hit an important six in a local cricket match, we keep thinking about that six all night and imagine a day when we will hit a six on the last ball to make India win the World Cup, or take a crucial catch to secure victory in an important moment.
And as life progresses and reality hits, us guys face family situations, and often we just seek an escape.
Emotional support and societal peer pressure, you know, compliments from girls mean a lot to us, as they make us feel loved and appreciated.
We meet a girl, we have conversations, we fall in love, and then we start imagining every moment with her.
We emotionally surrender ourselves, but even a small thing can make us feel insecure.
We're afraid of losing her every moment. We start caring about how many male friends she has, what time she was online until at night, and gradually, our insecurities grow.
Despite good intentions, we make mistakes, and eventually, we end up breaking up.
Now, let's get to the main point: What do guys do after a breakup?
We guys suddenly go silent, take aimless long walks, wear the same shirt for a whole month, let our beards grow, cry at night, and then wake up in the morning as if nothing happened.
Now, instead of dreaming about hitting a six on the last ball, we wonder how to move on.
We don't think about being a hero and saving a girl anymore.
We think about how to control our emotions in front of our family.
People like me tend to get lost in the depths of life.
Every moment that used to be light-hearted turns into a profound contemplation of life.
We start embracing solitude as if we've fallen in love with it, and then we become afraid of the crowd of people.
People like me get engrossed in devotion to Krishna, and our love takes the form of devotion.
The person we used to love no longer plays a role.
This idea runs deep, and I believe it might not be easily understood by the majority.
Let me simplify: when we love someone with true selfless love, that person becomes a mere conduit or medium.
Our love is directed straight to the Divine.
Our love transforms into a spiritual form, adorned with beauty, and we connect not through materialism or physical features, but through our souls.
We start believing that our love, our soulmate, will find us on their own.
Then, our story is written by the divine, and we collide at an unexpected time and an unexpected place.
Now, our love is no longer dictated by our intentions; destiny decides.
“ Yahi Ishq Di Marzi Hai, Yahi rab di marzi hai"
