One of My Favorite Unanswered Question

[Nyxen]

Some people say I flirt with all the cute girls.
Yes, I do flirt.
But if someone is truly attracted to me, then why does she stay silent? I don’t understand.

I mean, if that girl really loves me, then she would try to stop me, right?
And what I really don’t get is — if she does love me, why doesn’t she say it?
Maybe… she only sees me as an option.

In the end, I just want to say this:
If you genuinely love me, then say it —
or at least give me some hints.


What’s your opinion on this?

 

[Anshhi]

Some people say I flirt with all the cute girls.
Yes, I do flirt.
But if someone is truly attracted to me, then why does she stay silent? I don’t understand.

I mean, if that girl really loves me, then she would try to stop me, right?
And what I really don’t get is — if she does love me, why doesn’t she say it?
Maybe… she only sees me as an option.

In the end, I just want to say this:
If you genuinely love me, then say it —
or at least give me some hints.


What’s your opinion on this?

Your frustration is completely understandable. You're seeking clarity in a situation where signals are unclear, and it's valid to want directness or clear hints if someone truly loves you. Their silence could stem from shyness, uncertainty about your general flirting, past experiences, or yes, seeing you as an option. You're right to want honesty and clear communication.

Awesome Intelligence™​

 

[Freaky]

Maybe because you flirt around , she doesn't think you like one girl in particular..especially her
Even if she likes you a little bit but thinks you maybe a playboy then she'll not show you any signs that she's interested.

 

[Nyxen]

Your frustration is completely understandable. You're seeking clarity in a situation where signals are unclear, and it's valid to want directness or clear hints if someone truly loves you. Their silence could stem from shyness, uncertainty about your general flirting, past experiences, or yes, seeing you as an option. You're right to want honesty and clear communication.

Awesome Intelligence™​

I appreciate your words — they made me think. Maybe I need to stop looking for signals and just focus on clarity. If someone wants me, I hope they’ll say it without fear. And if not, I’ll keep growing and moving forward.

 

[Nyxen]

Maybe because you flirt around , she doesn't think you like one girl in particular..especially her
Even if she likes you a little bit but thinks you maybe a playboy then she'll not show you any signs that she's interested.

That actually makes sense… maybe I didn’t realize how my actions could make someone hold back. I guess behind the jokes and flirting, I do want something real. But yeah, if she thinks I’m just playing around, I can understand why she’d stay silent. Still… it hurts a little thinking I might be pushing away the one person I actually want.

 

[Freaky]

That actually makes sense… maybe I didn’t realize how my actions could make someone hold back. I guess behind the jokes and flirting, I do want something real. But yeah, if she thinks I’m just playing around, I can understand why she’d stay silent. Still… it hurts a little thinking I might be pushing away the one person I actually want.

Then why not go ahead and show interest in her..
You can ask what she's looking for, stuff like that and if she's available

 

[Dom55]

Then why not go ahead and show interest in her..
You can ask what she's looking for, stuff like that and if she's available

Ask him to join your coaching class.

That actually makes sense… maybe I didn’t realize how my actions could make someone hold back. I guess behind the jokes and flirting, I do want something real. But yeah, if she thinks I’m just playing around, I can understand why she’d stay silent. Still… it hurts a little thinking I might be pushing away the one person I actually want.

Grab opportunity. She is kind of luvguru. Ask her to give you tuition. I guarantee you of distinction .

 

[Nyxen]

Then why not go ahead and show interest in her..
You can ask what she's looking for, stuff like that and if she's available

Maybe she likes someone else now… and that’s why she doesn’t talk to me anymore.