Tbh love hurts most 
then I guess this is enough can’t elaborate ! Lol don’t get offended 
then I guess this is enough can’t elaborate ! Lol don’t get offended 
What Hurts in "Love"?
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What is the most Painful thing in a ralationship?? According to my point of view we need someone we can trust blindly to whom we can share our thoughts and secrets but when he/she breaks our trust that the thing hurts the most
When u expect a *cooking*, n he comes home wid out protection
I think the most painful thing in relationship is not being appreciated for the effort you put in to make things work.... Well obviously no one expects a nobel prize for making relationships work but a little gesture of appreciation would never hurt.... It could be anything from genuine smile to a warm hug.... Doesn’t have to be materialistic at all.....
The major problem in relationships nowadays is the fact that people take each other for granted.. . A person goes out of the way to do something special for us and all we do is treat it as a common thing without even the simplest of gestures to show that hey I really loved what you did No all we do is sit back and take them for granted and expect them to do those kind of things again and again... And then one day they feel they don’t mean an ounce worth in your life... That realization hurts the most....
Honestly I think the most painful thing in a relationship is trying so hard to make it work, but still not being good enough for that person.....They say that they love you and won't ever leave and that you're the only one for them, but still they are finding someone better than you.......
The major problem in relationships nowadays is the fact that people take each other for granted.. . A person goes out of the way to do something special for us and all we do is treat it as a common thing without even the simplest of gestures to show that hey I really loved what you did No all we do is sit back and take them for granted and expect them to do those kind of things again and again... And then one day they feel they don’t mean an ounce worth in your life... That realization hurts the most....
Honestly I think the most painful thing in a relationship is trying so hard to make it work, but still not being good enough for that person.....They say that they love you and won't ever leave and that you're the only one for them, but still they are finding someone better than you.......
Ignorance
ahaaan nice wordssafter reading this i thought of finding someone better than you and my mind repliedYOU ARE THE FULLSTOP @jasminee
you are the only thing i need and you will be mine forever and ever after @jasminee
and also this was a joke my love i didnt think about that lol
thinking of that will burst my head like this and chill shivering will run all over my body so i better not think of it or my body will no numb lol@FernandeZ its your thread haha then i have a reply for you
having too much bdsm in love will hurt 
especially if its femdom 
Feeling unwanted..
The most painful thing in a relationship isn’t always betrayal or separation—it’s the slow, quiet fading of something that once felt unbreakable.
It’s when love turns into habit, conversations become forced, and presence starts feeling like absence. It’s when someone is right next to you, yet they feel miles away.
Unspoken words, unmet expectations, and the realization that no matter how much you give, sometimes it’s just not enough—those are the silent heartbreaks that cut the deepest.
Exactly—expectations are the root of most heartaches. The moment we expect something in return, even subconsciously, we set ourselves up for disappointment.Obviously EXPECTATIONS
I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will not remember what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.. No matter how small you made them to feel..
And that quote? It hits hard. Feelings linger long after words and actions fade. People remember the warmth or the sting you left behind, especially the way you made them feel small. That kind of wound doesn’t just heal—it leaves a mark.
That’s one of the cruelest kinds of pain—when one person has already moved on in their heart, while the other is still holding on, hoping, trying, breaking a little more each day.
It’s like watching something you love slip through your fingers, no matter how tightly you hold on. The imbalance, the loneliness within a connection that once felt whole—that’s what truly shatters a person.
That kind of hurt is a slow burn, the kind that lingers even when you try to move on. Silence in response to your future together speaks louder than any words could. Being told you "deserve better" is often just a gentle way of saying, I won’t fight for you.Its hurts ..
When you ask her/him for about your future and he/she stays silent for reply.
Its hurts when they say my family comes first and you realise you are reliased you are not a member of her family..
When he say he loves your opinion and beliefs but not you..
And most hurtful when they say you deserve better than me..
Because we expect them to treat you the way you willing to treat them and its impossible....
It’s painful because love isn’t just about feelings—it’s about effort, about choosing each other every single day. And when one stops choosing, while the other still holds on, the weight of that love becomes unbearable.
Expectations make it worse, but isn’t it natural to hope for the same love you’re willing to give? Even if it’s impossible, it still feels like the bare minimum you should’ve had.
That’s a different kind of pain—the one that makes you question your worth. When someone treats you like a mistake, it doesn’t just hurt; it shakes your confidence, makes you wonder if you were ever enough.When they make us feel we were a wrong choice for them
But the truth is, their choice doesn’t define your value. Just because they couldn’t see your worth doesn’t mean it wasn’t there. Some people only realize what they had once it’s gone, but by then, it’s too late.
You weren’t the wrong choice. You were just the right person for someone who didn’t know how to appreciate you.
That’s the deepest heartbreak—not losing them, but losing yourself while trying to keep them. When you pour so much of yourself into someone that you forget your own worth, your own dreams, your own identity.The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too...
Love should never cost you you. The saddest part? By the time you realize it, you’re left picking up the pieces of who you used to be, wondering how you let yourself fade for someone who never saw your light the way you deserved.
That’s the kind of pain that leaves scars. Loving someone so deeply, building dreams around them, only to have them walk away like it meant nothing—without even giving you the closure you deserve. It’s a cruel kind of abandonment, one that leaves you questioning everything.
People do change in the blink of an eye, and sometimes, the love that felt unbreakable turns into a mere afterthought for them. Being kept as an option? That’s the ultimate betrayal. You give them your all, thinking you’re their priority, only to realize you were just a backup plan.
True love exists, but it’s rare, and finding someone who truly values you is harder than the fairytales make it seem. Reality has a way of testing our faith in love, but even after all the hurt, somehow, we still hope… and maybe that’s the cruelest part of all.
Ahaan thank you ....ohhh finding someone else woahh I guess someone doesn't love his legs and hands ahem.....
YOU ARE THE FULLSTOP @jasminee
you are the only thing i need and you will be mine forever and ever after @jasminee
@FernandeZ its your thread haha then i have a reply for you
think like this and I will kill you .....murat..... good you say it's a joke otherwise you will be dead meat......
Ahaan thank you ....ohhh finding someone else woahh I guess someone doesn't love his legs and hands ahem.....
if i ever think like this i will surely love my hands and leg broken hehe jaanyess it is a joke
Good for you
yess it is a joke
that it's a joke sam....