What’s a green flag people don’t talk about enough?

[skye]

Mine,
When someone remembers something you said once in passing and brings it up weeks later. It’s such a small thing, but it makes you realize they were actually listening.

What’s yours? What’s one tiny thing someone did that instantly made you see them differently?

 

[cheetra]

First, is he self-confident? Not with pretentious arrogance, but by being himself and nonchalant.
Second, it is the small gestures, like getting water without asking or passing a pack of chips to share. In a nutshell, he shows care for me through his actions.

 

[skye]

First, is he self-confident? Not with pretentious arrogance, but by being himself and nonchalant.
Second, it is the small gestures, like getting water without asking or passing a pack of chips to share. In a nutshell, he shows care for me through his actions.

The chips one is so real It’s always the little things that make you feel genuinely cared for. And I completely agree about being comfortable in your own skin confidence without the need to prove it is so attractive.

 

[Hazell]

Someone who stays consistent even after they know they have your attention. The effort doesn’t suddenly disappear once they know they’ve “got” you. They still check in, still listen, still show up. Because consistency after the chase is over says more than effort during it.

 

[skye]

Someone who stays consistent even after they know they have your attention. The effort doesn’t suddenly disappear once they know they’ve “got” you. They still check in, still listen, still show up. Because consistency after the chase is over says more than effort during it.

This is such a good one. I think consistency after the initial excitement fades is what really shows someone’s intentions. Anyone can put in effort while they’re trying to win you over, but continuing to show up once they already have your attention? That’s rare.