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THIS IS ME!

Virtual world or real, common problem in relationships is trust and understanding. The behavior of that boy, you described, is simply immaturity. You did great! You may have lost your peace for a while, but you overcame that well. Kudos
 
Soofiih said:
Overthinking is okay... But keeping the misunderstanding forever isn't a good thing. Some connections are just like that. I saw a person here. First I saw him only on forum. But after a few days I found his name on the chat list. So I realised he is a MALLU!:sarcasm:
We talked like best friends, we called, we used to talk in a crazy way.
I am a person having lot of schedules in my daily life. I sleeping time looks like 2-3 hours per day. I'm a student also doing part time works cuz, I don't wanna depend on anyone and wanna payback to the people I have asked for money previously. So I may get busy because of that. And when I get friendly with someone, it doesn't mean that I will be completely investing all my free moments with that person. I wanna talk with everyone, so I prefer chat room. Okay... So this mallu guy left because he felt like I'm not talking to him, okay so he could have openly say that to me. Instead of that what he did was BLOCKING ME from where we used to talk. And started acting like nothing happened on the chat wall. When I asked him the reason, his reply was like THERE'S SO NEED OF SUCH A PERSONAL SPACE! Okay fine! Then I felt like THERE'S NO NEED OF TALKING TOO!
FRIENDSHIP OR ANY KIND OF RELATION FIRST OF ALL NEEDS UNDERSTANDING... YOU MIGHT BE FREE EVERYTIME. BUT THE PERSON IN THE OPPOSITE SIDE MAY NOT BE!
And I don't wanna cry or overthink over this. When someone leaves, if it is my mistake I will follow them behind crying and sobbing till they starts talking to me normally. I NEVER FELT DOING THIS HERE! I'M LIVING IN MY OWN WAY!
AND TO BE HONEST, STOP BEING DRAMATIC EVEN WHEN YOU FEEL BAD OR ANYTHING NOT GOOD FROM THE PERSON IN THE OPPOSITE SIDE!
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Usually, I don’t spend much time on forums, but I felt like replying to this.

I believe every connection needs understanding, not constant availability. Being busy doesn’t mean someone doesn’t care, and expecting attention doesn’t make someone wrong either. Sometimes, all it takes is an honest conversation instead of assumptions and silence.

Never mistake someone’s limited time for a lack of care, and never let your expectations become someone else’s obligation. True connections are built on understanding, not demands. ❤️
 
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