The Cost of Being Too Available

[Haakuji]

Kabhi notice kiya hai?
Jab hum kisi ke liye hamesha available rehte hain, toh dheere-dheere humari presence unke liye special nahi, normal ban jaati hai.

Tum unke messages ka turant reply karte ho, unki problems sunte ho, unke bure waqt mein unke saath khade rehte ho. Unke paas duniya na ho, tab bhi tum hote ho.

Lekin problem tab shuru hoti hai jab log tumhari kindness ko tumhari responsibility samajhne lagte hain.

Tum ek din busy ho jao, reply late kar do, ya bas thoda apne liye waqt maang lo—aur suddenly tum “badal gaye.”

Sach toh ye hai ki har waqt available rehna kabhi-kabhi logon ko tumhari value samajhne se rok deta hai.

Isliye har kisi ke liye har waqt available rehna zaroori nahi.
Kuch waqt apne liye bhi rakho. Apni peace ke liye, apne dreams ke liye, aur un cheezon ke liye jo tumhe khud se connected rakhti hain.

Because being there for everyone is beautiful, but losing yourself while doing it is not.

 

[cheetra]

Utility theory of economics.
So True.
Demand and supply paradox

 

[DORAEM0N]

Kabhi notice kiya hai?
Jab hum kisi ke liye hamesha available rehte hain, toh dheere-dheere humari presence unke liye special nahi, normal ban jaati hai.

Tum unke messages ka turant reply karte ho, unki problems sunte ho, unke bure waqt mein unke saath khade rehte ho. Unke paas duniya na ho, tab bhi tum hote ho.

Lekin problem tab shuru hoti hai jab log tumhari kindness ko tumhari responsibility samajhne lagte hain.

Tum ek din busy ho jao, reply late kar do, ya bas thoda apne liye waqt maang lo—aur suddenly tum “badal gaye.”

Sach toh ye hai ki har waqt available rehna kabhi-kabhi logon ko tumhari value samajhne se rok deta hai.

Isliye har kisi ke liye har waqt available rehna zaroori nahi.
Kuch waqt apne liye bhi rakho. Apni peace ke liye, apne dreams ke liye, aur un cheezon ke liye jo tumhe khud se connected rakhti hain.

Because being there for everyone is beautiful, but losing yourself while doing it is not.

Ye sb jo tum likhte ho na isme ham phd kar chuke h haha kuch naya batao to manu jitna forum m koi Gyan ya advice deta wo pehle se pata hi hota h wo ham mante nhi alag baat h haha ye sab har jagah dikhaneko miljate h ese bate..

 

[Haakuji]

Ye sb jo tum likhte ho na isme ham phd kar chuke h haha kuch naya batao to manu jitna forum m koi Gyan ya advice deta wo pehle se pata hi hota h wo ham mante nhi alag baat h haha ye sab har jagah dikhaneko miljate h ese bate..

Haha, PhD kar chuke ho toh certificate dikha dena. “Sab pehle se pata hai” kehna easy hai, lekin agar itna sab pata hota toh shayad har baat par “hum maante nahi” kehne ki zarurat bhi nahi padti. Gyaan har jagah milta hai, par usse samajhna aur apply karna alag baat hai.

 

[DORAEM0N]

Haha, PhD kar chuke ho toh certificate dikha dena. “Sab pehle se pata hai” kehna easy hai, lekin agar itna sab pata hota toh shayad har baat par “hum maante nahi” kehne ki zarurat bhi nahi padti. Gyaan har jagah milta hai, par usse samajhna aur apply karna alag baat hai.

Ok thanks kuch ni samjhti m

 

[Haakuji]

Ok thanks kuch ni samjhti m

Samjhati sab ho bs batatai nhi hoo

 

[DORAEM0N]

Samjhati sab ho bs batatai nhi hoo

Sach m nhi samjhi bich wala part..well dekho kya galat bola mene tumne kaha Kisike keliye jyada available hona p kuch keemat na rehti jo sach h sab experience kare h batane wali baat ni na new h or bhi jo sab yaha kehte kahin na kahin sabne esa experience kara h or bhi social media h sab h Jahan se sab new new chije dekhne mil jata h isliye kahi kuch alag new bolo or baki raha ye sab koi par real life m try ni karta esi gyan.. bkt k sath hi sab hota h wo sikhte h sudhar te h kya karna kya nhi jan pate h tum bas keh sakte ho par apply wo ye karenge jo unko sahi lage khud...

 

[Haakuji]

Sach m nhi samjhi bich wala part..well dekho kya galat bola mene tumne kaha Kisike keliye jyada available hona p kuch keemat na rehti jo sach h sab experience kare h batane wali baat ni na new h or bhi jo sab yaha kehte kahin na kahin sabne esa experience kara h or bhi social media h sab h Jahan se sab new new chije dekhne mil jata h isliye kahi kuch alag new bolo or baki raha ye sab koi par real life m try ni karta esi gyan.. bkt k sath hi sab hota h wo sikhte h sudhar te h kya karna kya nhi jan pate h tum bas keh sakte ho par apply wo ye karenge jo unko sahi lage khud...

Isiliye mai sirf ek baar kehta hoo baar baar mujhe kisi se kehne ki zarurat nhi Hoti hai sab yaha par Apne marzi ke maalik hai