Yeah, it’s disturbing to think that anyone could find enjoyment in playing these emotional games, regardless of whether it’s a guy or a girl on the receiving end. It’s about respect and empathy, and when people stop seeing others as real people with feelings, that’s when things go wrong. It's the same whether someone’s hurting a boy or a girl — emotional manipulation and playing with people’s hearts is wrong, period.
I think the key to recognizing these types of people is noticing their lack of genuine emotional connection. They might constantly shift their identity or their behavior based on who they’re with, and their actions might feel more self-serving than caring. But sometimes, it's hard to spot early on because they can be really good at hiding their true nature. Maybe we need to trust our gut more and recognize when things feel off — when someone’s more focused on the game than the actual person they’re with. It’s like having a kind of ‘emotional radar’ that picks up on the dissonance between their words and their actions. Do you think that could be a way to avoid getting too attached to these types?
