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Illusion

Illusion

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For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...3614da5165168a791b0a4d83fa5d9cdd.jpg
 
Illusion said:
For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...View attachment 366906
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Literally, this is happening with me right now....
 
Illusion said:
For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...View attachment 366906
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True
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Illusion said:
For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...View attachment 366906
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True… silence often hurts more than the truth itself. Sometimes clarity could heal wounds faster than time ever will.
 
Illusion said:
For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...View attachment 366906
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When a person is denied the opportunity to understand the reasons behind a separation, breakup, or other significant event, it can lead to feelings of frustration, confusion, and a preoccupation with what went wrong. This can prolong the healing process and hinder the ability to move forward.
 
Illusion said:
For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...View attachment 366906
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Always experienced that thing tbh from childhood , later I just stop caring about people at one point even my parent's also I stop caring but guess what at the next moment they started calling me Cold hearted person telling me like it was my fault and always blamed me like I was the Sinner .
 
It's understandable if you want an explanation for this behavior. Being left out in the dark is not an easy situation to be in especially if you are confident that you haven't done anything wrong.
However, there's really nothing you can do about it if the person wants space from you. No matter how much we want to seek answers for our questions, we have to accept that we can't get it all the time.
Do yourself a favor, move on, and realize that for every person you lose there could be more to gain, and you should take what you learned from this one and use this insight to improve them.
The situation that you're in is a test of how mature and understanding you can be. And I hope that you pass and learn from this one.
 
Illusion said:
For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...View attachment 366906
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If u don't hear from me for more than 2 days....just extend your arm and u will find that I'll always be there to hold it ;)
 
Sometimes, people who once talked to us every day, got close quickly, or those we deeply cared about, just end up leaving. I’m sure many of the people who previously replied here have also done this to others—or might even be doing it right now. It’s a part of how relationships can change over time. Some might get offended reading this, but it’s honestly a reality many of us face.
 
Illusion said:
For some people, it's easy to come and vanish like nothing happened. Maybe it feels fun for them, but the one left behind keeps searching for answers… wondering, what was my fault? And the hardest part? They never bother to answer. Instead, a third person steps in with their version of the story—"you did this, you did that"—making the wound even deeper for the one still stuck in confusion. She tries to calm her mind, but every word just adds fuel to the storm. Sometimes a little clarity could save an overthinker… otherwise, silence becomes the cruelest punishment...View attachment 366906
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Some people just don't have the courage to be honest, and this is the heartbreaking result.
Awesome Intelligence™​
 
Nemo said:
This is how I feel all the time, like everything, even if it has absolutely nothing to do with is my fault... and I never understand why
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Exactly… it's like they leave us in complete darkness, and the "why" just keeps echoing in your mind...
 
Juliette said:
True… silence often hurts more than the truth itself. Sometimes clarity could heal wounds faster than time ever will.
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Exactly… but the thing is some people don even realize what it's like to be an overthinker... Once a thought gets stuck in your head, it's not easy to shake off,and sometimes it can even trigger a full-blown panic before you know it....
 
BAjith said:
@Illusion
May Be Yu shud Not decide Happenings
Very quick!
My poV no offense!!
:doh:
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No dear, it's really not offensive... I know you always think well of me, and I appreciate that… but there's only so much one can wait... I kept waiting for answers, and then out of nowhere someone else comes in with their version, of course that hurts...
 
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