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Informative Possessive & Doubt...!!!

BadBoyV2

BadBoyV2

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As thr r so many misunderstanding tat happens within these 2... :worried:

Lets get evrybodies opinion abt it..

On my point of view...
Possessive is the outcome of unconditional love..:inlove: V il nt b possessive wen our frnd flirts wit someone bt v do get possessive wen our lovables ones flirts and ofcourse v il b rdy to kill:Anger:

Possessive is the thing tat pointing ur negativity to u, frm my eyes and wat i see negative in u.. And asking or pleading if u could change it..:heart1:

Doubt is me noticing ur negative enquiring abt u to a 3rd person and gathering infos whther tats ryt or wrng and arguing or fyting wit u for tat..:angryred:

Wat am upto say is.. Nowadays enquiring directly is considered as doubt and a 3rd persons interference is known as possessive..
Is thr a 3rd person needed..? To explain the innocence abt ur loved ones..?:hitthewall:

Tis s full and full my aspect.. Thr s no compulsion tat evrybdy gets same view.. Juz lets clear abt tis now:inlove:
 
* Possessiveness is like - self mediated - a fear of insecurity - holding ur pet bird by its neck, u know u love the bird , but u are hurting it in fear that it may fly away !!!

* Doubt - Triggered by a 3rd person who interferes and puts his/her nose where it shouldn't be !!! - Due to lack of communication !

Both are like a vicious cycle, one leading to the other, toxic in the end !
 
Pinkcandy said:
Another way to put this :

* Naive,first timers in love get --> Possessive
* Experienced ones go for -----> Doubt
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Another way to put this!!
First time love teaches people to doubt and enquire before seriously getting committed and regret later!!!:p
 
IMHO, any relationship be it friendship or a romantic relationship. It's just based on two things. Trust and being comfortably vulnerable with that person. Possessiveness and doubtfulness go against that very foundation. Whether therez any truth behind the doubt or it's just one person's insecurity, by the time you are at this point that relationship is already done for.. After this point it's up to the 2 ppl involved to decide if they wanna rebuild it or call it quits.

And yeah, the more u drag this without a talk or a resolution the more messier it gets.. Either as a vicious cycle or as a fckn suckerpunch one fine day.
 
doubting someonee whoever it may be whatever :p means you're not trusting her/him, which is perhaps caused by possessiveness, since you become very suspicious towards the other.

both are superduper unhealthy, if this exists in between means the relationship is in the brick of failure or could lead to its falldown if its not fixed. Proper one on one mature talk is a must. Or else byebye:think:
 
Noted evry points :rock: yet 1 doubt.
Getting possessive and let'em know tat v feel sucha way, tats not lack of trust na..?:worried:
V directly wanted to hav a mature talk wit'em, then y its considered as a sin..?
Does insecurity and Possessiveness linked to each other:surprised: I was thinking both r different factors.
Insecurity is a fear of lossing the person.
bt
Possessivenss comes even if someone else tries to flirt wit our beloved, v get a strike to intimate'em...
So if both spks open heartedly its gonna b grt ryt..?
In a relationshp the one pointing others leading to trouble and correcting at initial stage and saving'em is also Love ryt....?:wait:
 
BadBoyV2 said:
Noted evry points :rock: yet 1 doubt.
Getting possessive and let'em know tat v feel sucha way, tats not lack of trust na..?:worried:
V directly wanted to hav a mature talk wit'em, then y its considered as a sin..?
Does insecurity and Possessiveness linked to each other:surprised: I was thinking both r different factors.
Insecurity is a fear of lossing the person.
bt
Possessivenss comes even if someone else tries to flirt wit our beloved, v get a strike to intimate'em...
So if both spks open heartedly its gonna b grt ryt..?
In a relationshp the one pointing others leading to trouble and correcting at initial stage and saving'em is also Love ryt....?:wait:
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if you believe in yourself that ur worthy enough, u wont feel such thing na :) maybe thats why theres a quote love yourself more than anyone else. If ur giving 60 to others and 40 of love to yourself, then its the problem na. You cannot teach them how you wanted to be loved. So just love and love yourself :Laugh1: and let others seeyou and love you the way you should be loved. :p
 
Melody said:
if you believe in yourself that ur worthy enough, u wont feel such thing na :) maybe thats why theres a quote love yourself more than anyone else. If ur giving 60 to others and 40 of love to yourself, then its the problem na. You cannot teach them how you wanted to be loved. So just love and love yourself :Laugh1: and let others seeyou and love you the way you should be loved. :p
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Done dear:Like:
As am very weak in Knowledge dint undrstnd yet:holiday:
 
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