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Men are Simple...❣️✨️

Ghazal

Ghazal

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Men are so simple. is it really???

Normally I have heard that Men should be rough and tough , they shouldn't cry , they should be strong mentally and emotionally..... If compared to a woman, men express the things in a totally different way. If there is a problem , rather than solving it by discussing with others they give logical answers but we woman think it with our emotional side and finally end up in a fight.. It makes us wonder " y the he'll he is like that".

But when we comes home after a grocery shopping even if we didn't ask them they lend as their hands.... If our car or bike is in a trouble they'll try to fix it .... while traveling even if they too do like the window seat and just because we love it; they will offer it to us happily... giving the last piece of their favorite food are all those little ways they tell us they do care.....

Rather than saying 100 times " I love you" i find all these little things touching my heart.... and they dont even ask for much tooo..... they find their happiness in the little hot wheel cars we gift and they keep it as a treasure..... All these little things make me realize that " Men are simple".....

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Ghazal said:
Men are so simple. is it really???

Normally I have heard that Men should be rough and tough , they shouldn't cry , they should be strong mentally and emotionally..... If compared to a woman, men express the things in a totally different way. If there is a problem , rather than solving it by discussing with others they give logical answers but we woman think it with our emotional side and finally end up in a fight.. It makes us wonder " y the he'll he is like that".

But when we comes home after a grocery shopping even if we didn't ask them they lend as their hands.... If our car or bike is in a trouble they'll try to fix it .... while traveling even if they too do like the window seat and just because we love it; they will offer it to us happily... giving the last piece of their favorite food are all those little ways they tell us they do care.....

Rather than saying 100 times " I love you" i find all these little things touching my heart.... and they dont even ask for much tooo..... they find their happiness in the little hot wheel cars we gift and they keep it as a treasure..... All these little things make me realize that " Men are simple".....

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Men are brave.:relieved:
 
Uvva! Seems like you fell for some dreamy filmy shit, “men are simple” is just a catchphrase, nothing more, nothing less. Silence isn’t simplicity, it’s just emotional laziness or complete indifference. And no, fixing a tire doesn’t replace the basic skill of expressing feelings. Maybe we are conditioned that way, but it’s something that needs to be broken i guess.

Also, let’s kill the cliche, women aren’t emotional wrecks running on tears . Women are logical, sharp, and probably just tired of hearing “you feel too much,” while men get medals for saying nothing, Lol.

So yeah, communication is the real key, hope your man will practice that rather giving you 'adivayattile manj peyyal' by offering a window seat .
 
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Kunnesh said:
Uvva! Seems like you fell for some dreamy filmy shit, “men are simple” is just a catchphrase, nothing more, nothing less. Silence isn’t simplicity, it’s just emotional laziness or complete indifference. And no, fixing a tire doesn’t replace the basic skill of expressing feelings. Maybe we are conditioned that way, but it’s something that needs to be broken i guess.

Also, let’s kill the cliche, women aren’t emotional wrecks running on tears . Women are logical, sharp, and probably just tired of hearing “you feel too much,” while men get medals for saying nothing, Lol.

So yeah, communication is the real key, hope your man will practice that rather giving you 'adivayattile manj peyyal' by offering a window seat .
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y u have to have to always put ur way of thinking in someone else brain. this is wat i felt.....
 
Ghazal said:
Men are so simple. is it really???

Normally I have heard that Men should be rough and tough , they shouldn't cry , they should be strong mentally and emotionally..... If compared to a woman, men express the things in a totally different way. If there is a problem , rather than solving it by discussing with others they give logical answers but we woman think it with our emotional side and finally end up in a fight.. It makes us wonder " y the he'll he is like that".

But when we comes home after a grocery shopping even if we didn't ask them they lend as their hands.... If our car or bike is in a trouble they'll try to fix it .... while traveling even if they too do like the window seat and just because we love it; they will offer it to us happily... giving the last piece of their favorite food are all those little ways they tell us they do care.....

Rather than saying 100 times " I love you" i find all these little things touching my heart.... and they dont even ask for much tooo..... they find their happiness in the little hot wheel cars we gift and they keep it as a treasure..... All these little things make me realize that " Men are simple".....

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Strongly disagree with this dear...
All the men i have come across ain't that simple but more of complicated ones.
 
Furiosa said:
Strongly disagree with this dear...
All the men i have come across ain't that simple but more of complicated ones.
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ohh I agree wat i said above is just my thoughts from my experience.... it can't be same with anyone else
 
Kunnesh said:
Uvva! Seems like you fell for some dreamy filmy shit, “men are simple” is just a catchphrase, nothing more, nothing less. Silence isn’t simplicity, it’s just emotional laziness or complete indifference. And no, fixing a tire doesn’t replace the basic skill of expressing feelings. Maybe we are conditioned that way, but it’s something that needs to be broken i guess.

Also, let’s kill the cliche, women aren’t emotional wrecks running on tears . Women are logical, sharp, and probably just tired of hearing “you feel too much,” while men get medals for saying nothing, Lol.

So yeah, communication is the real key, hope your man will practice that rather giving you 'adivayattile manj peyyal' by offering a window seat .
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Furiosa said:
Strongly disagree with this dear...
All the men i have come across ain't that simple but more of complicated ones.
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Sorry to interrupt, guys... Please don't find me annoying. Actually, what she wrote makes me feel that this kind of man only exists in my imagination. Because I've never met someone like that yet, or maybe I did, but that person changed over time. But if she truly believes that men are simple, and has found someone who embodies that simplicity (I don't know if she has or not, just saying), then from her perspective, that's all that matters. For her, he's the kind of man who shows love through small gestures, like offering the window seat or fixing her car. We should be happy for her, and pray that her pov for a man remain unchanged. May she continue to see the beauty in his simplicity.... Let's sincerely wish her all the best.... And honestly, I still believe that if there's good, there's bad. Just because we haven't encountered this kind of man in our lives, it doesn't mean they don't exist; we just haven't found them yet. Sorry if I sound rude or hurt anyone's feelings; I just wanted to share my point of view.
 
Ghazal said:
Men are so simple. is it really???

Normally I have heard that Men should be rough and tough , they shouldn't cry , they should be strong mentally and emotionally..... If compared to a woman, men express the things in a totally different way. If there is a problem , rather than solving it by discussing with others they give logical answers but we woman think it with our emotional side and finally end up in a fight.. It makes us wonder " y the he'll he is like that".

But when we comes home after a grocery shopping even if we didn't ask them they lend as their hands.... If our car or bike is in a trouble they'll try to fix it .... while traveling even if they too do like the window seat and just because we love it; they will offer it to us happily... giving the last piece of their favorite food are all those little ways they tell us they do care.....

Rather than saying 100 times " I love you" i find all these little things touching my heart.... and they dont even ask for much tooo..... they find their happiness in the little hot wheel cars we gift and they keep it as a treasure..... All these little things make me realize that " Men are simple".....

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"Men show love through actions, not words "
Awesome Intelligence ™​
 
Ghazal said:
Men are so simple. is it really???

Normally I have heard that Men should be rough and tough , they shouldn't cry , they should be strong mentally and emotionally..... If compared to a woman, men express the things in a totally different way. If there is a problem , rather than solving it by discussing with others they give logical answers but we woman think it with our emotional side and finally end up in a fight.. It makes us wonder " y the he'll he is like that".

But when we comes home after a grocery shopping even if we didn't ask them they lend as their hands.... If our car or bike is in a trouble they'll try to fix it .... while traveling even if they too do like the window seat and just because we love it; they will offer it to us happily... giving the last piece of their favorite food are all those little ways they tell us they do care.....

Rather than saying 100 times " I love you" i find all these little things touching my heart.... and they dont even ask for much tooo..... they find their happiness in the little hot wheel cars we gift and they keep it as a treasure..... All these little things make me realize that " Men are simple".....

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Men will be men
 
Ghazal said:
Men are so simple. is it really???

Normally I have heard that Men should be rough and tough , they shouldn't cry , they should be strong mentally and emotionally..... If compared to a woman, men express the things in a totally different way. If there is a problem , rather than solving it by discussing with others they give logical answers but we woman think it with our emotional side and finally end up in a fight.. It makes us wonder " y the he'll he is like that".

But when we comes home after a grocery shopping even if we didn't ask them they lend as their hands.... If our car or bike is in a trouble they'll try to fix it .... while traveling even if they too do like the window seat and just because we love it; they will offer it to us happily... giving the last piece of their favorite food are all those little ways they tell us they do care.....

Rather than saying 100 times " I love you" i find all these little things touching my heart.... and they dont even ask for much tooo..... they find their happiness in the little hot wheel cars we gift and they keep it as a treasure..... All these little things make me realize that " Men are simple".....

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Njan rough and tough alle kunjipenne :giggle:
 
Illusion said:
Sorry to interrupt, guys... Please don't find me annoying. Actually, what she wrote makes me feel that this kind of man only exists in my imagination. Because I've never met someone like that yet, or maybe I did, but that person changed over time. But if she truly believes that men are simple, and has found someone who embodies that simplicity (I don't know if she has or not, just saying), then from her perspective, that's all that matters. For her, he's the kind of man who shows love through small gestures, like offering the window seat or fixing her car. We should be happy for her, and pray that her pov for a man remain unchanged. May she continue to see the beauty in his simplicity.... Let's sincerely wish her all the best.... And honestly, I still believe that if there's good, there's bad. Just because we haven't encountered this kind of man in our lives, it doesn't mean they don't exist; we just haven't found them yet. Sorry if I sound rude or hurt anyone's feelings; I just wanted to share my point of view.
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That's what I meant here.... It's not that I haven't met men who are complicated but those who touched my heart are all simple...
 
Illusion said:
Sorry to interrupt, guys... Please don't find me annoying. Actually, what she wrote makes me feel that this kind of man only exists in my imagination. Because I've never met someone like that yet, or maybe I did, but that person changed over time. But if she truly believes that men are simple, and has found someone who embodies that simplicity (I don't know if she has or not, just saying), then from her perspective, that's all that matters. For her, he's the kind of man who shows love through small gestures, like offering the window seat or fixing her car. We should be happy for her, and pray that her pov for a man remain unchanged. May she continue to see the beauty in his simplicity.... Let's sincerely wish her all the best.... And honestly, I still believe that if there's good, there's bad. Just because we haven't encountered this kind of man in our lives, it doesn't mean they don't exist; we just haven't found them yet. Sorry if I sound rude or hurt anyone's feelings; I just wanted to share my point of view.
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Well, Chivalry is not dead yet. Anyways let me do some dissection.

'They lend their hands, they give the last piece of food, they offer the window seat'

Here Ghazal framed this as rare and heart melting acts of love. Does'nt this normalises the idea that when men show bare minimum kindness, it's extraordinary. It reflects how women are conditioned to expect less and feel deeply grateful for basic consideration.

Moving on,

'Men give logical answers, we women think with our emotional side'

Again, the cliched harmful binary, rational men and emotional women. Doesn't this glorifies the emotional unavailability of men while framing women’s emotionality as the source of conflict?

And finally,

'Rather than saying ‘I love you’, they show it in little things'

Well, this can be true as people express love differently, but this often becomes an excuse for men never having to do the work of developing emotional communication, because women already do the interpreting, forgiving, and filling in the gaps.
 
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