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Limerence...

kadal

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Limerence is like falling into a deep dream while you are still completely awake. It usually happens when you have a gentle, childlike heart that trusts and cares very easily. You start to think about one specific person all the time. Every song you hear, every quiet moment you have, and every word you write somehow becomes about them. You pour all your beautiful feelings into this connection, truly believing that they feel the exact same way you do.
But the saddest part of limerence is that you are often building this dream all by yourself. You give them your best words, your time, and your deepest care. Then, suddenly, they might change their mind halfway through without giving you any reason at all. It breaks your heart because you realize that your pure, unconditional love was given to an illusion. You are left standing there in the heavy silence, realizing they were never really ready for the depth you offered.
Waking up from this dream is painful, but it is also how you protect your own peace. You begin to understand that your ability to love so deeply is a rare and beautiful gift, not a mistake. Sometimes, knowing when to walk away and take a quiet break is the bravest thing you can do. You learn to close that chapter and step back, saving your beautiful efforts for someone whose actions prove they actually deserve your heart.
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Limerence is like falling into a deep dream while you are still completely awake. It usually happens when you have a gentle, childlike heart that trusts and cares very easily. You start to think about one specific person all the time. Every song you hear, every quiet moment you have, and every word you write somehow becomes about them. You pour all your beautiful feelings into this connection, truly believing that they feel the exact same way you do.
But the saddest part of limerence is that you are often building this dream all by yourself. You give them your best words, your time, and your deepest care. Then, suddenly, they might change their mind halfway through without giving you any reason at all. It breaks your heart because you realize that your pure, unconditional love was given to an illusion. You are left standing there in the heavy silence, realizing they were never really ready for the depth you offered.
Waking up from this dream is painful, but it is also how you protect your own peace. You begin to understand that your ability to love so deeply is a rare and beautiful gift, not a mistake. Sometimes, knowing when to walk away and take a quiet break is the bravest thing you can do. You learn to close that chapter and step back, saving your beautiful efforts for someone whose actions prove they actually deserve your heart.
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So true. Sometimes the heart gets attached before the brain even gets a chance to approve it.
 
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Limerence is like falling into a deep dream while you are still completely awake. It usually happens when you have a gentle, childlike heart that trusts and cares very easily. You start to think about one specific person all the time. Every song you hear, every quiet moment you have, and every word you write somehow becomes about them. You pour all your beautiful feelings into this connection, truly believing that they feel the exact same way you do.
But the saddest part of limerence is that you are often building this dream all by yourself. You give them your best words, your time, and your deepest care. Then, suddenly, they might change their mind halfway through without giving you any reason at all. It breaks your heart because you realize that your pure, unconditional love was given to an illusion. You are left standing there in the heavy silence, realizing they were never really ready for the depth you offered.
Waking up from this dream is painful, but it is also how you protect your own peace. You begin to understand that your ability to love so deeply is a rare and beautiful gift, not a mistake. Sometimes, knowing when to walk away and take a quiet break is the bravest thing you can do. You learn to close that chapter and step back, saving your beautiful efforts for someone whose actions prove they actually deserve your heart.
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Sometimes the feelings are real, even when things aren’t the way we imagine them. The hard part is knowing the difference.
 
Mostly, I feel after a relationship ends that I was in an illusion.
Now I know the word for it.

:Dream1:

All my relationships have always been just like that... completely one sided. So I have actually known the word 'limerence' for a long time. But I am really happy to know that you were at least able to learn something from me. :)
 
Yeah... I am just a guy falling for all the girls here, including you. But it is always one sided, and my heart is exhausted... Tell me your secret... how do you keep your heart and brain so perfectly balanced? :)
Actually my heart is already busy with its pumping duties So I let my brain handle the decision making. Seems like a fair division of work ....
 
Actually my heart is already busy with its pumping duties So I let my brain handle the decision making. Seems like a fair division of work ....

That is a perfect idea. Problems always arise when the heart starts taking decisions. It is best to let the brain decide whether the heart needs to love a person or not. Now I think I just need to bribe your brain... ;)
 
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Limerence is like falling into a deep dream while you are still completely awake. It usually happens when you have a gentle, childlike heart that trusts and cares very easily. You start to think about one specific person all the time. Every song you hear, every quiet moment you have, and every word you write somehow becomes about them. You pour all your beautiful feelings into this connection, truly believing that they feel the exact same way you do.
But the saddest part of limerence is that you are often building this dream all by yourself. You give them your best words, your time, and your deepest care. Then, suddenly, they might change their mind halfway through without giving you any reason at all. It breaks your heart because you realize that your pure, unconditional love was given to an illusion. You are left standing there in the heavy silence, realizing they were never really ready for the depth you offered.
Waking up from this dream is painful, but it is also how you protect your own peace. You begin to understand that your ability to love so deeply is a rare and beautiful gift, not a mistake. Sometimes, knowing when to walk away and take a quiet break is the bravest thing you can do. You learn to close that chapter and step back, saving your beautiful efforts for someone whose actions prove they actually deserve your heart.
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You have described the pain of limerence and heartbreak in such beautiful words that it touches the heart directly. Loving someone with all your heart is not a mistake, and this pain is proof of just how genuine your heart is. Recognizing your own worth and stepping away at the right time truly requires immense courage. Cherish these beautiful feelings of yours—save them for someone who is worthy of such deep affection...
 
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