honeybee
Favoured Frenzy
“Do you think we fall in love with conversations or with people?”
I think we fall in love with conversations first...
When talking to someone just starts feeling easy. You're laughing more, telling them random things about your day, sending them things you wouldn't tell anyone else. No pressure, no overthinking, and you just want to keep talking.
And then it slowly becomes a habit. You check your phone a little more. You keep reading their messages again and again. You're smiling at something they said hours ago.
You start thinking you've fallen for the person.
But you actually fell for the comfort, the attention, how they made you laugh, how they teased you, the way they made you feel seen without making it a big deal.
The person just came later.
I think we fall in love with conversations first...
When talking to someone just starts feeling easy. You're laughing more, telling them random things about your day, sending them things you wouldn't tell anyone else. No pressure, no overthinking, and you just want to keep talking.
And then it slowly becomes a habit. You check your phone a little more. You keep reading their messages again and again. You're smiling at something they said hours ago.
You start thinking you've fallen for the person.
But you actually fell for the comfort, the attention, how they made you laugh, how they teased you, the way they made you feel seen without making it a big deal.
The person just came later.
Noted! Conversations are important, but keeping our guard up is part of the conversation too. 