Absolutely.. what u said is true, and I'm not denying it at all... Of course, men do a lot for their partners during pregnancy.. caring, supporting, and doing everything they can... And if a woman is lucky enough to have someone like that by her side, it's truly a blessing..Oh damn, looks like it's portrayed that men are fit for nothing.
There are no arguments about the pregnancy pain for women. Agreed.
That doesn't mean we are travelling at ease during the journey.
Seeing our loved ones suffering in pain isn't something easily tackled.
But here is what men do:
Inspired by real experiences shared by couples and mothers.
A husband noticed the little changes in his wife as she approached the early months of pregnancy—a gentle tiredness, sudden cravings, and a new vulnerability that made him want to do everything he could for her.
He made it his mission to ensure she never felt alone on the journey.
Mornings started with her favorite breakfast, carefully chosen after her bouts of morning sickness, and he accompanied her to every prenatal appointment, jotting down questions and supporting her as they navigated health worries and hopes for the baby together.
When her feet swelled, he gently massaged them each night and picked up the tasks she couldn’t do, never complaining, always attentive.
He celebrated with her during the good ultrasounds and sat quietly, holding her hand through anxious moments.
As her body changed and her emotions sometimes overwhelmed her, he offered gentle words and hugs, listening more than speaking.
Near the end of her pregnancy, when sleep became elusive and every movement a challenge, he set up pillows to help her rest, ran last-minute errands, and reminded her every day how much she was loved.
When the time came, he stayed by her side, encouraging her, sharing her pain and her joy as they welcomed their child together—beginning anew, buoyed by a foundation of small acts of love and unwavering care.
( unluckily not every women is lucky also, I have seen many cases whr thr husband are not that supportive)
ofc emotional support helps a lot..But what I'm trying to say with my post is about the pain itself.. the physical challenges of pregnancy... It's about whether men could ever truly experience or endure that level of pain. The love and care men provide are amazing and essential, but the physical suffering of pregnancy is something entirely different...So yes I completely respect and appreciate the role of having a partner but the point of my post is to highlight the real pain that women go through , something men cannot fully experience, no matter how supportive they are...
