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I - The kadal

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People often think they know someone just by looking at what is on the outside. But what they see is only a very thin layer. They see the small ripples and the daily habits, but they never see the heavy, silent currents moving underneath. You might know my name, my face, and my daily routines, but those things do not make up my true reality. They are just the parts of me that are easy to see.
When you try to understand me, you are using the tools of your own mind. You measure my thoughts, my choices, and my feelings using your own past experiences and your own limits. But a small cup can never be used to measure the entire sea. You build a picture of me in your head that makes sense to you, but that picture is confined by the limits of your own imagination. My reality stretches far beyond the boundaries of what you are able to perceive.
I am not actively hiding who I am from you. It is simply that the truth of my existence is too vast to be captured in a quick judgment or a simple idea. There is a whole quiet, breathing world inside me; filled with unspoken memories, shifting emotions, and endless thoughts. You will never truly know who I am in reality, simply because you cannot understand the bottom of an ocean just by standing safely on the shore.

And that is exactly why I am the Ocean... the
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kadal"... the endless SEA.
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:heart1:Excellent one ...

I have an another view of this... Sorry if you think I'm wrong.....

I have a heart that loves admiring the ocean. I do have a desire to explore the deep sea, but more than that, I also carry a lot of fear.

Sometimes, not knowing everything in depth can be a beautiful thing too. When we dive too deep, expectations start sitting heavy on our shoulders. Then come endless explanations, misunderstandings, arguments, and eventually we end up hurting each other emotionally.

Maybe it is better to just sit on the shore, watch the ocean peacefully, and enjoy its beauty. Knowing that there is something mysterious and surprising hidden within it, and simply enjoying that mystery.

No complaints. No disappointments. No emotional wounds.

Just staying in that beautiful surprise forever... like being in a peaceful Zen mode.


Assumptions are cheap understanding takes effort.
It doesn’t matter how much or how little someone knows about you
what truly hurts is when they build a whole perception and pass judgment without ever taking the time to talk to the person and verify it
 
Assumptions are cheap understanding takes effort.
It doesn’t matter how much or how little someone knows about you
what truly hurts is when they build a whole perception and pass judgment without ever taking the time to talk to the person and verify it

You are so right. It amazes me how people here will judge someone and spread gossip without ever saying a single word to them. They build a whole fake image based on zero facts. To be honest, doing that just shows their own insecurities. Spreading rumors is an easy way for insecure people to hide their own flaws, because actually trying to understand someone takes real effort.
 
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People often think they know someone just by looking at what is on the outside. But what they see is only a very thin layer. They see the small ripples and the daily habits, but they never see the heavy, silent currents moving underneath. You might know my name, my face, and my daily routines, but those things do not make up my true reality. They are just the parts of me that are easy to see.
When you try to understand me, you are using the tools of your own mind. You measure my thoughts, my choices, and my feelings using your own past experiences and your own limits. But a small cup can never be used to measure the entire sea. You build a picture of me in your head that makes sense to you, but that picture is confined by the limits of your own imagination. My reality stretches far beyond the boundaries of what you are able to perceive.
I am not actively hiding who I am from you. It is simply that the truth of my existence is too vast to be captured in a quick judgment or a simple idea. There is a whole quiet, breathing world inside me; filled with unspoken memories, shifting emotions, and endless thoughts. You will never truly know who I am in reality, simply because you cannot understand the bottom of an ocean just by standing safely on the shore.

And that is exactly why I am the Ocean... the
"
kadal"... the endless SEA.
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Standing at a safe distance on the beach, one can never unravel the secrets of the ocean floor; some vast souls can only be observed with awe from across the tide.
 
Standing at a safe distance on the beach, one can never unravel the secrets of the ocean floor; some vast souls can only be observed with awe from across the tide.

Yeah... if you already know that, then why don't you try diving a little deeper into me? I have been waiting years to finally see you take that dive. ;)
 
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