Here are a few steps to take to work your way up to asking a girl out over text.
The initial text is the equivalent of asking a girl out for the first time. You can’t just type the words ‘will you go out with me’ and hit send. You must be tactful in your text approach. After all, there is no tone in the text, and it’s important to make sure she’s impressed by your approach. Be playful and say something to make her smile if possible. Keep it light and consider mentioning something that you both are familiar with to ensure that she gets the point. The goal is to establish a string of texts that are light-hearted and positive in nature. This creates a good mood and opens the door for you to pop the big question, even if it’s only a date you’re asking for.
Keep the texts going to spark an interesting conversation. When you approach someone to ask him or her out, you never walk up, ask the question, and walk away. There is a great deal of conversation to engage interest. Texting should follow a similar protocol. You should strive to send a few texts that encourage her to share a bit about herself and her likes. Think about it, if she tells you her hobbies, favorite foods, or favorite things to do via text, planning a date will be easier. Utilize texting to get to the point of asking her out on a date.
The time has arrived, and you’re ready to ask her out. Once a point of interest has been determined or easily seen, it’s time to ask her out. It’s easy to remain in the conversation or getting to know each other phase for too long because it becomes comfortable. It’s okay to converse via text, but don’t avoid moving towards that goal if the goal is to ask her out. Texting is a quality means of communication, but it doesn’t replace personal interactions. You must remain in sync with your initial goal, asking her out.
The moment you recognize that the conversation has elevated beyond mere chatter, take the conversation’s tone in a different direction. Suggest that you meet sometimes. She’ll like the idea that you remember her favorite spot to eat or dessert shop and likely say yes to your asking. Don’t think about what her answer will be but focus instead on your plans for the date. Prepare to receive a “yes” answer before you even ask the question.
After she replies yes and agrees to go out with you, it’s time to start planning. The logistics are always the fun part of asking a person out. You get to try and plan the perfect date. However, it doesn’t need to be all that perfect. Simple is a good place to start on the first date. It gives you both something to look forward to on the second or possibly third date. While perfection isn’t necessary, you want to make sure the date is enjoyable for both of you. Once you’ve taken care of all the details and arranged an enjoyable date, text her and let her know that you’re looking forward to going out with her.
The initial text is the equivalent of asking a girl out for the first time. You can’t just type the words ‘will you go out with me’ and hit send. You must be tactful in your text approach. After all, there is no tone in the text, and it’s important to make sure she’s impressed by your approach. Be playful and say something to make her smile if possible. Keep it light and consider mentioning something that you both are familiar with to ensure that she gets the point. The goal is to establish a string of texts that are light-hearted and positive in nature. This creates a good mood and opens the door for you to pop the big question, even if it’s only a date you’re asking for.
Keep the texts going to spark an interesting conversation. When you approach someone to ask him or her out, you never walk up, ask the question, and walk away. There is a great deal of conversation to engage interest. Texting should follow a similar protocol. You should strive to send a few texts that encourage her to share a bit about herself and her likes. Think about it, if she tells you her hobbies, favorite foods, or favorite things to do via text, planning a date will be easier. Utilize texting to get to the point of asking her out on a date.
The time has arrived, and you’re ready to ask her out. Once a point of interest has been determined or easily seen, it’s time to ask her out. It’s easy to remain in the conversation or getting to know each other phase for too long because it becomes comfortable. It’s okay to converse via text, but don’t avoid moving towards that goal if the goal is to ask her out. Texting is a quality means of communication, but it doesn’t replace personal interactions. You must remain in sync with your initial goal, asking her out.
The moment you recognize that the conversation has elevated beyond mere chatter, take the conversation’s tone in a different direction. Suggest that you meet sometimes. She’ll like the idea that you remember her favorite spot to eat or dessert shop and likely say yes to your asking. Don’t think about what her answer will be but focus instead on your plans for the date. Prepare to receive a “yes” answer before you even ask the question.
After she replies yes and agrees to go out with you, it’s time to start planning. The logistics are always the fun part of asking a person out. You get to try and plan the perfect date. However, it doesn’t need to be all that perfect. Simple is a good place to start on the first date. It gives you both something to look forward to on the second or possibly third date. While perfection isn’t necessary, you want to make sure the date is enjoyable for both of you. Once you’ve taken care of all the details and arranged an enjoyable date, text her and let her know that you’re looking forward to going out with her.
