How is it possible?

[Quagmire]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

 

[Dom55]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

Before I advocate in favor of such people who makes post, admitting they have found their special one , let me clear ,I am saying this not because I am one of them who found my love here . But I am 100 % sure they are genuine people who dares to admit openly about their soulmate whom they found here. Sometime, its hard to agree what we never experienced in life. Thats not true. Let me tell you , there is no compulsion to claim' they know everything about each other. Just imagine, in your past life till date, you never met someone ,whose presence is enough to make you happy. Isnt it more then enough. Whole life whatever we do about our life goals, achievements, luxury, relationships, entertainment, the sole purpose is happiness. When here , so called online platform, in case we find that type of person, pleasure is so tremendous, he/she want to shout and let whole world know. Just feeling of being in love has no boundaries. Its spacious like sky and deep like sea. And being human its our nature to have hope n optimism that it ll last till last breath. Dont you agree, even after official marriage , knowing each and every minute details about not just person but whole history of his/her family , they get divorce . Its life to live to its fullest. Enjoy the moment. Live in presence.

 

[marcello]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

Well i think you are wrong,
You know it when you feel it

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

Yeah... Well said man... I too had this thought. This love, true love and all is some what acceptable. It might happen. But I have seen people saying they are like brother and sister. And we have to see their caring, affection and all on a sex chat wall. What the f*ck? Everyone knows for what purpose a person comes to a sex chat site and these people are talking about bro-sis relationship. If they are really like that, then sex chat site is not a place for them. Because I think no one ask their sister or brother to go to a sex chat site and have fun. Surely I won't.

NB: I just shared my thought. I don't want any more arguments on this as I already had so many before and not interested anymore.

 

[URum]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

Exactly my thoughts

 

[TheOG]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

same same but different for everyone

 

[GandharvaJr]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

I agreed to some extent.. but... Every people is different.. Situation is different.. Here people have more freedom to express their feelings.. problems.. everything.. after talking for long time.. not fully...but we can understand people. And in my experience.. most of the people here are introverts n they are choosing this platform for sharing personal things. But if anyone thinking of one on one relationship from here.. it's foolishness.

 

[Quagmire]

I agreed to some extent.. but... Every people is different.. Situation is different.. Here people have more freedom to express their feelings.. problems.. everything.. after talking for long time.. not fully...but we can understand people. And in my experience.. most of the people here are introverts n they are choosing this platform for sharing personal things. But if anyone thinking of one on one relationship from here.. it's foolishness.

True, this is a good way for people with a lack of social skills to get together. Pakshe oru full fledged relationship ivde create cheyyan nokunne alkar undel.....
Not saying the chances of creating a meaningful relationship with online interactions alone is absolutely zero but there is more risks than rewards in this situation.

 

[Jack_v2]

This post isn't me taking a shot at anyone, just genuinely curious. I've seen a ton of posts here of people saying how they found their special someone in this site. In an anonymous adult chat room. How is this even possible? Even if you've talked to each other for months, you're still practically strangers. Unless you go on to meeting in real life and got to know each other over time, it makes no sense to me. I'm extremely selective on who I let into my inner circle, even with people I meet in real life let alone an online chat room. This place is crazier than I expected

It's a sex chat site to attract more users. Even I have searched google for adult chat and got zozo as first option. The expectation of the first time users getting in to various rooms is that it's like a red light district where they could see girls carving for sex. Ofcourse there are sex chats, nude broadcasts happening here but nobody can do that 24×7. So they get into causual talks before or after sext which could end up in building relationships. It's not necessary that 2 people should see face to face in real life for a healthy relationship. After all it's the mind game and that's why all of us are attracted to zozo and something is pulling back to here like a magnet even if we go away.

 

[Quagmire]

It's a sex chat site to attract more users. Even I have searched google for adult chat and got zozo as first option. The expectation of the first time users getting in to various rooms is that it's like a red light district where they could see girls carving for sex. Ofcourse there are sex chats, nude broadcasts happening here but nobody can do that 24×7. So they get into causual talks before or after sext which could end up in building relationships. It's not necessary that 2 people should see face to face in real life for a healthy relationship. After all it's the mind game and that's why all of us are attracted to zozo and something is pulling back to here like a magnet even if we go away.

It does have a charm to it I think it's designed to do that to a specific type of audience.

 

[GandharvaJr]

True, this is a good way for people with a lack of social skills to get together. Pakshe oru full fledged relationship ivde create cheyyan nokunne alkar undel.....
Not saying the chances of creating a meaningful relationship with online interactions alone is absolutely zero but there is more risks than rewards in this situation.

Agreed...risk is there...but sometimes safe too... 50-50.