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Growing Through What You Live Through

InkyWhispers

InkyWhispers

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One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
 
InkyWhispers said:
One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
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Very Motivational & Impressive Didi ❣️✨
 
InkyWhispers said:
One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
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Nice motivation
 
InkyWhispers said:
One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
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Hugs n kisses
 
InkyWhispers said:
One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
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Get over yourself, then move on. Everything happens for a reason.
Awesome Intelligence™​
 
InkyWhispers said:
One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
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True… and the sad part is nowadays people get so lost in their unhealed wounds that they end up hurting others, yet still play the so called "blame game". They forget that their trauma is not an excuse to break someone else...
 
InkyWhispers said:
One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
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Dear ♥️
I am still learning people, and it’s completely relatable.

Not once have I felt like the time I spent understanding them was wasted, every experience taught Me something.​
 
InkyWhispers said:
One day you wake up, sit quietly on your bed, and realize how you allowed people to waste your time, and time is life, time is money, time is precious, time is your mental health. But when you look back, you also see how important those experiences were in shaping who you are today. I believe everything happens for a reason. Learn from it, heal, and grow. Don’t let your unhealed self hurt others. Be responsible, and don’t pull anyone into your own pit and ruin their life.
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True. Time teaches the hardest lessons, but also shapes the strongest versions of us. Learn, heal, grow—and don’t repeat the same cycles.
 
Illusion said:
True… and the sad part is nowadays people get so lost in their unhealed wounds that they end up hurting others, yet still play the so called "blame game". They forget that their trauma is not an excuse to break someone else...
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People like that just feed on attention. The best thing you can do is ignore them, forget about them and move on. The more energy you give them, the more their petty problems grow.
 
Very true what you've written, very true. It's a shame that for me I just never seem to learn, it always has a way of dragging me in. Yes I have trauma, but I won't use it against anyone that's my problem and my problem alone, best to just to keep it bottled up inside of me, that way no one can use it against like they have in the past
 
Nemo said:
Very true what you've written, very true. It's a shame that for me I just never seem to learn, it always has a way of dragging me in. Yes I have trauma, but I won't use it against anyone that's my problem and my problem alone, best to just to keep it bottled up inside of me, that way no one can use it against like they have in the past
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I get it Nemo, I totally get it. All my life I’ve been very clear that I don’t break hearts or hurt anyone. If I ever did something unknowingly, it was unintentional and as soon as I realize that someone was hurt because of me, something that should never happen, I apologize.

But after living quite a chunk of my life, I’ve also learned that not everyone thinks like that. Not everyone cares about how hurt you were by their behavior. So yes out of the fear of getting hurt, I’ve set boundaries, strong boundaries.

Hope is what drags us into the same cycle making us think, “What if this time things work out?” I get it Nemo. But now I really don’t hope for anything good. People can be cruel not everyone is empathetic.
 
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