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Detachment

ModernSanyasi

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What is "Detachment" in your own words?



According to me -
Detachment is not that you own nothing... Detachment is that nothing owns you...

Technically... these are not my words...
 
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ModernSanyasi said:
What is "Detachment" in your own words?
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Understand your attachments. When you understand them completely they will fall away. We understand attachments very superficially, why do we attach to anything?

When you forcefully try to detach with something it only makes the attachment stronger, it just hides the attachment under the carpet and keeps needing more and more energy to hide it.

Instead face your attachments, learn about them gently, with passion, like you would learn about something you are deeply interested in but don’t know anything about it, learn about the how and why deeply and as the learning is complete there will be no more attachment.

Anything that is complete dies… If you can completely learn about just one of your attachments the rest will also drop away. They all have the same root.

All you need is a sincere and genuine interest to be free from attachments without the promise of any reward. :angel:
 
KIARA said:
Understand your attachments. When you understand them completely they will fall away. We understand attachments very superficially, why do we attach to anything?

When you forcefully try to detach with something it only makes the attachment stronger, it just hides the attachment under the carpet and keeps needing more and more energy to hide it.

Instead face your attachments, learn about them gently, with passion, like you would learn about something you are deeply interested in but don’t know anything about it, learn about the how and why deeply and as the learning is complete there will be no more attachment.

Anything that is complete dies… If you can completely learn about just one of your attachments the rest will also drop away. They all have the same root.

All you need is a sincere and genuine interest to be free from attachments without the promise of any reward. :angel:
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Wow kiddo... nicely described... like a school's answer....:Cwl:
 
KIARA said:
Understand your attachments. When you understand them completely they will fall away. We understand attachments very superficially, why do we attach to anything?

When you forcefully try to detach with something it only makes the attachment stronger, it just hides the attachment under the carpet and keeps needing more and more energy to hide it.

Instead face your attachments, learn about them gently, with passion, like you would learn about something you are deeply interested in but don’t know anything about it, learn about the how and why deeply and as the learning is complete there will be no more attachment.

Anything that is complete dies… If you can completely learn about just one of your attachments the rest will also drop away. They all have the same root.

All you need is a sincere and genuine interest to be free from attachments without the promise of any reward. :angel:
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He clearly mentioned your own words ! :think:
 
The way film stars do romance for the sake of movie and thereafter they disperse is 'detachment' to me. They have husband or wife at home but still they do romance with co-stars, kiss each other, get intimate and for what?? only for a purpose, i.e, their movies. When the purpose is fulfilled, they come back to home, to their spouses without having a second thought. And if they don't and start having another relationship with their newly co-stars, u know eventually their lives would become a mess. (We have many examples in bollywood and tollywood ;))
So as a whole, life is like a movie where we play our own roles, we love, we kiss, we get intimate and thereafter we gotta disperse. If not our lives would be a mess, we get stuck with a certain role and our co-stars will suppress us :)
I mean to say that detachment is life and life is detachment :nodding:
 
ANGEL WITH HORNS said:
Not attached anymore...
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So u have to get attached first, then only u might know what's the detachment...!!!!! :fingercross:

Pinkcandy said:
Simple - being ready to say BYE even before the HELLO !
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Detachment will happens only when things got attached first ryt??


and now about detachment...

its nothing but to get remove a thing from the stage of attachment.. it could be anything,
 
Pinkcandy said:
Simple - being ready to say BYE even before the HELLO !
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More like... prevention is better than cure... :p
SPIRIT said:
I mean to say that detachment is life and life is detachment :nodding:
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Agreed bro....
Shyam said:
So u have to get attached first, then only u might know what's the detachment...!!!!! :fingercross:


Detachment will happens only when things got attached first ryt??


and now about detachment...

its nothing but to get remove a thing from the stage of attachment.. it could be anything,
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Yeah bro... detachment and attachment... learning to let go...
 
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