Deal breaker?..where do you actually draw the line.

[OliviaRose]

Hi guys!

Firstly — What do you consider a deal breaker in a relationship?

What is something your partner could do that would make you feel, “I can’t continue this relationship anymore,” no matter how much you love them?

For example:

• disrespect,
• Never appreciate small things which we do for them,
• emotional/physical abuse,
• lack of trust,
• controlling behaviour,
• lack of effort, etc.

Secondly — How tolerant would you be to save a relationship?

We all know that no relationship is perfect. At some point, every relationship requires us to adjust, compromise, forgive, communicate, and make sacrifices for each other.

But the question is — how far are you willing to go?

What are the things you would be willing to work through because you love the person, and where would you draw the line and say, “This is too much for me”?

I feel our limits can be very different depending on the life we’ve experienced, the relationships we’ve seen around us, how we were brought up, and what we personally value in a relationship.

So, I’d genuinely love to know everyone’s perspective. (Boys and girls)

So simple,

✓What would you forgive or work through in a relationship?

✓ What is something you would never tolerate(a deal-breaker quality), even if you deeply loved the person?​

No right or wrong answers here , just curious to understand how different people view love, compromise, boundaries and self-respect.

 

[Indrajith]

Idhelaaam aalu erukuravanga sola vendiyadhu
Namku thaaan

 

[OliviaRose]

Unga karutha keka aaval oda iruinthaney @Indrajith

 

[Indrajith]

Unga karutha keka aaval oda iruinthaney @Indrajith

Puriyudhu aana aalu ilayeee na ena panuven..

 

[winee]

Love is a bit like a garden it needs patience, care, understanding and effort from both sides. Not every dry season means the garden should be abandoned; sometimes it just needs a little more care.

But if one person is watering it, protecting it, talking to it like a crazy person … while the other keeps stepping on it, at some point you have to accept that the plant isn’t the problem. The gardener is , love alone can’t keep it alive.

Mistakes can be forgiven. Differences can be understood. Hard times can be faced together. But repeated disrespect, dishonesty, manipulation or hurting someone’s peace shouldn’t be mistaken for “compromise.”

Love should feel like a place where two people grow together, not a place where one person slowly loses themselves trying to keep it alive.

 

[Laylaa]

Lying n cheating r obvious deal breakers for me but..
making me feel lyk I m not enough ?? That's something I'd nvr tolerate. I can forgive a mistake but I won't forgive someone for slowly destroying my confidence.

There s nothing worse than slowly starting to question urself ~ your looks , ur worth , ur efforts n y ? Just bcs someone else didn't know how to value or handle something beautiful they had .

I can tolerate imperfections, misunderstandings nd even difficult phases.

What I can't tolerate is being made to feel replaceable, unwanted or unworthy.

Hi guys!

Firstly — What do you consider a deal breaker in a relationship?

What is something your partner could do that would make you feel, “I can’t continue this relationship anymore,” no matter how much you love them?

For example:

• disrespect,
• Never appreciate small things which we do for them,
• emotional/physical abuse,
• lack of trust,
• controlling behaviour,
• lack of effort, etc.

Secondly — How tolerant would you be to save a relationship?

We all know that no relationship is perfect. At some point, every relationship requires us to adjust, compromise, forgive, communicate, and make sacrifices for each other.

But the question is — how far are you willing to go?

What are the things you would be willing to work through because you love the person, and where would you draw the line and say, “This is too much for me”?

I feel our limits can be very different depending on the life we’ve experienced, the relationships we’ve seen around us, how we were brought up, and what we personally value in a relationship.

So, I’d genuinely love to know everyone’s perspective. (Boys and girls)

So simple,

✓What would you forgive or work through in a relationship?

✓ What is something you would never tolerate(a deal-breaker quality), even if you deeply loved the person?​

No right or wrong answers here , just curious to understand how different people view love, compromise, boundaries and self-respect.

I can forgive mistakes .. I can't forgive being made to feel lyk a mistake.

Bcs if loving them slowly make me dislike myself.. I m leaving .



NO RELATIONSHIP IS WORTH LOSING YOUR SENSE OF WORTH OVER.

 

[Hazell]

For me, prioritising is a BIG deal. I get that you can be busy, have stuff going on, or get caught up with life but don’t make me feel like I’m your #1 and then switch up when something else comes along.
I don’t need to be the centre of your universe 24/7, but consistency matters. If you make me feel important, your actions better match that energy too.
I can compromise on a lot, but not on feeling valued, chosen, and prioritised. The moment I start feeling like I’m only important when it’s convenient for you, yeah… that’s where I’m out.

 

[Hazell]

But that’s my opinion. What about you,hun?

 

[Sherin97]

Inum nee research panitee dhaan irukiyaaaaa Roseuhhhhhh

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[Hazell]

Inum nee research panitee dhaan irukiyaaaaa Roseuhhhhhh

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Adiney irupom mathiri panitey irupom.. ipo la pasanga kita pesavey pudikala nu solra sherinuuu

 

[OliviaRose]

But that’s my opinion. What about you,hun?

For mee,

Being disrespectful. Joking and having fun is completely okay, but I can never tolerate someone who intentionally disrespects women, especially the women in his life. The words you choose and the way you treat people say a lot about what’s truly in your mind. If you don’t know how to respect the woman you love, then you don’t deserve her. That’s definitely a deal-breaker for me.

Not being fully committed. We all want love, care, understanding, and to feel valued. But those things come when you genuinely make an effort . When you take the time to know someone, spend time with them, prioritize them, and choose them wholeheartedly. You’re always free to leave, but don’t stay with me if you’re not fully into me. Being with someone without truly wanting them is a deal-breaker for me.

I really love how these girlies express their thoughts. I genuinely love learning different perspectives from them.

What I can't tolerate is being made to feel replaceable, unwanted or unworthy.

This is so beautifully said. No one deserves to be in a relationship where they’re constantly made to feel replaceable, unwanted, or unworthy. You deserve to feel chosen, valued, and loved. Kudos, my girl.

But repeated disrespect, dishonesty, manipulation or hurting someone’s peace shouldn’t be mistaken for “compromise.”

This line! Because honestly, when a mistake keeps getting repeated after you’ve already expressed how much it hurts you, it stops being just a mistake. It shows how little importance they give to your feelings and boundaries. And that’s definitely a deal-breaker .

The moment I start feeling like I’m only important when it’s convenient for you, yeah… that’s where I’m out.

Being taken for granted? Never.
I want to feel chosen, valued, and appreciated , not just when it’s convenient for you. Very true, we could rather walk away than keep asking someone to see my worth.

 

[Sherin97]

Adiney irupom mathiri panitey irupom.. ipo la pasanga kita pesavey pudikala nu solra sherinuuu

Avaloda theevira aaraichi-in effect uh elaammm...
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[OliviaRose]

Avaloda theevira aaraichi-in effect uh elaammm...
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Inum nee research panitee dhaan irukiyaaaaa Roseuhhhhhh

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Karuthu soluvinga nu paatha kalaikuringaley

 

[Hazell]

Avaloda theevira aaraichi-in effect uh elaammm...
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Pavam yevan vandhu sikka poran nu therila

 

[Captain Ching]

Hi guys!

Firstly — What do you consider a deal breaker in a relationship?

What is something your partner could do that would make you feel, “I can’t continue this relationship anymore,” no matter how much you love them?

For example:

• disrespect,
• Never appreciate small things which we do for them,
• emotional/physical abuse,
• lack of trust,
• controlling behaviour,
• lack of effort, etc.

Secondly — How tolerant would you be to save a relationship?

We all know that no relationship is perfect. At some point, every relationship requires us to adjust, compromise, forgive, communicate, and make sacrifices for each other.

But the question is — how far are you willing to go?

What are the things you would be willing to work through because you love the person, and where would you draw the line and say, “This is too much for me”?

I feel our limits can be very different depending on the life we’ve experienced, the relationships we’ve seen around us, how we were brought up, and what we personally value in a relationship.

So, I’d genuinely love to know everyone’s perspective. (Boys and girls)

So simple,

✓What would you forgive or work through in a relationship?

✓ What is something you would never tolerate(a deal-breaker quality), even if you deeply loved the person?​

No right or wrong answers here , just curious to understand how different people view love, compromise, boundaries and self-respect.

To be honest, love has its place, but respect and trust come first.

 

[Sherin97]

Karuthu soluvinga nu paatha kalaikuringaley

After thinking seriouslyyyy for few mins ...

Karutthuuuuuuu....


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Solliten​

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[OliviaRose]

After thinking seriouslyyyy for few mins ...

Karutthuuuuuuu....


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Solliten​

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Ithana unga karuthu

 

[MINSAARAKKANNAA✨✨]

Hi guys!

Firstly — What do you consider a deal breaker in a relationship?

What is something your partner could do that would make you feel, “I can’t continue this relationship anymore,” no matter how much you love them?

For example:

• disrespect,
• Never appreciate small things which we do for them,
• emotional/physical abuse,
• lack of trust,
• controlling behaviour,
• lack of effort, etc.

Secondly — How tolerant would you be to save a relationship?

We all know that no relationship is perfect. At some point, every relationship requires us to adjust, compromise, forgive, communicate, and make sacrifices for each other.

But the question is — how far are you willing to go?

What are the things you would be willing to work through because you love the person, and where would you draw the line and say, “This is too much for me”?

I feel our limits can be very different depending on the life we’ve experienced, the relationships we’ve seen around us, how we were brought up, and what we personally value in a relationship.

So, I’d genuinely love to know everyone’s perspective. (Boys and girls)

So simple,

✓What would you forgive or work through in a relationship?

✓ What is something you would never tolerate(a deal-breaker quality), even if you deeply loved the person?​

No right or wrong answers here , just curious to understand how different people view love, compromise, boundaries and self-respect.

And aalu illadha me

 

[Baron_Smith]

Hi guys!

Firstly — What do you consider a deal breaker in a relationship?

What is something your partner could do that would make you feel, “I can’t continue this relationship anymore,” no matter how much you love them?

For example:

• disrespect,
• Never appreciate small things which we do for them,
• emotional/physical abuse,
• lack of trust,
• controlling behaviour,
• lack of effort, etc.

Secondly — How tolerant would you be to save a relationship?

We all know that no relationship is perfect. At some point, every relationship requires us to adjust, compromise, forgive, communicate, and make sacrifices for each other.

But the question is — how far are you willing to go?

What are the things you would be willing to work through because you love the person, and where would you draw the line and say, “This is too much for me”?

I feel our limits can be very different depending on the life we’ve experienced, the relationships we’ve seen around us, how we were brought up, and what we personally value in a relationship.

So, I’d genuinely love to know everyone’s perspective. (Boys and girls)

So simple,

✓What would you forgive or work through in a relationship?

✓ What is something you would never tolerate(a deal-breaker quality), even if you deeply loved the person?​

No right or wrong answers here , just curious to understand how different people view love, compromise, boundaries and self-respect.

Being WANTED is the most thing needed in the relationship..

 

[NatsuDragneel]

love pannatha kootam than ipadi yosikum eanna eana yosikura parunga

Deal breaker in relationship let me think.....
Humiliating in front of others
Cheating
Not giving priority
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It's about their feelings what he thinks precious to him / her if that thing get broken their relationship will break . So it will change person to person

Ultimately their expectations will kill their relationship
Making false promise will ruin everything
If u can't , don't promise to her /him
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What ever happen some love will survive
That's y
" Kaadhaluku kan illai " ipolam kan kaathu mooku eathume ile ‍veliya irunthu paaka namaku eanada ithu love nu thonum aana avanga athaum santhosama eathukittu joly aa than irupanga namma than kavalai padanum so intha aaraichiyalam kuli thondi pothachutu natsu mathri oru nalla paiyan kidacha takkunu kadathitu poirunga