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Boyzz according to ya what quality makes a girl wifey material??

Timatee said:
1. Great cooking skills
2. Loyalty
3. Intelligence
4. Good heart
5. Pretty looks
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Only intelligence. Intelligence is the wisdom of truth. 'Truth' is the liberation from our ego. Who will help me liberate my ego and I will do the same for her. This is what 'love' means to me of late.
 
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Timatee said:
1. Great cooking skills
2. Loyalty
3. Intelligence
4. Good heart
5. Pretty looks
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Hello and good evening everyone. In my opinion there is no perfect human being. Everyone has some kind of flaw. That being said in my opinion it would be "Intelligence" cause if a woman is intelligent the other 3 qualities aka great cooking skills , loyalty and good heart kind of comes in built as a package. To add to that looks do matter , cause as humans the first thing one notices is a person's appearance and looks. Well beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder as it is. So to conclude for me an intelligent woman is best but to top it all if she is beautiful , that's an added bonus. :)
 
Rasputin_M said:
Hello and good evening everyone. In my opinion there is no perfect human being. Everyone has some kind of flaw. That being said in my opinion it would be "Intelligence" cause if a woman is intelligent the other 3 qualities aka great cooking skills , loyalty and good heart kind of comes in built as a package. To add to that looks do matter , cause as humans the first thing one notices is a person's appearance and looks. Well beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder as it is. So to conclude for me an intelligent woman is best but to top it all if she is beautiful , that's an added bonus. :)
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Well put bro. Let me clarify more about 'intelligence'. People often get confused between intelligence and intellect. In spirituality, intelligence means not iq, or any problem solving skills or worldly knowledge. In spirituality, 'intelligence' means the wisdom of pure self, i.e 'Atma'. One who knows he/she is not their body, or mind and one who knows that his/her emotions are mere consequence of chemical reaction in their brain, and thus attempt to find the truth (truth is liberation from ego, beyond body mind dimension), then only he / she is intelligent. Sadly, we misconstrue emotions, attachment, loyalty as 'love' but they are not. Love is beyond them. Emotions are seen in animals also. Our definition of 'love' is petty animalistic. Emotions are not love, they are mere bodily reactions. We are beyond our body, we are higher consciousness, why not to utilize it in higher pursuit and help our lovers to pursue the same? The very definition of love is 'liberating one's ego, setting others free, unfettering others' bondages'. When we can do this, only then we can truly love others, otherwise 'love' will remain mere game of emotions, i.e, attachment, possessiveness, loyalty, expectations and all shits.
 
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SPIRIT said:
Well put bro. Let me clarify more about 'intelligence'. People often get confused between intelligence and intellect. In spirituality, intelligence means not iq, or any problem solving skills or worldly knowledge. In spirituality, 'intelligence' means the wisdom of pure self, i.e 'Atma'. One who knows he/she is not their body, or mind and one who knows that his/her emotions are mere consequence of chemical reaction in their brain, and attempt to find the truth (truth is liberation of ego, beyond body mind dimension), then only he / she is intelligent. Sadly, we misconstrue emotions, attachment, loyalty as 'love' but they are not. Love is beyond them. Emotions are seen in animals also. Our definition of 'love' is petty animalistic. Emotions are not love, they are mere bodily reactions. We are beyond our body, we are higher consciousness, why not to utilize it in higher pursuit and help our lovers to pursue the same? The very definition of love is 'liberating one's ego, setting others free, unfetter others' bondage'. When we can do this, only then we can truly love others, otherwise 'love' will remain mere game of emotions, i.e, attachment, possessiveness, loyalty, expectations and all shits.
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Superb bro. Extremely well said, kudos bro.
 
Timatee said:
1. Great cooking skills
2. Loyalty
3. Intelligence
4. Good heart
5. Pretty looks
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1. Great cooking skills
2. Loyalty
3. Intelligence
4. Good heart
5. Pretty looks

All these are necessary but
Only if you have a good heart, everything else will be there

so I just need a good heart wife
Do you have a good heat
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