TheWanderer
Favoured Frenzy
PS: To all the feminine souls out there, please don't get offended. This is an observation, not a gender war. I see people as human beings, not as species.
Two observations from everyday office life.
Scene 1: Two female colleagues. Every morning, they look at each other, admire each other's outfits, notice when the other is looking particularly good, exchange the biggest smiles and make each other's day a little brighter.
No competition. No insecurity. Just genuine appreciation.
Scene 2: A tall, beautiful woman with long hair, picture-perfect looks and full-on Queen Bee energy enters the lift. Someone greets her. Silence. Not once, not twice... it's almost becoming a personality trait.
And that got me thinking...
What exactly creates this I'm-better-than-everyone attitude?
Is it beauty? Does being admired all your life slowly convince you that ordinary greetings are beneath your royal status?
Is it the special treatment you've received because you look a certain way?
Or is it a cocktail of beauty, privilege, constant validation and a little too much self-importance?
Because here's the funny part: Looking like a queen is genetics. Treating people like they matter is character.
A smile costs nothing. A greeting doesn't reduce your beauty. And acknowledging another human being doesn't threaten your crown.
Some people make a room brighter when they enter.
Others just make you wonder whether the lift has a VIP floor you weren't informed about.
Just saying... beauty is wonderful, but basic courtesy is an even better accessory.
Two observations from everyday office life.
Scene 1: Two female colleagues. Every morning, they look at each other, admire each other's outfits, notice when the other is looking particularly good, exchange the biggest smiles and make each other's day a little brighter.
No competition. No insecurity. Just genuine appreciation.
Scene 2: A tall, beautiful woman with long hair, picture-perfect looks and full-on Queen Bee energy enters the lift. Someone greets her. Silence. Not once, not twice... it's almost becoming a personality trait.
And that got me thinking...
What exactly creates this I'm-better-than-everyone attitude?
Is it beauty? Does being admired all your life slowly convince you that ordinary greetings are beneath your royal status?
Is it the special treatment you've received because you look a certain way?
Or is it a cocktail of beauty, privilege, constant validation and a little too much self-importance?
Because here's the funny part: Looking like a queen is genetics. Treating people like they matter is character.
A smile costs nothing. A greeting doesn't reduce your beauty. And acknowledging another human being doesn't threaten your crown.
Some people make a room brighter when they enter.
Others just make you wonder whether the lift has a VIP floor you weren't informed about.
Just saying... beauty is wonderful, but basic courtesy is an even better accessory.
