Ya its quite contradictory usage right
How can be you be kind when you are behaving rude.. But there are some instances were this may come right. The person that you are going to be rude may so close to you and do things that makes you angry you can express your anger in such a way that he / ya she may not get hurt utterly. Because that will become another problem. Its not about being angry and saying angry words or about shouting but saying things that may hurt them deep will remain a wound and thats always going to come back as a bomarang.
So when you are going to be rude. Be rude but always do it in a gentle way so as the person will understand your anger and still be there for you after the fight........ Have a nice sunday to all
How can be you be kind when you are behaving rude.. But there are some instances were this may come right. The person that you are going to be rude may so close to you and do things that makes you angry you can express your anger in such a way that he / ya she may not get hurt utterly. Because that will become another problem. Its not about being angry and saying angry words or about shouting but saying things that may hurt them deep will remain a wound and thats always going to come back as a bomarang.
So when you are going to be rude. Be rude but always do it in a gentle way so as the person will understand your anger and still be there for you after the fight........ Have a nice sunday to all