Be brutally honest while sharing your opinion........

[Itsme_04]

You are about to get married. A week before the wedding, your partner confesses they have a secret debt (student loans, failed business, or credit cards). They are a good person and a hard worker, but this debt will delay your ability to buy a house, have kids, or travel for at least a decade. They didn't tell you because they were "ashamed" and didn't want to lose you. Would you still be with that person?
Is this a "financial mistake" or a "character betrayal"?

 

[Honey bunch]

You are about to get married. A week before the wedding, your partner confesses they have a secret debt (student loans, failed business, or credit cards). They are a good person and a hard worker, but this debt will delay your ability to buy a house, have kids, or travel for at least a decade. They didn't tell you because they were "ashamed" and didn't want to lose you. Would you still be with that person?
Is this a "financial mistake" or a "character betrayal"?

Yes, it should be shared. Debt isn’t the issue, it’s something that affects both lives after marriage.

Hiding it takes away the other person’s right to make an informed choice.

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[Itsme_04]

Yes, it should be shared. Debt isn’t the issue, it’s something that affects both lives after marriage.

Hiding it takes away the other person’s right to make an informed choice.

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Yeah! I too believe love alone isn't enough... Transparency in all departments is necessary for a prolonged and successful relationship ...

 

[Honey bunch]

Yeah! I too believe love alone isn't enough... Transparency in all departments is necessary for a prolonged and successful relationship ...

Yeah