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Abuser vs User's vs Staff

Let the devil speak the truth.


Yes, I’m not in denial. I’ve mocked, I’ve used satire — that’s always been my way of responding to absurdity. But let’s not be selective in our moral outrage. Because abuse is never a one-way street. When emotions run high, people lash out — both sides. So let’s quit the act of playing judge, jury, and saint.


You want to bring screenshots? Go ahead. But screenshots without context are like a half-written story. Until you hear both sides, all you're doing is painting a biased picture.


And let me ask — what’s so wrong if I speak respectfully to moderators? Does that instantly make it a conspiracy? Or is it just your own insecurity talking?


What you call “bias,” I call mutual respect. I've been open about who I am and what I stand for since the day I joined ZoZo. I share thoughts with moderators because we have common interests — in fact, I knew both before they even got their badges. That’s not favoritism — it’s just real, organic interaction. You think everything revolves around power and ego because that’s the lens you choose to wear.


To those crying wolf — where were you when vulgar slurs, sexist remarks, and caste-based filth were being hurled at me? Don’t act like victims now when you were silent back then. Don't pretend to be morally superior when you yourselves engaged in group ganging and name-calling.


Let me also clear the air on another thing — I’ve been kicked, muted, banned multiple times. I didn’t cry victim, I didn’t run to the forum screaming injustice. I took it. But when bans are handed without hearing my side, when bias starts replacing judgment, that’s when I speak up. That’s when I return — not out of defiance, but because I deserve a voice too.


Coming to the tantrums about moderators — tell me this: is it wrong for a moderator to be kind? To be human? Or is your real problem the fact that they didn’t conform to your personal opinions?


You talk of unfairness, but where were your complaints when people made ugly assumptions, dragged my name into imaginary romantic links, and started vile gossip? You’re angry not because of bias — you’re angry because your vendetta failed.


Let me ask this directly — were you this fired up when I was the target? When I was being slandered? Or did you enjoy that spectacle because it didn’t affect your comfort zone?


And yes — I’ve come in guest IDs. So have you. So have most of you screaming here. Don’t wear that self-righteous badge now and pretend you’re holier than thou.


Now, about moderation: do you think I’ve never been punished? Think again. I’ve faced the brunt. I’ve also been warned and guided by staff like @Kannaa and @Witcher, who I respect deeply. And when they did, I responded with logic — not personal attacks.


And don’t think I’ve forgotten how you all turn invisible when administrators are present — because you know you can’t twist the system then. You only target moderators because you think they’re the “easier” ones to pull down. Don’t talk of “integrity” when your activism only kicks in when it suits your bias.


You think I'm here to collect points or fight for badges? Please. I don’t give a damn about digital clout. I’m here because I’ve built real conversations, discussed ideas, shared perspectives, and found genuine people I vibe with.


But of course — some of you won’t see that. Because you’ve already decided that I’m the villain in your made-up narrative.


I’ve said this before and I’ll say it again — there are two sides to every story, and you don’t own the copyright on truth.


And if I am to be judged, let me be judged with context, not convenient screenshots, not group politics, and certainly not personal vendettas.


If you want to talk fairness — then practice it first.


If you want to talk rights — then also talk responsibilities.


Because this isn’t just about me. This is about how selective you are with your outrage, how quick you are to vilify when someone refuses to kneel, and how conveniently you forget that you were once the same — just on the other side of the wall.


I’m done explaining myself. I’ll continue to speak when I must, and I will never be silenced by noise masquerading as morality...........


Don’t delete this post. Don’t try to gag me. Let it stay. Let it resonate. @AASHVATHKANNA and other staff @Aphrodite @Hades


This isn’t a people’s court where mob opinions pass judgment. I’m not here to win a popularity contest — I’m simply speaking up. Because silence only empowers the wolves in sheep’s clothing, and I refuse to be a bystander any longer.


For once, just listen to my voice — not filtered through gossip, not twisted through screenshots — but straight from the horse’s mouth.


Yes, I’m the one you’ve branded the “devil,” the “villain.” Fine — so be it. But even the so-called devil deserves to be heard.


You’ve all formed your stories. Now hear mine.


Because truth has two sides, and justice can never be served if only one is allowed to speak.
 
Do you folks really have the gumption to speak with logic — in all fairness — minus the theatrics and melodrama?


Do you have the spine to own your mistakes like I do? Or is accountability just a one-way mirror for you?


Let’s get this straight — I’m not here chasing badges, points, or digital brownie stars. I’ve long outgrown that glitter. I’m here because I’ve got views, interests, and conversations that actually belong on an adult chat site.


And by the way — "adult chat" doesn’t mean we’re all busy sexting like hormonal zombies 24/7. Nobody’s holding their dick 365 days a year — let’s stop pretending that’s the default here.
 
"THE NEVER ENDING STORY"


Abuser:

There're many types of abuser's we encounter in chat rooms below r few..,
  1. Few persons Who kept grudge/ jealous on someone, come with guest IDs to satisfy their inner soul.​
  2. Few abuses instantly with their own ID when they got hurt​
  3. Few persons hit u hard psychologically they won't leave u until u got exhausted. (more dangerous).​
  4. The "kattappaa" who's with us and who knows everything about us will backstabs....etc​
Does abusing is new to telugu room (or others rooms)...? No
Go to complaint section in forum u can access to "n" number of complaints and U may get suprise when u came to know that few so called well-known users are also an abuser (long back).

So the person who's abusing is changing not the abusing., time to time that abuser place is replaced by someone else.


User's:
The active participation of an user is more important to engage/keep wall conversation alive.
  1. Few persons, they don't follow rules but they raise their voice for staff to take actions on others.
  2. Few users, who don't wanna use ignore button they wait until staff to take action.
  3. Few who escape or will go offline when there's an issue.
  4. Few, try to help others and hit report buttons and inform mods.
  5. Few, who thinks "ignorance is bliss"..
  6. The person's who can't tolerate partiality... Etc
Basically the problem starts with gossiping (back bitching - nah nah Itching). In virtual everything is an illusion so if u r giving information to someone.., one day it'll be backfire. (INFORMATION IS WEALTH) so keep restricting urself to not giving any information about your personal World.

Second one, staff being biased or partial while taking action on users..? But user's need to know that we All r humans so sometimes we may missed the chats or sometimes they're away or may be chatting in pvt (even they've their personal life). Go to their pvt and tell the situation and ask them to take action (maximum times it'll work).

And u thought we r enjoying the power but the reality is when the abuser take U-turn on us(staff) nobody will stood with us(staff). U guyz will enjoy ur chats but we have to face the consequences. I know ur question (If staff take the badge it doesn't mean they have to tolerate abusing or they have to stay all the time or always active).

( In my personal experience Only SAILU Garu stood with me when an abuser abused me she raised her voice against him except her nobody Literally Nobody take stand for me in my entire staff journey)

Thirdly why don't u guys use ignore option when someone is poking or abusing u..?

Lemme give a real world scenario

Someone is coming with sword will u RUN or Will u Just STAND their until police arrive...? (I hope u get my point).

Remember one thing we (all users) are not here to do flights nor to satisfy our EGO or not to encourage abusing.. we all have enough issues in our real life why should we spoil this virtual time too (Think about it).


Staff:
I don't have any right to speak about staff just I'm sharing my past experience and what I've seen in Telugu room in recent day's
"Staff: Entered as unknown and became as well-known". You r few of them who was awarded with privilege badge along with responsibility.

Types of staff (I hope everyone aware of it so I don't need to categorise)

When someone get Badge they've two roles.. 1. Staff role 2. User (self) role

If there's a badge beside our name we have to keep our user mode within control coz we r representing the site as a staff our actions may impact/ create problems.

Lemme share my parsonal experience - when I was Admin I've access to knock user's pvt even their pvt was off. When I came to know they're uncomfortable with my message, I never bothered (ashamed) to say sorry coz there's is a Big badge beside my name so my texts will create negative impacts to users.

And as a admin I said sorry to many users when my co staff members being rude with them. Sometimes a small sorry can sort out things.


Second one, keep ur EGO away don't take actions to satisfy ur EGO (don't listen to the user in You when u r with staff ID).

Ask ur senior whenever u r going to take action to new issue (u never encountered before) when I was room mod I always knocked Ichayan's Pvt for rules so when u r new it's okay to ask ur senior

Nilaani, Shyam, Jupi, somiya, witcher, singh all these guys are came from that stage, so fell free to ask ur seniors if u have any doubt.

Don't be partial/ take stands do consider everyone equally.

One thing where I get jealous on u guyz, when I was conducting events everyone poked or hurted me with their words (both staff side and users) and I've to say sorry for keeping events alive.. and faced lot's of abusing too but U guys have BIG MAN and he's not even allowing anyone to touch you.



Coming to Telugu room issues
  1. Posting song's is fine but keeping those lyrics on wall is irritating, I'm not talking about one or two users as far as I know they're 6-8 user's doing this. Doing this one or twice is acceptable but doing for every song and everyday it's really hectic.
  2. Gossiping: Don't use someone's personal or site matters for basement of ur flirting or timepass ,if u guys don't have anything to talk in pvt just stop pvt chatting.
  3. If someone is going to poke you just hit ignore on his first tag (If u cut the communication half of the problem will solved). Don't think that others are watching, the reality is they need one topic to chit chat so today u became topic but tomorrow some else..., they don't even know who u r in ur real life.
  4. Staff and user conflicts (may b misunderstanding or miscommunication). Satisfying EGO will give u nothing so be neutral in every situation.
  5. Fighting on wall for back bitching leaks.......... earlier I said Information is wealth so if someone passed ur info to others it's okay just stop fighting on wall, create pvt conversation in forum with all the members who are part of it and sort it out. (Wall Convo gives info to all online user's and make the issue more complex).
  6. Politricks
These are only few issues I mentioned.


And I request My brothers @ModernSanyasi, & Ash man (I think this idiot changed his ID)

Create a forum conversation with 4 of you @ukgirl @mysteriouzz

And before going to offline inform to other three persons what actions and on whome u guyz took when u r online. This will create awareness on issue to other telugu room staff members so they can act accordingly.

I hope this will be useful to minimize the disturbances in Telugu room.



Last but but the least..


Dear user's once u left this site someone will replace you and Dear staff once you handed over badge owner's will recruit someone else in ur place. So don't waste ur valuable time for flights which gives you nothing.

we all are mature enough so u guyz decide what to do and what not to do..

(Flights or peace Now the ball in ur court).


I'm ending this here ...



HAPPY FLIRTATIONSHIP
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:whistle: This is so funny..... First two times reason they gave is "Chatterbox" but I'm not chatterbox and now :rofl1: but why ? same bull shit ? what I did ? @ukgirl
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