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Why Some are able to Hurt you???????

DRAGON LORD

DRAGON LORD

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Did you ever noticed all people might not able to hurt you but a few. And the wound that they creat may burn deep and deep. Did you ever thought why. Will you get hurt if a person unknown tell you something or give you a false statement even if he/she cheat. We will be angry we may qurrel with them thats all
We are not going to get hurt. But the same place when your dear one ya near one did a deed similar how will you feel. You may not going to quarrel. You might fall into silence. You might not have words to quarrel. Did you ever thought why such things happened. Its simply because we have trusted them. When that trust gets break we might become so silent its not becuse of the action but because our trust get broken. Am I right. Did you ever become silent on such things or becomes more angry....
 
Earlier I used to get angry.
Later I used to go silent.
Now I feel dejected.

I have learned that what is broken is my perception of the person. They were perhaps always like that, it is just that I failed to see it or ignored it even when it was right in front of me.

It still hurts. There is no denying that.
 
DRAGON LORD said:
Did you ever noticed all people might not able to hurt you but a few. And the wound that they creat may burn deep and deep. Did you ever thought why. Will you get hurt if a person unknown tell you something or give you a false statement even if he/she cheat. We will be angry we may qurrel with them thats all
We are not going to get hurt. But the same place when your dear one ya near one did a deed similar how will you feel. You may not going to quarrel. You might fall into silence. You might not have words to quarrel. Did you ever thought why such things happened. Its simply because we have trusted them. When that trust gets break we might become so silent its not becuse of the action but because our trust get broken. Am I right. Did you ever become silent on such things or becomes more angry....
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This is so true
Not everybody can hurt me, the ones who does is the closest ones.
I don't think on why or what happened
I stay away from them and I stay quiet.
 
DRAGON LORD said:
Did you ever noticed all people might not able to hurt you but a few. And the wound that they creat may burn deep and deep. Did you ever thought why. Will you get hurt if a person unknown tell you something or give you a false statement even if he/she cheat. We will be angry we may qurrel with them thats all
We are not going to get hurt. But the same place when your dear one ya near one did a deed similar how will you feel. You may not going to quarrel. You might fall into silence. You might not have words to quarrel. Did you ever thought why such things happened. Its simply because we have trusted them. When that trust gets break we might become so silent its not becuse of the action but because our trust get broken. Am I right. Did you ever become silent on such things or becomes more angry....
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Mostly we create picture how people around us will behave , act . So, when they dont do that way or behave differently it hurts. @cheetra rightly said , they would act , behave that way only. Its their real characteristic. Its our fault we could not recognise them. Now I realised that and it hurts less. :cool:
 
Dom55 said:
Mostly we create picture how people around us will behave , act . So, when they dont do that way or behave differently it hurts. @cheetra rightly said , they would act , behave that way only. Its their real characteristic. Its our fault we could not recognise them. Now I realised that and it hurts less. :cool:
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Yes we fails in recognising that later make us pay
 
cheetra said:
Earlier I used to get angry.
Later I used to go silent.
Now I feel dejected.

I have learned that what is broken is my perception of the person. They were perhaps always like that, it is just that I failed to see it or ignored it even when it was right in front of me.

It still hurts. There is no denying that.
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Ya that point is surely an add own we failed to saw the true colour in past incidents
 
Sometimes, the deepest wounds don't come from what people do, but from who does it.

When trust breaks, silence speaks louder than anger. Because we never expected the hurt from the very people we believed would never hurt us.

So true...!
 
DRAGON LORD said:
Did you ever noticed all people might not able to hurt you but a few. And the wound that they creat may burn deep and deep. Did you ever thought why. Will you get hurt if a person unknown tell you something or give you a false statement even if he/she cheat. We will be angry we may qurrel with them thats all
We are not going to get hurt. But the same place when your dear one ya near one did a deed similar how will you feel. You may not going to quarrel. You might fall into silence. You might not have words to quarrel. Did you ever thought why such things happened. Its simply because we have trusted them. When that trust gets break we might become so silent its not becuse of the action but because our trust get broken. Am I right. Did you ever become silent on such things or becomes more angry....
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I believe the same action can affect us differently depending on who is behind it. When someone we barely know hurts us, we might get angry, disagree or simply walk away. But when someone we trust does the same, it affects us on a much deeper level. Perhaps it's not just about what they did, but also about the trust and expectations we had placed in them.

I think both silence and anger are natural reactions to such situations. And yes, I have experienced that kind of silence. Sometimes, the hurt is difficult to put into words, especially when it comes from someone we never expected to hurt us. It's not that we have nothing to say, but that we're struggling to process the disappointment. After all, the closer the connection, the deeper the impact of broken trust can be.
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