Sometimes, it's not the big, grandeur, juicy gestures that makes an impact. It's the small, little, tiny, petite ones that makes a person happy (ahem take your mind out of the gutter
).
Those little things a person does that comes from the heart - in a virtual site many has flagged and asked me what is the purpose of asking if someone ate, drank, or had proper sleep, or if they want a coffee I made or a dish i made - it's my way of saying that you matter and if you were by my side I would have happily shared those moments with u.
Lots of people fail to express their feelings but they never fail to appreciate these small gestures, even if it's a heartfelt text you send them right in the morning when you wake up or while u go to sleep. These things go a long way when people are miles apart and chatting through a screen.
The most important thing we can give another person is our time. Be it the time we spend with them listening to their tantrums, flirting with them, sexting with them, calling them and listening to them make goofy voices, be it anything! No matter what, that's the greatest thing a person can offer.
Sometimes, that's just what we all need. To be heard, to have a meaningful conversation, a genuine affection, a safe space where we can be ourselves.
And the truth is, we all don't need grand, huge, plumpy gestures to feel special. The small things are enough for a man to feel special
Those little things a person does that comes from the heart - in a virtual site many has flagged and asked me what is the purpose of asking if someone ate, drank, or had proper sleep, or if they want a coffee I made or a dish i made - it's my way of saying that you matter and if you were by my side I would have happily shared those moments with u.
Lots of people fail to express their feelings but they never fail to appreciate these small gestures, even if it's a heartfelt text you send them right in the morning when you wake up or while u go to sleep. These things go a long way when people are miles apart and chatting through a screen.
The most important thing we can give another person is our time. Be it the time we spend with them listening to their tantrums, flirting with them, sexting with them, calling them and listening to them make goofy voices, be it anything! No matter what, that's the greatest thing a person can offer.
Sometimes, that's just what we all need. To be heard, to have a meaningful conversation, a genuine affection, a safe space where we can be ourselves.
And the truth is, we all don't need grand, huge, plumpy gestures to feel special. The small things are enough for a man to feel special


