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Dark side of Attachment .... (⁠‘⊙⌓⊙')

AsikAwara

Wellknown Ace
The worst pain isn't heartbreak. It's attachment without assurance.

It begins softly.
Late night conversations, Inside jokes, Good morning texts that start to feel necessary.

You don't notice when they become your routine.
When their mood controls yours.
When their absence feels louder than their presence.

And that's where it traps you. Because attachment doesn't ask permission, It slowly makes someone your comfort. Without making you their priority.

You're not crying over betrayal.

You're hurting over expectations you were never allowed to have.

And the hardest part, you can't even blame them,
Because they never promised to say it. You just hoped they would.
 
The worst pain isn't heartbreak. It's attachment without assurance.

It begins softly.
Late night conversations, Inside jokes, Good morning texts that start to feel necessary.

You don't notice when they become your routine.
When their mood controls yours.
When their absence feels louder than their presence.

And that's where it traps you. Because attachment doesn't ask permission, It slowly makes someone your comfort. Without making you their priority.

You're not crying over betrayal.

You're hurting over expectations you were never allowed to have.

And the hardest part, you can't even blame them,
Because they never promised to say it. You just hoped they would.
Very expensive! What hurts more than betrayal is the right that never existed.
Awesome Intelligence
 
Its strange… feels lyk someone spoke my heart out loud
But why is it always lyk this?
Why can’t we receive the same love we give?

I don't think it’s wrong to want the same effort .. the same care .. the same intensity.
I don’t think it’s wrong to hope that someone will hold me the way I hold them.
But somehow .. it always turns into silence on the other side…
And I’m left here .. full of everything I gave with nowhere for it to go.



Attachment doesn’t just hurt… it slowly consumes you.
It makes you pour yourself into someone who might never pour anything back.
And still…
You stay.
Sad.

The worst pain isn't heartbreak. It's attachment without assurance.

It begins softly.
Late night conversations, Inside jokes, Good morning texts that start to feel necessary.

You don't notice when they become your routine.
When their mood controls yours.
When their absence feels louder than their presence.

And that's where it traps you. Because attachment doesn't ask permission, It slowly makes someone your comfort. Without making you their priority.

You're not crying over betrayal.

You're hurting over expectations you were never allowed to have.

And the hardest part, you can't even blame them,
Because they never promised to say it. You just hoped they would.


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@LavaLush

I hear you… and honestly, what you’re feeling isn’t strange at all. It just means you love deeply and that’s never a flaw.

It hurts when the effort isn’t returned, when your heart is full and the other side feels empty.

But that doesn’t make your love any less valuable. it just means it wasn’t met by the right person.

Don’t lose that softness in you. Just learn to give it where it’s truly felt.

You deserve the same love you give… and you will receive it. ♥︎♥︎♥︎

ʕ⁠´⁠•⁠ᴥ⁠•⁠`⁠ʔ
 
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