THIRD PERSON ~ THE UNINVITED GUEST

[Illusion]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....

 

[subsar]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

The presence of a "third person" can be beneficial or destructive for a happy life, depending on the context and whether it's a person, a hobby, a job, or even a new perspective. For relationships, this "third" can foster greater transparency and connection when it's a shared, positive focus, but can lead to betrayal and broken trust when it involves infidelity. In terms of personal well-being, a third-person perspective can bring objectivity, emotional distance, and a greater understanding of oneself, leading to growth and a more fulfilling life, especially when one feels stuck or unhappy.

 

[zhou]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

True

 

[Juliette]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

Exactly, sometimes it’s not the bond itself that’s weak, it’s the noise created from outside.

 

[Illusion]

The presence of a "third person" can be beneficial or destructive for a happy life, depending on the context and whether it's a person, a hobby, a job, or even a new perspective. For relationships, this "third" can foster greater transparency and connection when it's a shared, positive focus, but can lead to betrayal and broken trust when it involves infidelity. In terms of personal well-being, a third-person perspective can bring objectivity, emotional distance, and a greater understanding of oneself, leading to growth and a more fulfilling life, especially when one feels stuck or unhappy.

I get your point but what I meant was specifically about the presence of a third person in any bonding or relationship...It usually ends up causing trouble, even if not always...

 

[Illusion]

Exactly, sometimes it’s not the bond itself that’s weak, it’s the noise created from outside.

True… most bonds don’t break from within, they break because of the noise and influence from outside..

 

[Illusion]

True

Yup

 

[Garygoodboy]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

I get this too xx

 

[subsar]

I get your point but what I meant was specifically about the presence of a third person in any bonding or relationship...It usually ends up causing trouble, even if not always...

yes , you are right

 

[Illusion]

yes , you are right

Ya

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

Hey dearo... But you don't worry. Our love is a fortress, and no one else can get in.

 

[Anshhi]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

So well said. Misunderstandings can be fixed, but a third person's venomous influence plants seeds of doubt that are almost impossible to uproot. Nothing is more destructive.

Awesome Intelligence™​

 

[ASHURA]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

That' kinda true for my life also .

 

[criss cross]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

Yes… the sad truth is that a third person comes, pretends to care, and makes fake promises. Slowly, they take the place of the one who truly loved. The real heart suffers, while the pretending one gets respect. It hurts to see the one who gave everything being left in pain, and the fake heart walking away honored.

 

[Illusion]

Hey dearo... But you don't worry. Our love is a fortress, and no one else can get in.

Do u even remember our love dearo

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Do u even remember our love dearo

You only forgot our love and me... See... You are replying to my message after one week and you are telling this... Also, last week I sent messages tagging you in the Kerala chat room but you didn't respond me even for a single message. But you were happily replying to all others' messages. Still you blaming me.
I have only one love and that's you. And that's a forever love. I don't want to prove anything to you as I know my love is true.

 

[Illusion]

You only forgot our love and me... See... You are replying to my message after one week and you are telling this... Also, last week I sent messages tagging you in the Kerala chat room but you didn't respond me even for a single message. But you were happily replying to all others' messages. Still you blaming me.
I have only one love and that's you. And that's a forever love. I don't want to prove anything to you as I know my love is true.

Seriously, dearooo… see, you don even pay that much attention I did reply to you on Saturday, yet you are saying it’s been a week. And I honestly don even know when you tagged me, I must've missed it unintentionally.But… you could have just called me and asked, right? Instead of assuming or blaming me, you know? I love that your love is forever, and I feel the same… but sometimes, a little clarity and communication saves both of us a lot of drama..

 

[ＥＲＯＳ]

Seriously, dearooo… see, you don even pay that much attention I did reply to you on Saturday, yet you are saying it’s been a week. And I honestly don even know when you tagged me, I must've missed it unintentionally.But… you could have just called me and asked, right? Instead of assuming or blaming me, you know? I love that your love is forever, and I feel the same… but sometimes, a little clarity and communication saves both of us a lot of drama..

I don't know what clarity and communication you need when my heart is so open to you. My love for you is beyond words, but if it means we won't lose each other, I will spell out every single one of my feelings.

 

[Illusion]

I don't know what clarity and communication you need when my heart is so open to you. My love for you is beyond words, but if it means we won't lose each other, I will spell out every single one of my feelings.

You don need to prove, explain, or spell out anything… I already read your love in the "wifi signals" between ur words . My soul literally goes airplane mode and calms down whenever it thinks of u. If this love is forever, let's stop overthinking like drama queens and just live it, because sorry, u aree stuck with me always.... ⊂⁠(⁠•⁠‿⁠•⁠⊂⁠ ⁠)⁠*⁠.⁠✧

 

[Ur_babu]

Life is full of ups and downs, and that’s something we all accept. But one of the biggest reasons for those ‘downs’ is the unnecessary presence of a third person. Sometimes, it’s not misunderstandings or differences that ruin a bond — it’s the interference of someone who was never supposed to be part of it. A third person can twist words, create doubts, and plant negativity. What was once a strong connection can suddenly feel fragile, all because of an outsider’s influence. Trust me, nothing hurts more than watching a bond you valued get destroyed in seconds, not by you or them, but by someone else stepping in where they don’t belong....View attachment 362647

Everything is illusion