Why do couples end up on cheating?

[millflover00]

Still wondering why do couples end up on cheating eazh others, and im sure most of us here knows about it. I am not referring to all couple being a cheater or cheats to their partners, on my experience on my past relationship we starred to be the usual couple we date, we hang out , have some road trip and different activities, but as the years goes by i notice that slowly the fire / heat or the sparks slowly being gone or may good to say that we as are used of being together and no thrill after all or may be she just enjoyed a new companion and a new set oh thrill from the old one we usually do.
How about you Guys care to shaew your experience and let others learn from what we share too.

 

[Minervaa]

There is a big misconception on the reasons why people cheat.

Some of the assumptions on why people cheat are:

1.Lack of morals or principles
2.Lack of love or sex in the relationship
3.Problems in the relationship
4.Meeting someone better looking and or younger

Could be a number of reasons.

Cheating is a part of it is being a coward.
Breaking up is painful and emotional for some.
As a result they would drive the other person away,
than simply have a conversation that hurts their feelings.

But there are other reasons. Simply evil. Some people are evil at heart
and enjoy doing something they know is wrong.
The thrill of doing something, and getting away from it.
The naughty factor.


Yet another reasons is simply because they don’t see it as wrong.

Still you have other reasons, like the other person did something
they didn’t like. So now they are justified in sleeping with someone
else, because it’s their fault for doing that thing they didn’t like.

And of course they are not going to break up first, because the
whole point is to see the pain they cause the other person.

Of course the key aspect to all these reasons, is that they
are" terrible bad reasons"

And i would like to add that there’s an answer for men,
and a different answer for women.

A man cheats physically, because he really wants to have sex with
other women. It’s just sex. The man hides it because he truly craves
the other women, but he doesn’t want to hurt his wife by letting her
know. For what it’s worth, I don’t condone the cheating, I think an
honest conversation goes a lot further.

A woman cheats for revenge. She’s usually out to hurt your feelings.

PS : No offense... I just told it in my point of view

 

[millflover00]

There is a big misconception on the reasons why people cheat.

Some of the assumptions on why people cheat are:

1.Lack of morals or principles
2.Lack of love or sex in the relationship
3.Problems in the relationship
4.Meeting someone better looking and or younger

Could be a number of reasons.

Cheating is a part of it is being a coward.
Breaking up is painful and emotional for some.
As a result they would drive the other person away,
than simply have a conversation that hurts their feelings.

But there are other reasons. Simply evil. Some people are evil at heart
and enjoy doing something they know is wrong.
The thrill of doing something, and getting away from it.
The naughty factor.


Yet another reasons is simply because they don’t see it as wrong.

Still you have other reasons, like the other person did something
they didn’t like. So now they are justified in sleeping with someone
else, because it’s their fault for doing that thing they didn’t like.

And of course they are not going to break up first, because the
whole point is to see the pain they cause the other person.

Of course the key aspect to all these reasons, is that they
are" terrible bad reasons"

And i would like to add that there’s an answer for men,
and a different answer for women.

A man cheats physically, because he really wants to have sex with
other women. It’s just sex. The man hides it because he truly craves
the other women, but he doesn’t want to hurt his wife by letting her
know. For what it’s worth, I don’t condone the cheating, I think an
honest conversation goes a lot further.

A woman cheats for revenge. She’s usually out to hurt your feelings.

PS : No offense... I just told it in my point of view

That is very nice one and to be honest it hits not just the head bit the heart.

Hey you yes you the one reading this hope you learned from it or you can share also i know that will be great for some one out there who might need advise also.

 

[LiDarre]

Because finding the next partner for a morally immature person is much easier than discussing the reasons why you need to leave your partner.

 

[Minervaa]

Because finding the next partner for a morally immature person is much easier than discussing the reasons why you need to leave your partner.

Well said !!! I'm in accordance with you

 

[URum]

Cheating happens when there is no understanding btw partners, understanding confess from talking to each other. Talking to each other happens when both are open to criticism... Usually, when you are dating you show only the food side of you to your partner and vice versa, couples don't want to take the time to understand each other

 

[affair m34]

Well said !!! I'm in accordance with you

No one is free from cheating caz everone gets attracted by someone somewhere and few go for real and rest dont show out but keep it in mind and feel themselves.