Sometimes, I sit and ask myself , what are we actually living for? A man in his prime enjoys his life like a kid who has no financial problems, no health issues, and parents who provide everything. But still, even when he gets everything, he might miss the one thing he actually needs, love. For him, love becomes just money or comfort. That’s what he receives, and that’s what he’s told to understand as love.Later in life, when he really tries to love someone genuinely, it’s never easy. No matter how loyal he is, no matter how much he gives, it just doesn’t work out. It feels like some people are not made for relationships. Misunderstandings, ego clashes, not being able to balance things , it all just breaks down slowly. And somewhere in between, he realizes , he was and is being loved by a lot of people, except the ones he actually loves. Maybe he just can’t manage people’s mindset or psychology the way he wishes he could.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
We all lose people we once thought would stay forever , friends, lovers, even sometimes that close bond with parents. It’s tough. What hurts more is when someone you really care about starts treating you like you never meant anything to them. We may talk to everyone around us, but in our mind, only a few matter deeply. And sadly, those few are the ones who have the power to hurt us the most.The bitter truth is, we can’t always tell them how special they are. We keep it inside. But when they misunderstand us, it cuts deeper than we show. Life moves on, but these thoughts remain stuck somewhere in the back of our mind. People judge us based on what they think is right or wrong. But there’s no universal rulebook for how to live, how to be a good person, or how to love someone perfectly.At the end, no matter what others say, I’ve realized one thing:It doesn’t matter how much money you have, how attractive you look, or how much fame you collect. If you lose your peace… you lose everything.
I can feel that now.
