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Yes, sometimes this realization is very painful. When we realize that we are just trying our best, and the people in front of us probably never cared as much as we thought.
The beauty of a relationship exists only when there is such effort from both sides, there is such respect, and there is such love. But when it doesn't happen, we often leave. And whenever we look, the real face appears in front of us.
The words are as follows:
“Did you ever feel like me?”
“Am I the only one keeping the relationship alive?”
“Is your silence the answer to my words?”
But it also reminds us that we should never let ourselves down so much that we forget our happiness. Relationships that are only one sided, perhaps it is better to leave them so that we can focus our energy on people who are less likely to love us back.
What you have written has deep pain, but it also has a strong self-awareness. What do you think, is it difficult or necessary to get such a relationship?
Its kind of difficult because we might hold onto the hope that the other person will change or come around, making it hard to accept the reality of the situation.
You are absolutely right! Hope is a strange thing – one side of it does not let us break, and the other side sometimes forces us to remain a faceless thing.
When we lose heart to someone, an inner voice says, "Maybe one day he will understand, maybe one day he will come back, maybe one day everything will be alright." And it is in this “shadow” that we keep giving our time and energy, until we realize that what we want is not what we want, what is the point of understanding it?
And yes, acceptance is the most difficult part. Because once we accept that relationships are going on from one side only, then we have to learn to put ourselves back together and prioritize ourselves. But one thing should always be remembered – if a relationship survived only by your efforts, then it was not a relationship, it was a burden.
Letting go is difficult, but necessary. Because as long as you remain tied to useless expectations, there will be no room for people who hold you back from understanding reality.
Your words show that this is not just a thought, but a feeling. Are you still confused about some "shadow" or are you slowly accepting it?
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I'm so sorry to hear that..
i never got a chance to notice, all the people i saw were like this.. Its just only me