There is always an alarm that keeps on saying.. " something unnecessary or unusual is going to happen! "
and I trust this intuition in my brain.
One evening when I was going home after school on public transport in a window seat watching the scenery outside.
I could sense a hand coming near my hip through a space between the seats and that man staring at me from behind with cold shark eyes in a very calculating way.
So I stared back with a rude vision. Yet he didn't drop his eyes which made me fearful and suddenly I left that seat and moved away.
And after a few months, " he raped a kid " as headed in a newspaper.
It literally took a week to come out of those nightmares. I was not a victim there but what about the kids who were spoiled and still there were kids outside who have been raped and abused all the time.
Irrespective of gender about 47% of male and 43% of female abusers roam!
Of children physically abused in families, in 88.6% of the cases, it was the parents who were the perpetrators. More than 50% had been sexually abused in ways that ranged from severe such as rape or fondling to milder forms of molestation that include forcible kissing.
Neither be a victim nor appreciate abusers.
Yet some play two roles as a villain and a saviour being a poison and an antidote hence, why Children are nearly impossible to escape or explain from.
those are masters at keeping the victims in a state of confusion.
They praise your structures if they need food, and body shames if they don't need it and they take complete control of ourselves and entrap us physically and mentally into their world.
Whenever u are in a state of confusion
Learn to say NO.
Listen to survivors !!
Every single survivor has an insight of what they have gone through.
The way each people look at others is different. But, when it comes to abusers, they make us too close and induce fear, self-destruction, and loss of trust in others and our own judgement equally losing ourselves into the turbulent sea of self-doubt.
Get to know that abusers basically control the environment and the physical act of control is just a single part of it.
PATIENCE AND MUTUAL RESPECT IS THE KEY
and I trust this intuition in my brain.
One evening when I was going home after school on public transport in a window seat watching the scenery outside.
I could sense a hand coming near my hip through a space between the seats and that man staring at me from behind with cold shark eyes in a very calculating way.
So I stared back with a rude vision. Yet he didn't drop his eyes which made me fearful and suddenly I left that seat and moved away.
And after a few months, " he raped a kid " as headed in a newspaper.
It literally took a week to come out of those nightmares. I was not a victim there but what about the kids who were spoiled and still there were kids outside who have been raped and abused all the time.
Irrespective of gender about 47% of male and 43% of female abusers roam!
Of children physically abused in families, in 88.6% of the cases, it was the parents who were the perpetrators. More than 50% had been sexually abused in ways that ranged from severe such as rape or fondling to milder forms of molestation that include forcible kissing.
Neither be a victim nor appreciate abusers.
Yet some play two roles as a villain and a saviour being a poison and an antidote hence, why Children are nearly impossible to escape or explain from.
those are masters at keeping the victims in a state of confusion.
They praise your structures if they need food, and body shames if they don't need it and they take complete control of ourselves and entrap us physically and mentally into their world.
Whenever u are in a state of confusion
Learn to say NO.
Listen to survivors !!
Every single survivor has an insight of what they have gone through.
The way each people look at others is different. But, when it comes to abusers, they make us too close and induce fear, self-destruction, and loss of trust in others and our own judgement equally losing ourselves into the turbulent sea of self-doubt.
Get to know that abusers basically control the environment and the physical act of control is just a single part of it.
PATIENCE AND MUTUAL RESPECT IS THE KEY
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