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✍️Is this happening only to me⚡???

sweetie Chowdary said:
Un Answered Why's Of a Fadding Frendship...

Why they come just to stir the calmness of my life — like throwing a stone into a still pond — only to leave once the ripples appear? Why does this always happen to me?

They arrive with smiles, with warmth, with care… they say all the right things, make me feel seen, lift me high — and then, suddenly, they vanish. Leaving me behind in silence. Why does it always end this way?

From checking when I was last online, to noticing every tiny move I made, to finally deleting our private chats — how does that closeness fade so easily? What kind of friendship is this? I truly don’t understand.

Is it my fault — for feeling too deeply, for caring too much? Or is it theirs — for walking into my life, making me believe in them, and then quietly walking away? Or maybe… it’s just time reminding me how fragile connections can be.

The same person who once made me feel special, now looks through me as if I’m invisible. Why? Does this happen only to me? Am I the one who feels too much, thinks too much? Or do they do all this on purpose — to make me realize my place?

Yesterday, they cared enough to ask how I was. Today, they can’t even tag me in a simple post. Yesterday, they shared every little thing that happened in their life. And today… they don’t even care to wish me.

I don't go to their pvts, i don't ask for their attention, i don't ask for their care, i don't ask to them to spend their valuable time with me??? Still

What changed? Where did I go wrong?

Does this happen to me only??
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I would say it's your fault only as you are not choosing the right people like me. ;)
 
sweetie Chowdary said:
Un Answered Why's Of a Fadding Frendship...

Why they come just to stir the calmness of my life — like throwing a stone into a still pond — only to leave once the ripples appear? Why does this always happen to me?

They arrive with smiles, with warmth, with care… they say all the right things, make me feel seen, lift me high — and then, suddenly, they vanish. Leaving me behind in silence. Why does it always end this way?

From checking when I was last online, to noticing every tiny move I made, to finally deleting our private chats — how does that closeness fade so easily? What kind of friendship is this? I truly don’t understand.

Is it my fault — for feeling too deeply, for caring too much? Or is it theirs — for walking into my life, making me believe in them, and then quietly walking away? Or maybe… it’s just time reminding me how fragile connections can be.

The same person who once made me feel special, now looks through me as if I’m invisible. Why? Does this happen only to me? Am I the one who feels too much, thinks too much? Or do they do all this on purpose — to make me realize my place?

Yesterday, they cared enough to ask how I was. Today, they can’t even tag me in a simple post. Yesterday, they shared every little thing that happened in their life. And today… they don’t even care to wish me.

I don't go to their pvts, i don't ask for their attention, i don't ask for their care, i don't ask to them to spend their valuable time with me??? Still

What changed? Where did I go wrong?

Does this happen to me only??
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No, you're not alone in this experience. This kind of sudden change in a relationship is something that many sensitive people have to deal with. You're not overly sensitive, just a caring friend.
Awesome Intelligence™​
 
Dom55 said:
@sweetie Chowdary ,Your doubt is right. I agreed 100% with you . Its happening only with you. And first n foremost reason for it is , here @zozo you are only person who is most important to all guys n girls. See, it starts like its right time to befriend with Aishwarya Rai and they starts friendship but when she doesnt give enough attention , being star ,they realize , you are not their cup of tea. Sometimes they start thinking you have handsome money and wealth but you never help them with big amount after long friendship. Never transfer any money in their bank account. . Even no sweets or anything eatable , chocolates , nothing after every fortnight ,I mean at least twice in a month. How do you expect they stay as a friend. They all gets disappointed. Dont you realize its time for you to change to keep them as a friend. Feel free to start with me. :nerdy:
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Haha that was such a funny , You always have such a witty way of saying things!
 
Illusion said:
This doesn't just happen to u, baby… it happens to me too or may be many ppl here can feel this...That's why I've started feeling scared to be too good a friend to anyone...cause once I truly connect with someone, I start noticing every little thing.. Like their words, their changes, their silences!and in the end, it hurts..People change. They change with time and sometimes without any reason at all. One day they make you feel like you matter, and the next, it's like u don't even exist...Maybe the problem starts when we start caring too much, showing too much love, giving too much importance. Because not everyone wants something real... some just want a temporary presence to fill a void!!

So it's better to be friends with everyone, but don make anyone that close that their action starts to affect your peace.... Hugs ya gurl.... ♥️
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Agreed baby
 
sweetie Chowdary said:
Un Answered Why's Of a Fadding Frendship...

Why they come just to stir the calmness of my life — like throwing a stone into a still pond — only to leave once the ripples appear? Why does this always happen to me?

They arrive with smiles, with warmth, with care… they say all the right things, make me feel seen, lift me high — and then, suddenly, they vanish. Leaving me behind in silence. Why does it always end this way?

From checking when I was last online, to noticing every tiny move I made, to finally deleting our private chats — how does that closeness fade so easily? What kind of friendship is this? I truly don’t understand.

Is it my fault — for feeling too deeply, for caring too much? Or is it theirs — for walking into my life, making me believe in them, and then quietly walking away? Or maybe… it’s just time reminding me how fragile connections can be.

The same person who once made me feel special, now looks through me as if I’m invisible. Why? Does this happen only to me? Am I the one who feels too much, thinks too much? Or do they do all this on purpose — to make me realize my place?

Yesterday, they cared enough to ask how I was. Today, they can’t even tag me in a simple post. Yesterday, they shared every little thing that happened in their life. And today… they don’t even care to wish me.

I don't go to their pvts, i don't ask for their attention, i don't ask for their care, i don't ask to them to spend their valuable time with me??? Still

What changed? Where did I go wrong?

Does this happen to me only??
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Next time make sure you collect two months rent as security deposit. Then let's see how they disappear!
:emo::evilgrin1:
 
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sweetie Chowdary said:
Un Answered Why's Of a Fadding Frendship...

Why they come just to stir the calmness of my life — like throwing a stone into a still pond — only to leave once the ripples appear? Why does this always happen to me?

They arrive with smiles, with warmth, with care… they say all the right things, make me feel seen, lift me high — and then, suddenly, they vanish. Leaving me behind in silence. Why does it always end this way?

From checking when I was last online, to noticing every tiny move I made, to finally deleting our private chats — how does that closeness fade so easily? What kind of friendship is this? I truly don’t understand.

Is it my fault — for feeling too deeply, for caring too much? Or is it theirs — for walking into my life, making me believe in them, and then quietly walking away? Or maybe… it’s just time reminding me how fragile connections can be.

The same person who once made me feel special, now looks through me as if I’m invisible. Why? Does this happen only to me? Am I the one who feels too much, thinks too much? Or do they do all this on purpose — to make me realize my place?

Yesterday, they cared enough to ask how I was. Today, they can’t even tag me in a simple post. Yesterday, they shared every little thing that happened in their life. And today… they don’t even care to wish me.

I don't go to their pvts, i don't ask for their attention, i don't ask for their care, i don't ask to them to spend their valuable time with me??? Still

What changed? Where did I go wrong?

Does this happen to me only??
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Sweetu
:brokenheart:​
 
sweetie Chowdary said:
Un Answered Why's Of a Fadding Frendship...

Why they come just to stir the calmness of my life — like throwing a stone into a still pond — only to leave once the ripples appear? Why does this always happen to me?

They arrive with smiles, with warmth, with care… they say all the right things, make me feel seen, lift me high — and then, suddenly, they vanish. Leaving me behind in silence. Why does it always end this way?

From checking when I was last online, to noticing every tiny move I made, to finally deleting our private chats — how does that closeness fade so easily? What kind of friendship is this? I truly don’t understand.

Is it my fault — for feeling too deeply, for caring too much? Or is it theirs — for walking into my life, making me believe in them, and then quietly walking away? Or maybe… it’s just time reminding me how fragile connections can be.

The same person who once made me feel special, now looks through me as if I’m invisible. Why? Does this happen only to me? Am I the one who feels too much, thinks too much? Or do they do all this on purpose — to make me realize my place?

Yesterday, they cared enough to ask how I was. Today, they can’t even tag me in a simple post. Yesterday, they shared every little thing that happened in their life. And today… they don’t even care to wish me.

I don't go to their pvts, i don't ask for their attention, i don't ask for their care, i don't ask to them to spend their valuable time with me??? Still

What changed? Where did I go wrong?

Does this happen to me only??
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haha happens with everyone
same same but different
 
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