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I honestly don’t understand how Bajirao and Mastani’s love is often portrayed as passionate and eternal. From Kashi Bai’s side, sharing her husband with another woman must have been no less than killing her every single day. Love that hurts someone who has been loyal and faithful doesn’t feel pure to me. For me, their bond seems more like an extramarital affair than a soulful union. This is just my personal view, and I don’t mean to offend anyone.

Thank you for sharing your thoughts @Neema . I completely understand where you're coming from, and I appreciate your honesty. It's true that Bajirao and Mastani’s relationship was complicated, and Kashi Bai’s pain and suffering in this dynamic shouldn’t be overlooked. Love, in any form, can be multifaceted and can hurt in ways we can’t always anticipate.
However, what I intended to highlight in my post was the intensity and uniqueness of Bajirao and Mastani’s bond. Yes, it was unconventional, and it came with its own set of struggles, but for Bajirao and Mastani, it was a love that transcended societal expectations and obstacles.

Ultimately,both of their loves were true, but in different ways:

• Kashi Bai's love was built on duty, sacrifice, and loyalty—her love was pure in its own right, as it was about her commitment to Bajirao and her family.
• Mastani's love was based on passion, freedom, and breaking the chains of convention—her love was intense and transformative, speaking to the heart and soul.

In the end, it’s about which kind of love resonates more with you—whether it’s the quiet strength of Kashi Bai or the fierce, untamed bond that Bajirao and Mastani shared. Both forms of love are valid and meaningful in their own context. What do you think?

Relationships, especially those in history, are rarely one-dimensional, and everyone’s perspective matters.

Thanks again @Neema for engaging with the post thoughtfully—I always love hearing different viewpoints!

Love is most complex thing. How pure its , answer is with both involved partners. All outsiders are just try to judge according to their perspective of love.

@Dom55 Yes, true. Only the two people in love know its purity. Others just see from outside..

Let's make an argument to understand otherside of the love...

I feel there is no love exists nowadays..

It's just to understand the point of the love of genz, 90s and 80s, ( especially how it's going to be in future the alpha)

@MoonFlare FYI I m big of Sanjay Leela Bhansali and @Bajirao Mastani