when the butterflies fade ~

[Daizy]

I don't think love is enough to make a marriage last. It's just a buy-in not the whole game.
Down the road, love stops looking like flowers or late night conversation or aesthetic dates.

It looks like sitting beside someone in a quiet hospital room
It looks like learning how to care for your person when they're literally too weak to care for themselves

It's easy to love someone when life is beautiful. But real life eventually enters the chat as life will ask things of you that butterflies never could.

It will ask you to be patient when you're completely running on fumes
to stay gentle when you're struggling
to keep choosing each other through seasons when neither of you feel like your best self



The person we marry isn't just the person we will grow old with. They are the person we are going trust with the parts of life that might break us. And perhaps that's why it needs more than a feeling behind it. It needs character, commitment, and the willingness to show up when showing up is hard. ​

 

[Nyxen]

I don't think love is enough to make a marriage last. It's just a buy-in not the whole game.
Down the road, love stops looking like flowers or late night conversation or aesthetic dates.

It looks like sitting beside someone in a quiet hospital room
It looks like learning how to care for your person when they're literally too weak to care for themselves

It's easy to love someone when life is beautiful. But real life eventually enters the chat as life will ask things of you that butterflies never could.

It will ask you to be patient when you're completely running on fumes
to stay gentle when you're struggling
to keep choosing each other through seasons when neither of you feel like your best self

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The person we marry isn't just the person we will grow old with. They are the person we are going trust with the parts of life that might break us. And perhaps that's why it needs more than a feeling behind it. It needs character, commitment, and the willingness to show up when showing up is hard. ​

Feelings bring two people together, but patience, loyalty, and choosing each other every day are what make love last

 

[cheetra]

I don't think love is enough to make a marriage last. It's just a buy-in not the whole game.
Down the road, love stops looking like flowers or late night conversation or aesthetic dates.

It looks like sitting beside someone in a quiet hospital room
It looks like learning how to care for your person when they're literally too weak to care for themselves

It's easy to love someone when life is beautiful. But real life eventually enters the chat as life will ask things of you that butterflies never could.

It will ask you to be patient when you're completely running on fumes
to stay gentle when you're struggling
to keep choosing each other through seasons when neither of you feel like your best self

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The person we marry isn't just the person we will grow old with. They are the person we are going trust with the parts of life that might break us. And perhaps that's why it needs more than a feeling behind it. It needs character, commitment, and the willingness to show up when showing up is hard. ​

Totally agree... Love is a commitment....
True Love is in monotony of life...

 

[Daizy]

Feelings bring two people together, but patience, loyalty, and choosing each other every day are what make love last

Exactly

 

[Daizy]

Totally agree... Love is a commitment....
True Love is in monotony of life...

Yeahh and perhaps we shall wisely choose the person or else gonna regret later on.

 

[cutiee]

I don't think love is enough to make a marriage last. It's just a buy-in not the whole game.
Down the road, love stops looking like flowers or late night conversation or aesthetic dates.

It looks like sitting beside someone in a quiet hospital room
It looks like learning how to care for your person when they're literally too weak to care for themselves

It's easy to love someone when life is beautiful. But real life eventually enters the chat as life will ask things of you that butterflies never could.

It will ask you to be patient when you're completely running on fumes
to stay gentle when you're struggling
to keep choosing each other through seasons when neither of you feel like your best self

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The person we marry isn't just the person we will grow old with. They are the person we are going trust with the parts of life that might break us. And perhaps that's why it needs more than a feeling behind it. It needs character, commitment, and the willingness to show up when showing up is hard. ​

When two people comes together it is important to be equally willing to show up for us in hard times

 

[Daizy]

When two people comes together it is important to be equally willing to show up for us in hard times

Agree with that!

 

[★☛ĴACKĎANI☚★]

I don't think love is enough to make a marriage last. It's just a buy-in not the whole game.
Down the road, love stops looking like flowers or late night conversation or aesthetic dates.

It looks like sitting beside someone in a quiet hospital room
It looks like learning how to care for your person when they're literally too weak to care for themselves

It's easy to love someone when life is beautiful. But real life eventually enters the chat as life will ask things of you that butterflies never could.

It will ask you to be patient when you're completely running on fumes
to stay gentle when you're struggling
to keep choosing each other through seasons when neither of you feel like your best self

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The person we marry isn't just the person we will grow old with. They are the person we are going trust with the parts of life that might break us. And perhaps that's why it needs more than a feeling behind it. It needs character, commitment, and the willingness to show up when showing up is hard. ​

Love is the buy-in, marriage is the subscription… and apparently, there’s no free trial, no cancellation policy, and unlimited hospital bills, emotional breakdowns, and “what do you want to eat?” - negotiations .

 

[Daizy]

Love is the buy-in, marriage is the subscription… and apparently, there’s no free trial, no cancellation policy, and unlimited hospital bills, emotional breakdowns, and “what do you want to eat?” - negotiations .

Man, too real!

 

[AARADHYAA❤️]

Love starts it. Commitment sustains it.

 

[Daizy]

Love starts it. Commitment sustains it.

U really got my point

 

[AARADHYAA❤️]

T

U really got my point

Thankyou