Assumptions & Heartbreaks

[cutiee]

ASSUMPTIONS CAN BE DESTROYOUS​

Late Night Talks, A good meaningful conversation, Expecting a reply on every posts, Making some good memories with "that person" feels genuine isn't it? But in that whole way there are exactly two people involved. Each one of them are making conversation by their pov. But sometimes a moment a person in that whole "thing" is busy or couldn't talk or if even get social aroundq "Expectations" arises. Expectations like 'You're supposed to be around me' , 'I am giving you my whole attention' . It all might be right according to another person's pov but certainly in that friendship somewhere it starts building a complexity of emotions. Boundaries are getting crossed. They're unknowingly making that person question the whole friendship (ofc if that person is self indulged) But it's ain't wrong even from that person. Maybe this is the most complicated part of that whole thing.

Eventually they drift off and it ends before it even starts
Well Friendship was your choice then making the boundaries was even yours but if they're crossing it making them realise is also important: )

Some things are supposed to be stopped when they should be before it gets too late !

(Give your opinion for this !)

 

[PunisherSupermanDestroyer]

ASSUMPTIONS CAN BE DESTROYOUS​

Late Night Talks, A good meaningful conversation, Expecting a reply on every posts, Making some good memories with "that person" feels genuine isn't it? But in that whole way there are exactly two people involved. Each one of them are making conversation by their pov. But sometimes a moment a person in that whole "thing" is busy or couldn't talk or if even get social aroundq "Expectations" arises. Expectations like 'You're supposed to be around me' , 'I am giving you my whole attention' . It all might be right according to another person's pov but certainly in that friendship somewhere it starts building a complexity of emotions. Boundaries are getting crossed. They're unknowingly making that person question the whole friendship (ofc if that person is self indulged) But it's ain't wrong even from that person. Maybe this is the most complicated part of that whole thing.

Eventually they drift off and it ends before it even starts
Well Friendship was your choice then making the boundaries was even yours but if they're crossing it making them realise is also important: )

Some things are supposed to be stopped when they should be before it gets too late !

(Give your opinion for this !)

@cutiee how to say that's an interesting question well we always love to see the texts and messages from our favourite people u know but if it's 10 messages or single one it makes us happy and sometimes we expect more but we will receive very few or not at all so expectations leads to misunderstandings and we can give them time u know we have to look from their end too so it's kinda of difficult to interpret.If they want to they will speak if not they won't u can try from ur end give some chances text them first but wait for few days or so so wait for the signal if not then it's better not to hurt ourselves in the process and why are u sad now what happened tell me

 

[cutiee]

@cutiee how to say that's an interesting question well we always love to see the texts and messages from our favourite people u know but if it's 10 messages or single one it makes us happy and sometimes we expect more but we will receive very few or not at all so expectations leads to misunderstandings and we can give them time u know we have to look from their end too so it's kinda of difficult to interpret.If they want to they will speak if not they won't u can try from ur end give some chances text them first but wait for few days or so so wait for the signal if not then it's better not to hurt ourselves in the process and why are u sad now what happened tell me

I posted cuz it's kind of interesting topic for knowing everyone's pov : )

 

[PunisherSupermanDestroyer]

I posted cuz it's kind of interesting topic for knowing everyone's pov : )

Man I thought it was serious

 

[cutiee]

Man I thought it was serious

Nooo stay positive

 

[PunisherSupermanDestroyer]

I am always negative

Nooo stay positive

 

[Ironmanz]

ASSUMPTIONS CAN BE DESTROYOUS​

Late Night Talks, A good meaningful conversation, Expecting a reply on every posts, Making some good memories with "that person" feels genuine isn't it? But in that whole way there are exactly two people involved. Each one of them are making conversation by their pov. But sometimes a moment a person in that whole "thing" is busy or couldn't talk or if even get social aroundq "Expectations" arises. Expectations like 'You're supposed to be around me' , 'I am giving you my whole attention' . It all might be right according to another person's pov but certainly in that friendship somewhere it starts building a complexity of emotions. Boundaries are getting crossed. They're unknowingly making that person question the whole friendship (ofc if that person is self indulged) But it's ain't wrong even from that person. Maybe this is the most complicated part of that whole thing.

Eventually they drift off and it ends before it even starts
Well Friendship was your choice then making the boundaries was even yours but if they're crossing it making them realise is also important: )

Some things are supposed to be stopped when they should be before it gets too late !

(Give your opinion for this !)

Whatever it is you are very clear abt ur thoughts and emotions... I don't think an outside person can manipulate or influence ur thought... Coz u r smart enough to handle any situation...

 

[Hazell]

ASSUMPTIONS CAN BE DESTROYOUS​

Late Night Talks, A good meaningful conversation, Expecting a reply on every posts, Making some good memories with "that person" feels genuine isn't it? But in that whole way there are exactly two people involved. Each one of them are making conversation by their pov. But sometimes a moment a person in that whole "thing" is busy or couldn't talk or if even get social aroundq "Expectations" arises. Expectations like 'You're supposed to be around me' , 'I am giving you my whole attention' . It all might be right according to another person's pov but certainly in that friendship somewhere it starts building a complexity of emotions. Boundaries are getting crossed. They're unknowingly making that person question the whole friendship (ofc if that person is self indulged) But it's ain't wrong even from that person. Maybe this is the most complicated part of that whole thing.

Eventually they drift off and it ends before it even starts
Well Friendship was your choice then making the boundaries was even yours but if they're crossing it making them realise is also important: )

Some things are supposed to be stopped when they should be before it gets too late !

(Give your opinion for this !)

Comfort can turn into expectations and expectations into assumptions. Being busy doesn’t mean someone cares less. Sometimes a connection needs is honest communication before assumptions ruin it.

 

[Kanna202]

 

[cutiee]

Whatever it is you are very clear abt ur thoughts and emotions... I don't think an outside person can manipulate or influence ur thought... Coz u r smart enough to handle any situation...

Yeah ofc I am !!

 

[cheetra]

ASSUMPTIONS CAN BE DESTROYOUS​

Late Night Talks, A good meaningful conversation, Expecting a reply on every posts, Making some good memories with "that person" feels genuine isn't it? But in that whole way there are exactly two people involved. Each one of them are making conversation by their pov. But sometimes a moment a person in that whole "thing" is busy or couldn't talk or if even get social aroundq "Expectations" arises. Expectations like 'You're supposed to be around me' , 'I am giving you my whole attention' . It all might be right according to another person's pov but certainly in that friendship somewhere it starts building a complexity of emotions. Boundaries are getting crossed. They're unknowingly making that person question the whole friendship (ofc if that person is self indulged) But it's ain't wrong even from that person. Maybe this is the most complicated part of that whole thing.

Eventually they drift off and it ends before it even starts
Well Friendship was your choice then making the boundaries was even yours but if they're crossing it making them realise is also important: )

Some things are supposed to be stopped when they should be before it gets too late !

(Give your opinion for this !)

Boundaries is a new term for discomforts.
If a friend does something that makes you uncomfortable, tell them so at the first instance. Otherwise, every time you remain quiet, the other person receives the message that you are okay with it.

It is simple, so keep it simple.

 

[Anshhi]

ASSUMPTIONS CAN BE DESTROYOUS​

Late Night Talks, A good meaningful conversation, Expecting a reply on every posts, Making some good memories with "that person" feels genuine isn't it? But in that whole way there are exactly two people involved. Each one of them are making conversation by their pov. But sometimes a moment a person in that whole "thing" is busy or couldn't talk or if even get social aroundq "Expectations" arises. Expectations like 'You're supposed to be around me' , 'I am giving you my whole attention' . It all might be right according to another person's pov but certainly in that friendship somewhere it starts building a complexity of emotions. Boundaries are getting crossed. They're unknowingly making that person question the whole friendship (ofc if that person is self indulged) But it's ain't wrong even from that person. Maybe this is the most complicated part of that whole thing.

Eventually they drift off and it ends before it even starts
Well Friendship was your choice then making the boundaries was even yours but if they're crossing it making them realise is also important: )

Some things are supposed to be stopped when they should be before it gets too late !

(Give your opinion for this !)

Walking away in silence feels easier, but an honest conversation can save a bond. If a friendship was worth starting, it’s worth protecting with clear boundaries before it’s too late.

 

[cutiee]

Comfort can turn into expectations and expectations into assumptions. Being busy doesn’t mean someone cares less. Sometimes a connection needs is honest communication before assumptions ruin it.

Very trueee