Exactly! Explaining yourself to everyone only ends up ruining your own peace of mind. Great post!
Definitely the perspective of someone who has survived psychological abuse.
I don't have any specific intentions. All I'm trying to say is: don't keep labeling me.
Not just the reality, I recently realised its not the work or academics that's out of reach for me , its the people who keep attacking us to make us feel that way. In the end its about the strong minds ( strong genes like height ) that is able to combat through all of this unnecessary politics and still be able to master the resources. What is human life without jealousy and competition. But I hate it when life becomes full of dealing venomous snakes rather than developing talent. Needed peace along with my own space to fix all my flaws and gaps which some people liked to dig deeper into making that as my entire image. Mentors should be nurturers not demons who give them life long scars and complex.
Well said Constructive criticism helps people grow but constantly attacking someone's weaknesses only destroys confidence. We need more mentors who inspire and guide, not people who leave lifelong scars
Well said...we can't make someone understand smtg if they r not ready to listen what we r actually trying to say. It's no less than talking to a wall.
Totally Agreed, I can understand not everyone would be able to tolerate every person presented to them. Its natural. some people like fair girls, some people like traditional girl some go for stylish ones, at the same time nobody has any rights to degrade and to make decisions for them.
yeah if they are the people whom you cant let go of , then work on why there is a communication barrier.
Ya your views come from the past experience and that makes a person how to handle things. Though i don't agree with you completly it is a correct guidence that can be followed. There may be persons who are ready to stand by you or good at you so if they needs an explanation then it can be given ( Its only because you know they are going to be there for you with out any analisation ). On the other hand others those are not Worthy of it should be ignored as it is.
Ya ya
Shabash
ohh so who are those loved ones you have like that in your life , Have you ever explained yourself at least one time for them ? If you feel they are not worthy of it , then you shouldn't bother to chat with them as well, much better is to stay away from them . Analysation , speaking of which it reminds me everybody has their own brain , they use it to Analyse , what's your precious words and say on it ?
I have got some one at every phase of life. I am not going to say its always a single person but there will be some who always values and care for us, but the main puzzle is in identify the right person. And on explanation i have done that for them numerous times, it is just a thing that makes things right for right person not for the wrong person. Do you know everyone needs reassurance some times, its not because they lack trust, its a human thing. I think sometimes you will understand it.