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Questions That Never Find Answers

When a person is denied the opportunity to understand the reasons behind a separation, breakup, or other significant event, it can lead to feelings of frustration, confusion, and a preoccupation with what went wrong. This can prolong the healing process and hinder the ability to move forward.
Exactly, exactly… at the very least, people shouldn't leave someone in the dark. If they know the other person is an overthinker, a little clarity could save so much pain....
 
Always experienced that thing tbh from childhood , later I just stop caring about people at one point even my parent's also I stop caring but guess what at the next moment they started calling me Cold hearted person telling me like it was my fault and always blamed me like I was the Sinner .
Exactly… the worst part is when parents are involved... It makes the hurt so much deeper, and you end up carrying that weight for years. I really understand that feeling..
 
It's understandable if you want an explanation for this behavior. Being left out in the dark is not an easy situation to be in especially if you are confident that you haven't done anything wrong.
However, there's really nothing you can do about it if the person wants space from you. No matter how much we want to seek answers for our questions, we have to accept that we can't get it all the time.
Do yourself a favor, move on, and realize that for every person you lose there could be more to gain, and you should take what you learned from this one and use this insight to improve them.
The situation that you're in is a test of how mature and understanding you can be. And I hope that you pass and learn from this one.
Yes… and this time I finally did what I wanted to for the past month... I was overthinking and regretting, but I've said everything from my side... Now it's up to the other person whether they respond or not... At least now I understand one thing:~ never cross your limits with anyone. Even if you consider them a friend, you should always stay within your boundaries,that's something I've learned this time...
 
Sometimes, people who once talked to us every day, got close quickly, or those we deeply cared about, just end up leaving. I’m sure many of the people who previously replied here have also done this to others—or might even be doing it right now. It’s a part of how relationships can change over time. Some might get offended reading this, but it’s honestly a reality many of us face.
Exactly… I've realized that too... People change, and relationships can shift suddenly. It's hard, but now I feel I need to be more prepared for these sudden changes,just like we adapt to the weather, we have to adapt to people too...
 
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