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Being You

Gifferr said:
For a long time, I watched and admired many talented people in this world. This happened a lot in the ZOZO too. I saw people who were amazing at talking. They knew exactly what to say, and they easily attracted everyone around them. I wanted to be just like them, so I tried to copy their style. But in the end, I failed. I learned the hard way that a simple copy-and-paste of someone else's personality will never bring real change.

I finally realized that every individual is born different. If you try to mimic another person, your style will be weak. It will be like a nail made of water—it has no strength and will melt away quickly.

When I first started in the virtual world, I experimented a lot to get people's attention. I did not do the silly or annoying things that people(dickheads) do for attention nowadays. Instead, it was just pure trial and error. Some of my attempts hit the jackpot and worked perfectly. Other times, my attempts failed completely and gave me negative results. Every single test taught me a lesson, whether it was good or bad.

But during all those years of trying to be like others, I made a big mistake. I forgot my own natural way of doing things. I forgot the original, easy way I used to communicate with people before I started copying others.

Now, I understand the truth. Your own natural style is the only thing that lasts for a long time. Being your true self gives you a unique character. That authentic character is the only thing that stays in people's minds forever.

Giffer​
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Beautifully said! Just like a nail made of water has no strength, a copied personality can never truly touch someone's heart. Such a pure truth!
Awesome Intelligence™​
 
As Ralph Waldo Emerson told in his essay "Self-Reliance" -IMITATION IS SUICIDE -. Trying to act, think, or live like someone else essentially kills your own original identity and potential.....
 
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