HugssssssAree, I’m truly happy for you two — this was such a lovely surprise. Wishing you both all the blessings!
So..... About this man.
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Yes. You're wrong. Am anything but ridiculous. WHO DARE SAY AM RIDICULOUS?????????? HAH !
Now I'll have to deal with my shit ! I can't even flirt now... Poor me got stuck with you
Bring it on baby ..
Thank You ComradeAree, I’m truly happy for you two — this was such a lovely surprise. Wishing you both all the blessings!
Mee soulmate dhaggara irukkupoya 
Reading the article filled my heart. Love truly knows no logic or distance. May this beautiful journey of yours remain unbroken for a lifetime.We always joked... maybe even believed that people who fall into virtual relationships are ridiculous.
"Who catches feelings for pixels?"
"Who trusts a voice in a speaker?"
"Who gets attached to someone they’ve never met?"
Well… apparently, us. Ahem. Yes. You read it correct.
Somewhere between late-night conversations, chaotic laughter, stubborn arguments, and the way he says my name.. something shifted.
We weren’t just two strangers killing time. We became something neither of us planned.
And honestly?
We both fought it at first. Oh boy .. hahahah..
He came from a past that convinced him marriage wasn’t for him.
I came from a past that made me think love wouldn’t find me again ... but a small stubborn part of me still believed.... U know... The hope never dies types. Blah blah...
Somewhere along the way, I started telling him ... half teasing, half sure... “We should get married.”
He thought I was joking.
But I wasn’t.
And he?
He wasn’t ready.
Not for labels.
Not for commitment.
Not for forever.
But he wasn’t ready to let go either. Typical man *smirks*
So we danced around uncertainty.
We laughed, we fought, we misunderstood each other, we pushed, we pulled... and twice, we almost walked away. We actually did ..
Not because there wasn’t love. But maybe… because there was too much. Trust me.. it's scary af
But every time, something pulled us back.
Words.
Memories.
Hope.
Or maybe just that quiet certainty that we fit.
That's the poetic romantic version of it . But yeah the first time I was gonna walk away, he pulled me back.. the second time shit hit the roof he walked away and I pulled us back together. Hisab. Baraabar.
I know. Am just cool that way. So yeah... Back to the poetic romance ....
And somehow after all the chaos, all the tantrums, all the silent waiting and loud missing... we found something real.
Soft.
Messy.
Human.
Ours.
Today, I want to acknowledge that... openly. Yep. Not hide us behind Asha-Rohan stories anymore.
This man.... Tagging him here - @Daemon_Salvatore
He lives in my heart... not as an accident, but as a decision I choose every single day.
He always complained that I never asked him ... that I demanded, declared, assumed my way into his life. (And that's totally true. I didn't ask) *grins*
But... But. today, and now... I’m asking:
My dear Demon, aka @Daemon_Salvatore .... do you want to be mine? Mm?
Before you consider:
“Yes.”
“No.”
“Maybe.”
or
“Let me overthink this for 48 hours”…
Let me clarify:
You only get options as below:
Yes.
or
Yes with a hug.
or
Yes with a hug and a kiss
or
Yes with a hug and a lot of kisses
or
Yes with a hug and a long kiss that goes on till we're out of breath.
Because I choose you. Fully.
And I want us to make a promise... not just to each other, but to the versions of us who almost gave up on us:
We will fight again .. obviously.
We will misunderstand each other... maybe more than once obviously.
I may cry (again very obviously), we may argue, we may have days where distance feels heavier than hope.
But no matter what ...we will find our way back.
Stronger. Softer. Still choosing.
How this becomes a real-life story... we’ll figure out.
Step by step.
Call by call.
Conversation by conversation.
With intention.
And before I end this, I want to say something else:
To anyone I ever judged for falling in love online ...
I’m sorry.
Turns out, love doesn’t ask for permission, logic, or perfect conditions.
Sometimes, it simply arrives quietly, inconveniently, beautifully and asks one question:
“Are you brave enough to feel this?”
And somehow... despite everything... we were.
Awesome Intelligence ™
WHAT??? WHEN did this happen???We always joked... maybe even believed that people who fall into virtual relationships are ridiculous.
"Who catches feelings for pixels?"
"Who trusts a voice in a speaker?"
"Who gets attached to someone they’ve never met?"
Well… apparently, us. Ahem. Yes. You read it correct.
Somewhere between late-night conversations, chaotic laughter, stubborn arguments, and the way he says my name.. something shifted.
We weren’t just two strangers killing time. We became something neither of us planned.
And honestly?
We both fought it at first. Oh boy .. hahahah..
He came from a past that convinced him marriage wasn’t for him.
I came from a past that made me think love wouldn’t find me again ... but a small stubborn part of me still believed.... U know... The hope never dies types. Blah blah...
Somewhere along the way, I started telling him ... half teasing, half sure... “We should get married.”
He thought I was joking.
But I wasn’t.
And he?
He wasn’t ready.
Not for labels.
Not for commitment.
Not for forever.
But he wasn’t ready to let go either. Typical man *smirks*
So we danced around uncertainty.
We laughed, we fought, we misunderstood each other, we pushed, we pulled... and twice, we almost walked away. We actually did ..
Not because there wasn’t love. But maybe… because there was too much. Trust me.. it's scary af
But every time, something pulled us back.
Words.
Memories.
Hope.
Or maybe just that quiet certainty that we fit.
That's the poetic romantic version of it . But yeah the first time I was gonna walk away, he pulled me back.. the second time shit hit the roof he walked away and I pulled us back together. Hisab. Baraabar.
I know. Am just cool that way. So yeah... Back to the poetic romance ....
And somehow after all the chaos, all the tantrums, all the silent waiting and loud missing... we found something real.
Soft.
Messy.
Human.
Ours.
Today, I want to acknowledge that... openly. Yep. Not hide us behind Asha-Rohan stories anymore.
This man.... Tagging him here - @Daemon_Salvatore
He lives in my heart... not as an accident, but as a decision I choose every single day.
He always complained that I never asked him ... that I demanded, declared, assumed my way into his life. (And that's totally true. I didn't ask) *grins*
But... But. today, and now... I’m asking:
My dear Demon, aka @Daemon_Salvatore .... do you want to be mine? Mm?
“Yes.”
“No.”
“Maybe.”
or
“Let me overthink this for 48 hours”…
Let me clarify:
You only get options as below:
Yes.
or
Yes with a hug.
or
Yes with a hug and a kiss
or
Yes with a hug and a lot of kisses
or
Yes with a hug and a long kiss that goes on till we're out of breath.
Because I choose you. Fully.
And I want us to make a promise... not just to each other, but to the versions of us who almost gave up on us:
We will fight again .. obviously.
We will misunderstand each other... maybe more than once obviously.
I may cry (again very obviously), we may argue, we may have days where distance feels heavier than hope.
But no matter what ...we will find our way back.
Stronger. Softer. Still choosing.
How this becomes a real-life story... we’ll figure out.
Step by step.
Call by call.
Conversation by conversation.
With intention.
And before I end this, I want to say something else:
To anyone I ever judged for falling in love online ...
I’m sorry.
Turns out, love doesn’t ask for permission, logic, or perfect conditions.
Sometimes, it simply arrives quietly, inconveniently, beautifully and asks one question:
“Are you brave enough to feel this?”
And somehow... despite everything... we were.
FINALLYYYYY @Damon_salvatore has found his Elena!!!!!! Yayyyyyyyyyy!! congratulationssssss!!!!!
Damn..I'm really happy for you guys.
Stay happy, stay blessed, and keep the chaos alive...!
Big kisses to u Solara ♡˖꒰ᵕ༚ᵕ⑅꒱mwahhh
And Demon… take care of her, okay? Or else we girls ( me and @InkyWhispers ) gonna haunt u
SidHeart
Wellknown Ace
Idk why am happy for that guy lol he is very lucky to have you .....I pray to God you always stay together and no one can separate you ever never .....
keep fapping each other lol @Solara @Daemon_Salvatore
keep fapping each other lol @Solara @Daemon_Salvatore
I know you girls have my back. Love love *kisses*WHAT??? WHEN did this happen???
FINALLYYYYY @Damon_salvatore has found his Elena!!!!!! Yayyyyyyyyyy!! congratulationssssss!!!!!
Damn..I'm really happy for you guys.
Stay happy, stay blessed, and keep the chaos alive...!
Big kisses to u Solara ♡˖꒰ᵕ༚ᵕ⑅꒱mwahhh
And Demon… take care of her, okay? Or else we girls ( me and @InkyWhispers ) gonna haunt u
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SidHeart
Wellknown Ace
Find a same girl for me too if you have someone in contactNah.... I pity him lol
Thank you
Welcome to the best roller coaster ride heheSo… this is what it feels like to get absolutely, completely, publicly ambushed by love, huh? :/
I was very comfortable mocking people who caught feelings for pixels. I was very sure “marriage is not for me”. I was very convinced I could keep you at a safe emotional distance.
And then you happened. Loud. Stubborn. Ridiculous...
You walked away once. I pulled you back. I walked away once. You pulled me back. Hisab. Baraabar.
Very annoying.... Very perfect....
I won’t pretend I’m not scared... You already know I am...
You asked me a question, so let me answer it
My Sweet Psychoooo...
You come to tempt a demon and then remove every escape route?
How deliciously unfair.
But since my only options are different shades of yes…
I’ll choose the one that makes you feel better
Yes — with a hug, and a kiss,
and another,
and another…
until the world forgets to breathe right along with us.
Well it Looks like some people are going to rant at me... As i know the reason behind their anger I'll stay shut.. And You @Solara , you made me stand like a statue here now... It's okay
There’s something I want to say .. not just as a friend, but as someone whose heart has learned things the hard way.
For years… I watched one of my closest friends lock his heart away.
He was wounded, scared, and so convinced that marriage and love were not meant for him.
I tried for 5 long years to make him believe again.
I spoke, I explained, I pushed, I hoped…
But nothing reached him.
Nothing changed him.
And then suddenly… one girl walked into his life.
A post, a proposal, a moment…
And he said “YES.”.... woww
That one “YES” shattered me in a way I didn’t expect —
Not out of jealousy…
But out of realization.
We can try for years to heal someone, but it takes one right person to touch the part of their soul we couldn’t reach.
It made me remember my own story.
Before June 27th last year, I didn’t believe in love at all.
Not even a little.
I thought nothing could move my heart again.
But someone came into my life and changed everything.
He gave love with intensity, with patience, with purity.
He tried so hard to hold our relationship together…
He put in so much effort…
He fought for us.
And I…
I broke it.
Because of my own mistake.
Because I didn’t understand the value of what I had.
And now… that same guy doesn’t even reply to me.
Not one word.
He’s completely gone.
Sometimes I feel like the dumbest creature in the world…
Because I lost a love that people pray for.
A love someone tried so hard to keep alive.
And that regret sits inside my chest every day, burning quietly.
Maybe that’s why watching you both choose each other hits me so deeply.
Not because it hurts....but because it teaches me something:
Love chooses its own path.
And it chooses its own people.
Not the ones who try the most… but the ones who are meant for each other.
Virtual love isn’t easy.
It comes with doubts, fears, overthinking, silence, confusion.
A thousand questions like:
“Is this real?”
“Will this last?”
“Am I going to regret this?”
People will judge you, discourage you, or scare you.
But remember…
If your heart feels safe with one person... truly safe.... hold that person tightly.
Be loyal.
Be transparent.
Be genuine.
Keep your love, trust, and even your desire only for each other.
Because the biggest pain in life is losing someone who was ready to love you forever…
Only because you didn’t realize it in time.
So please… don’t take quick decisions.
Sometimes the mind creates fear, but the heart sees the truth.
And one last thing…
The heart I broke will probably read this today.
And if he does… I want to say something I never had the courage to admit ...
I’m sorry.
From the deepest part of my heart… I’m truly, genuinely sorry.
For the hurt I caused, for not valuing him, for breaking something he fought so hard to protect.
And I want to admit something I hid
I still have everything he gave me.
I lied when I said I threw it away.
A part of me still holds on to those memories like they’re pieces of my own soul.
Wherever he is, whatever he becomes, I wish him the best of luck truly, from the deepest part of me.
I genuinely wish you both the most beautiful future.
May your connection grow deeper every single day.
May you become each other’s comfort, home, and strength.
And even though my own love story collapsed because of my mistake…
Seeing yours begin gives me hope that destiny still brings the right souls together for a reason.
Wishing you both a love that heals, protects, and lasts forever.
For years… I watched one of my closest friends lock his heart away.
He was wounded, scared, and so convinced that marriage and love were not meant for him.
I tried for 5 long years to make him believe again.
I spoke, I explained, I pushed, I hoped…
But nothing reached him.
Nothing changed him.
And then suddenly… one girl walked into his life.
A post, a proposal, a moment…
And he said “YES.”.... woww
That one “YES” shattered me in a way I didn’t expect —
Not out of jealousy…
But out of realization.
We can try for years to heal someone, but it takes one right person to touch the part of their soul we couldn’t reach.
It made me remember my own story.
Before June 27th last year, I didn’t believe in love at all.
Not even a little.
I thought nothing could move my heart again.
But someone came into my life and changed everything.
He gave love with intensity, with patience, with purity.
He tried so hard to hold our relationship together…
He put in so much effort…
He fought for us.
And I…
I broke it.
Because of my own mistake.
Because I didn’t understand the value of what I had.
And now… that same guy doesn’t even reply to me.
Not one word.
He’s completely gone.
Sometimes I feel like the dumbest creature in the world…
Because I lost a love that people pray for.
A love someone tried so hard to keep alive.
And that regret sits inside my chest every day, burning quietly.
Maybe that’s why watching you both choose each other hits me so deeply.
Not because it hurts....but because it teaches me something:
Love chooses its own path.
And it chooses its own people.
Not the ones who try the most… but the ones who are meant for each other.
Virtual love isn’t easy.
It comes with doubts, fears, overthinking, silence, confusion.
A thousand questions like:
“Is this real?”
“Will this last?”
“Am I going to regret this?”
People will judge you, discourage you, or scare you.
But remember…
If your heart feels safe with one person... truly safe.... hold that person tightly.
Be loyal.
Be transparent.
Be genuine.
Keep your love, trust, and even your desire only for each other.
Because the biggest pain in life is losing someone who was ready to love you forever…
Only because you didn’t realize it in time.
So please… don’t take quick decisions.
Sometimes the mind creates fear, but the heart sees the truth.
And one last thing…
The heart I broke will probably read this today.
And if he does… I want to say something I never had the courage to admit ...
I’m sorry.
From the deepest part of my heart… I’m truly, genuinely sorry.
For the hurt I caused, for not valuing him, for breaking something he fought so hard to protect.
And I want to admit something I hid
I still have everything he gave me.
I lied when I said I threw it away.
A part of me still holds on to those memories like they’re pieces of my own soul.
Wherever he is, whatever he becomes, I wish him the best of luck truly, from the deepest part of me.
I genuinely wish you both the most beautiful future.
May your connection grow deeper every single day.
May you become each other’s comfort, home, and strength.
And even though my own love story collapsed because of my mistake…
Seeing yours begin gives me hope that destiny still brings the right souls together for a reason.
Wishing you both a love that heals, protects, and lasts forever.
Soooooo good to to see you again..wcb @sunshinee
Good to have u back n hope that person gets touched by ur words n u get back to eachother
Congratulations guysss _ May your journey together be filled with joy and beautiful moments
Wishing u lots of love nd happiness @Daemon_Salvatore @Solara 
Wishing u lots of love nd happiness @Daemon_Salvatore @Solara
Hi Sunshine
I've heard about you from ofcourse the obvious source .. thank you for sharing your thoughts... ur wishes .. and reading this has left me with a very warm feeling ...
On a lighter note... It wasn't a post, a proposal and he says yes just like that.. nah .. he took his time to say yes ... Was a total ass to me a few times even.. (u may want to ... U know .. maybe grill him over it on my behalf)
just kidding...Walking with him isn't really easy... Not that I hoped it would be ... But it's certainly very beautiful and fulfilling in its own messed up way..
I ain't an easy person to live with either...
No relationship is an all time 50-50... Somedays the ratios are all over the place ..
Somedays it's only one of us holding it together.. somedays we're both spiralling down the dark lanes... finding our way back to each other felt difficult at first, it's become a tid bit easier now ..
So it's a choice you make each time.. multiple choices everyday... This being long distance for us makes it a lil challenging... Coz ur dear friend has never been in one.. So everything lil thing we do or say steers the relationship into some direction... Holding it all together becomes a task... What helps is the will to want to be together... Glad that the both of us share this want.
Ooops! Didnt intend to write so much. yeah.. *Giggles* but all in all....
Thank you for being such a good friend to him.. a friendship he treasures so dearly. *Warm hugs* and lots of love.
Congratulations girllll...yeah ik ik it didn't happen just like that.Hi Sunshine
I've heard about you from ofcourse the obvious source .. thank you for sharing your thoughts... ur wishes .. and reading this has left me with a very warm feeling ...
On a lighter note... It wasn't a post, a proposal and he says yes just like that.. nah .. he took his time to say yes ... Was a total ass to me a few times even.. (u may want to ... U know .. maybe grill him over it on my behalf)
Walking with him isn't really easy... Not that I hoped it would be ... But it's certainly very beautiful and fulfilling in its own messed up way..
I ain't an easy person to live with either...
No relationship is an all time 50-50... Somedays the ratios are all over the place ..
Somedays it's only one of us holding it together.. somedays we're both spiralling down the dark lanes... finding our way back to each other felt difficult at first, it's become a tid bit easier now ..
So it's a choice you make each time.. multiple choices everyday... This being long distance for us makes it a lil challenging... Coz ur dear friend has never been in one.. So everything lil thing we do or say steers the relationship into some direction... Holding it all together becomes a task... What helps is the will to want to be together... Glad that the both of us share this want.
Ooops! Didnt intend to write so much. yeah.. *Giggles* but all in all....
Thank you for being such a good friend to him.. a friendship he treasures so dearly. *Warm hugs* and lots of love.